I was just about to ask that... im like "was I tagged in it... that would be pretty awesome... means I've fought my way to the top of the noticeable food chain lol..." thanks for the disappointment @Fathoms77 now i know im still in the ocean with no land in sight :) i wonder what is being tested.
Oh my myy, standing ovation for you here. I agreed on every level. Sigh at least there are men out there who actually get it. Sadly guys like you are either running out or hiding lol. I know maybe one in my whole country (not that it's very big but that's irrelevant :P ). Job well done
I say... go with "whatever works"... in your relationship!, and keep on doing it!! I think that's why communicating early in relationships has the upper hand!! Being, open, honest and getting a better understanding of the person your with,... is a relationship being built on solid ground, building a solid foundation,... without it?,... your relationship eventually crumbles down, and realize, you really weren't building anything to that relationship, solid is the key,. just gotta get your ideas, dreams, wants & hopes etc. Noticed, and as time, goes on & our seasons change, so do we ( as individuals) and as a couple, so our sit down communication open honest talks, need relooking over, and adjust things accordingly, the way "ya both" would like for it to be!!! Good Luck!!
I know there's been several comments otherwise on the No 5, but the only testing I do is make the guy meet my friends and parents. I have dated a couple of douches in my life and it's generally my friends who has told me so. So I'm happy for the ps you've included.
Shopping isn't for me, but I have such a wide perspective on my interests that most people I meet I can click with.
#4 is so damn true I wish it was tattoo to every guys brain! LEARN how to use that thing between your legs, I'm not going to faint with orgasm just because you have one. But if you are patient with me and yourself then DAMN you will find me VERY appreciative!!!
@Touglyforfemales Guys say that but you do realize 8 inches is just more than a little painful. My husband is 7 and that's quite enough thank you. I honestly can't image more than that. Thicker maybe but not longer 😉
@Touglyforfemales Because it really doesn't. I'll admit I've never been with a man who is two inches, so I don't know how that affects the sexual relationship. I can't answer that. I'd like to think if I was in love with him we would find a way to make it work, so size doesn't matter. I don't choose my partner based on the size of his cock I base it on multiple things, primarily my love for him. My joy for his penis is a big part of that but it's not in the top five. Does that make sense?
7. Well my crush is clean and smells good and has awesome hair, but she wears beat up shoes that she's drawn on or Crocs and outside of work just seems to wear t shirts and sweatshirts and those athletic shorts that show off her legs.
So I feel weird to wear like a button up shirt with her...
i want the no.1 !!! it was like valentines day and i was waiting for him to give like balloons or flowers (i also accept plastic stuffs even if isn't real :'( ) but he didn't.. its like it doesn't matter to him and just said "why would i give you? balloons would just shrink and flowers would just die.." WHAT THE... :'( sad valentine EVEEEERRR!!
About #5, probably more than a few guys out there would have no problem going along with whatever the girl wants to do. But if she wants to go to the Justin Bieber concert, knows for a fact that you hate him, but you say, "Yeah, sure, whatever you want, let's go," will she like that? Or will it be interpreted as weak? What happens if the guy says yes EVERY time?
I think its time for guys to stop telling Women how Women are., Kicking a habit IS difficult but you CAN do it. When you get the urge to tell me how i think/ feel/ act , just put down the key board. Go do something else.
Well, just to add, if women could help men be the guys they want with to be with without getting them friendshipzoned, that would be super amazing. By your logic, Cosmo should stop the "help the women with men" pages, agony aunt must piss off and basically psychologists of the same gender shouldn't give advice for what works for the other gender. Just saying.
also by your logic, women's advice would also get men girlfirends /laid if they new themselves so well, or they could get outof their own way to have succesful relationships...
