Should I Actually Start HATING Women?

[gobsmacked3]

'

All Men are from Mars.....All Women are from Venus...'

A cute catchcry I have embraced in realising the difference between man and woman. One offering a whole host of delightful opportunities when you mix and match to make whole.

I have been blessed to have felt this through relatives, lovers and friends with Women completing me.

Admitting this has led to instant ostracization from my brotherhood with them branding me a 'White Knight.'

The dreaded 21st century 'Mark of Kane.'

How can I admit to adoring females when most deem them as the enemy?

Am I a Judas to my brethren?

Should I embrace the 21st-century hysteria bordering on cynicism, paranoia and sadly hatred towards women?

Embrace the victim mentality running rampant and become a little pussy. Join the chorus bemoaning those 'bitches' victimising us by being perpetual thorns in every aspect of our being.

Rather than accepting we are in deep denial over our failings with women.

We have both lost an understanding and the associated empathy with the ladies and in fact refuse even to entertain it. Choosing always to react without clarity rather than stepping back and seeing what is.

With the mindset, the saying I started this rant with has evolved:

' Women are from Venus.....Men are from Uranus....'

In short, men in this Age are 'full of shit.'

It is not just on an intimate level with women, all levels

The fact that the aforementioned 'White Knight' label exists for any one daring to admit to loving women highlights just how perverse we have become in our views.

We perpetuate a gulf between the sexes, in short:

'Irrational Misogyny 101'

More and more becoming blinded to a woman's needs, even basic needs. Communication stymied and stuttered with the 'us against them' Paranoia always bubbling under the surface. Choosing false bravado opposed to open honesty thinking we can entrap, and if we do it will last.

When exposed, never our failing, always her hating.

The need for the fantasy 'playa' mentality ruling in the male grey matter when it is all about being real on all levels. We have become such testically challenged 'posers' in the process losing the instinct for action.

On a basic level, cutting all the crap and listening and actively hearing women. Allowing her defences to come down in the knowledge that you feel empathy with what it is like to be in her shoes and forging a real connection.

Sowing seeds of true bliss where life has such joy and so many ecstatic levels.

Forget the HATE; I will continue adoring Women

[bluenose1872]

Not all women are the same but theyre generally similar, in the west anyway. can't accept responsibility for anything even though it blatantly is their fault. Bordering on psychotic tendencies, ie their moods are practised and facile, they care only what people think in public so they practise the wholesome, benevolent mask. The bitch comes out behind closed doors for feeding. Gossip and creating victims in the community. Believing anything they are told no matter how ridiculous. Attention seeking for some, causing fights between guys in pubs so they are the centre of attention. there's always guys there who'll take a few smacks in the face for their hole. The way tbey band together in a sisterhood of unquestioning, non-critical sheep when one of their own sex is in a bind. Its usually her boyfriend and they nearly go as far as burning effigys of the poor fucker she split with. Even if she's castrated him and attempted to cut out his heart when he was asleep, other women will automatically blame him and curse him to hell and back. Women have so many faults youd need to write an encyclopedia. Even though i dont hate them, that would be daft. Im very weary about which ones i even talk to though. Some women are just total trouble

[Rocket_Queen]

I love this! Gag is full of woman/man haters and I seriously have to take a break and remind myself that in the real world the average man loves women and the average woman loves men. Neither of us are these evil creatures. Keep loving woman! Most of us off of gag appreciate and love you men too!

[gobsmacked3]

Do I get a complimentary flogging from you?

[Rocket_Queen]

Definitely! 😈

[OlderAndWiser]

The phrase has evolved to "Men are from Mars; women are from a parallel universe!"

After 61 years, I still don't understand them but I still adore them. The MGTOW are a small but vocal minority and although they are loud, they are still a small minority of guys who simply never had any luck with women and didn't want to accept any responsibility for their failures.

Most men are quite happy that women are in their lives with all of the crazy differences they have. Just look at the world around you and you see couples walking down the street, eating together at restaurants, attending events. Those guys aren't screaming about how wonderful it is to have a woman in their lives; they are simply living the life and enjoying it!

You and I are not white knights; we are simply honest with ourselves and others. We are looking to make the best of our lives and we embrace James Taylor's simple words: "love's the finest thing around."

[hellionthesage]

No. Expecting women to be held accountable for their actions is not the same as hating women. In fact that is a straw man argument. The fact is we can prove statisticly that their is an extreme inequality between the sex's and women refuse to acknowledge it and the men who refuse to acknowledge what is provably true are labeled white knights. It has nothing to do with hating women and I think you are aware of that. Is wanting a male rapist to be punished for their crimes mean you hate men? No, so why is it the case when you want a female rapist punished?(women are as likely to rape men as men are to rape women but we as a society simply refuse to acknowledg it despite ample statistical data showing this to be true) Is wanting a man who raped a child to be held accountable for their actions mean that you hate men? No. So why would you claim that wanting to hold a woman who raped a child to be held accountable mean that these people hate women?(thanks to how society views women most female rapist of children rarely see any kind of real punishment and in certain areas like the US thanks to court rulings like hermmsman vs seyer they benefit from it (hermmsman was a 30 year old woman who raped a 12 year old boy, never whent to prison then successfully sued him for child support which he was forced to pay to his rapist at the age of 18(along with back pay and fines for not being legally allowed to pay for those years when he was still a minor). This ruling has been upheld countless times for women who have raped boys to women who have stolen a mens sperm (provably stolen no less). The fact is in all areas of life men are losing and many women attack any man who has the gall to say anything about this injustice. Any man who attacks men who point out this unfairness, like in that women have all paternal and reproductive rights while men have none or how 75% of all suicide victims are male or 98% of all workplace accidents are male, and that 80% of the homeless are male, are labeled white knights because they are actively trying to protect women from reality. The fact is men are suffering and many women thanks to feminism are convinced that they are the ones suffering not men, even as society continues to pander to women (hence womens health getting more funding then men (in your country five times as much) despite the fact that most diseases actually affect men at higher rates). So you and these women are exacerbating these problems allowing women to continue to

[hellionthesage]

get away with horrendous crimes like child rape or domestic violence (which women are actually more likely to commit then men as well as being more likely to commit emotional abuse and violence towards children). The fact is by allowing women to do what they will you are encouraging them to do what they will ie the reason women are more likely to commit violence towards children and men is not because its inherint but because we allow it. Imagine if we never punished men for these crimes what would happen? Men would commit them more because they would be enboldened by the lack of punishment. This is resulting in a degredation of society which has nothing to do with hating women and everything to do with hating the institutions and behaviors that allow women to function at their worse. If one is to go by your reasoning we would then have to label you a misandrist for criticising men

[hellionthesage]

(ironicly since we care so little about men in our society the term has little to no impact unlike the term misoginst which has a great affect, hence you claiming these men hate women as a way of shaming them into simply standing by while being mistreated and abused (which one could state that this would be the definition of being a "pussy" ie to allow oneself to be mistreated and abused with no attempt to defend themselves).

[hellionthesage]

In short, I love women just as I love humanity. That doesn't mean I don't hold them accountable for their actions or inactions. I love children, my nieces and nephews, that doesn't mean that I will not hold them accountable if they do something wrong, in fact I love them enough to step up and not allow them to be the worst possible version of themselves. Their is a distinction between hating women and expecting women to act like decent human beings. Its no different then with men.

[Cccgala]

Allow me to answer your questions.
Q: "Should I start HATING Women?"
A: It depends on you but I think it is unwise to do so especially you have expressed your love for them.

Q: "How can I admit to adoring females when most deem them as the enemy?"
A: Simple. Just admit. Haters gonna hate. Also, to each their own.

Q: "Am I a Judas to my brethren?"
A: No, it's the other way around; these misogynists are suited to be labelled as such.

Q: "Should I embrace the 21st-century hysteria bordering on cynicism, paranoia and, sadly, hatred towards women?"
A: This is confusing. It really entails a lot of things to do so. Embracing that hysteria would mean embracing excessively subjective matters.

[Anonymous]

My dad is like that; he belittles women, and their kind. He knocked up my mom, and left her to have me by herself, never try to contact me or spend time with me. 😔😕 don't be like that please. I get women are complicated creatures, and there are many bad women. But it's the same way with men.

[gobsmacked3]

women are awesome- never forget this :)

[Opinion Owner]

Thanks.

[kaylaS91]

No, of course you shouldn't start hating women. I know you aren't actually considering doing that but, in reality, men who choose to cope with a lack of success with some women are just doing themselves a greater misfavour.

Creating more hostility in themselves towards women, and only further encouraging the idea that they've already accepted as an absolute truth. That they won't go with women at all because of this or that, and anytime they hear of another guy who has been lied to or simply rejected, it continues to add fuel to the fire.

[Truthatanycost]

Surely if guys like the ones you just described do not go with women then it's doing women a favor..

[kaylaS91]

@Truthatanycost agreed! It's kind of silly to converse and try to reason with them, that maybe the issue doesn't lie with the majority of women but in their own self-confidence and whatnot. Which only riles them up even more saying that 'of course I'm shallow like all the rest'.
It's a lost fucking cause, I tell ya. 😑

[Truthatanycost]

Why would you try to reason with them? why would any woman?

[kaylaS91]

@Truthatanycost Because it's annoying af when they use any opportunity they can to call us manipulative, shallow sluts when there is no actual reason to what they're saying.

[TakeMaker]

Three things-

One: they are not, and never will be your brethren. The only thing you share with those people is the fact you have a dong.

Two: take a break from GaG, remember the world isn't quite as full of fucktard assholes crying over girls as it is here, the real world has real people getting on with their lives - it's so poisonous here it's hard to remember sometimes.

Three: nice take, never be ashamed for standing up for people and having love in your heart.

[Rock_Steakface]

Adore them all you want. You signal that virtue, buddy. But as someone who doesn't have any positive or negative emotional investment in women, I think you might be pulling a 40 Year Old Virgin here.

... no, I'm not saying you're a 40 year old virgin, but they said it better and funnier than I can in text.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WsnXQdkqChg

[Phoenix98]

We all know you could never hate women, you love giving oral to them to much for that lol.

And no we shouldn't hate women but we shouldn't accept or embrace the individuals of the female gender that give rise to certain ehh rageful and hateful feelings towards them. Because some of the mdon't make it easy but we shouldn't blame the many for the actions of the few and or misguided.

[DisastrousQu33n]

It's 4 a. m. and I didn't understand half of this but 👍👍👍👍👍👍👍 I get the idea 💟

[gobsmacked3]

I am Irish, we talk in riddles lol

[DisastrousQu33n]

Yeah.. I didn't think that was English😉

[Anonymous]

Men should not hate women.

But i'm sympathetic to the frustrations of young men and women today. I don't think people appreciate how changes in dating culture are shifting dating culture, shutting out more and more males while pushing girls to compete as porn stars for the few guys they all hook up with. It's not quite as bad as that... but that -is- sort of happening.

[Artist20]

there's no reason why you should hate women.
I didn't even read it, just the title and yea thats my answer.

[2tall2handle]

If some, not all women did not engender such hate from men, and quite possible that is the fault of feminism there would not be this issue. I don't hate all women, as I am sure all women don't hate all men.

[Truthatanycost]

To see the video version of this writing, search Youtube for 'Dear Woman'

[Rock_Steakface]

Anybody who values their sanity will not look up this video. You've been warned.

[Truthatanycost]

@Rock_Steakface Which one did you watch? One is a parody of the original but it's hard to tell the difference.

[Rock_Steakface]

I saw the original a while back. It was like staring into the abyss. Catching a glimpse of C'thuhlu's true form is a more pleasant experience.

[Truthatanycost]

@Rock_Steakface Haha, you should watch the parody by 'Funny Or Die', not easy to make a parody out of something that is already an unintentional one though.

[hellionthesage]

@Rock_Steakface I agree with your assesment. I would much rather stare at the insanity inducing visage of cthulu then watch that video again.

[Anonymous]

I think its a good thing that you hate women because women are cruel and mostly never love anything except themselves they just fool others into they love others this goes for children, family or anyone women just treat every other living being as toys to make them look better. They may be logical about it but deep down I think that's what a women's heart really represents.

[Opinion Owner]

Google this article youre-a-male-feminist-in-an-open-marriage
if this is love then I really don't think anybody should be proud of being living beings at all. That's kind of world where this will become love for all creatures if we try and respect women as equal and people want life to live in a world where this will be called love. I don't really care what others say but that's an abusive relationship she's just trying to take advantage of meek, melancholic, insecure person and frame it as love. you can call it what you want but if this is love there's no need for a sense of right or wrong anymore it needs to be destroyed. Be careful there are many women out there like this and take care that you or your friends don't end up meeting someone like this.

[LittleMissCuriousity]

I was expecting something hateful, and you surprised me.

[DizzyAster]

You could start hating them, but it seems like a lot of work.
I'm sure you have better things to do.

[Anonymous]

Agreed. And I will continue to adore (and respect) men as well... although no one ever really questions or hates on that though... lol.

[John_Doesnt]

Women, especially feminists, bring it on themselves.

[Anonymous]

I maybe could have understood this if it was written in plain English. Works better then poetry.

[somanybugs]

No woman would ever want a misogynistic guy. Just like no guy would ever want a feminist.