@Don_Juan_Papi exactly. I've never met a women in real life who had helped me get a girl. They all say "aw, you sweet, you will find somebody amazing". That line fuckin infuriates me. If I could go back in time, I would have punched all those women in the teeth. That would definitely get me out the friendshipzone👊🏻
I have to disagree on #5. I can't stand shopping; especially when stores don't have, what I'm looking for. My late Dad never went with my Mom, on her shopping trips, unless she was buying for him. As for the rest, I agree on. Chivalry never goes out of style; including being polite-always.
https://m.imgur.com/gallery/NH0zEjj YESSSSS!!! Except the shopping.. I prefer to shop alone... and I wouldn't make it a test or something.. if he wants to come or has to buy something... sure.. if he doesn't.. I really wouldn't care... but the rest points are all valid 😄
Nice take but I think I will only do 8 and 1 if she is really deserving... If I think yes! She is the one..! and that she deserves being treated that good...
And that 5 is something I don't expect from a mature women... She needs to be crystal clear if she wants me to come or not... Cause I won't be free for her always and I don't have time or tolerance for amy stupid mind games...
Everyone should read up on the 5 languages of love. It explains why things sometimes breakdown even with the best intentions. Know what languages you speak and know what languages your partner speaks and you will have a better relationship. Google it and take the test.
Is it okay if I decide to not bother with mysterious puzzles on how to behave around girls? Because I literally have no desire and no leftover energy to analyze such nonsense.
I prefer honesty and open conversations. And I hate mindgames and mindfucks.
gosh. special days and the little things yes ! special days have to be special !
i love to give my lover gifts big and small and it makes me happy to know that it made him feel better. it's nice to receive too. i don't expect it but i appreciate it.
Yes absolutely that is 100% what you should take from my comment. I actually haven't seen any articles like that probably because I didn't get an annoying fucking notification for it like I did for yours.
Uh, I'm not, because I don't use the site much. If your only defense is "but they did it even way badder!!" then move along. Don't let me get to you so bad buddy.
I agree with everything about this, outside for "Size doesn't matter but how you do it does". You can perfect your skills, but you cannot enlarge your genitalia, so for me it is quite the opposite, as long as he shows dediction eager to learn. And don't get started with all the "There are different position where you can feel the smaller ones too..." BS, yes, it is true, but you can have the same exact position with a normal sized penis as well, and feel even better.
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Totally agree all those little things make a man really special and a woman feel appreciated and respected and valued. My last relationshiPhone ended because my ex just did not get the above he wanted everything from me but wasn't willing to give back in any way
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It's very easy
1. Get paper
2. Stay in shape
3. Compliment her when she deserves it like when she dresses up
4. Punish her when she is bad
5. Reward her when you think she deserves it
6. Take her out and show her a good time once in a while
7. Put yourself always first before her and have a life and don't become clingy with lovey mushy shit.
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Although this is a great take I have to ask
Why was this myTake in my notifications?
We're testing something.
I was just about to ask that... im like "was I tagged in it... that would be pretty awesome... means I've fought my way to the top of the noticeable food chain lol..."
thanks for the disappointment @Fathoms77 now i know im still in the ocean with no land in sight :)
i wonder what is being tested.
too propaganda, still it's never successful for me, why I'm being Deaf... Largest Single in years.
I lose this read.
Yep it was on my notification too. WTF!!
Oh my myy, standing ovation for you here. I agreed on every level. Sigh at least there are men out there who actually get it. Sadly guys like you are either running out or hiding lol. I know maybe one in my whole country (not that it's very big but that's irrelevant :P ). Job well done
I say... go with "whatever works"... in your relationship!, and keep on doing it!! I think that's why communicating early in relationships has the upper hand!! Being, open, honest and getting a better understanding of the person your with,... is a relationship being built on solid ground, building a solid foundation,... without it?,... your relationship eventually crumbles down, and realize, you really weren't building anything to that relationship, solid is the key,. just gotta get your ideas, dreams, wants & hopes etc. Noticed, and as time, goes on & our seasons change, so do we ( as individuals) and as a couple, so our sit down communication open honest talks, need relooking over, and adjust things accordingly, the way "ya both" would like for it to be!!! Good Luck!!
I know there's been several comments otherwise on the No 5, but the only testing I do is make the guy meet my friends and parents. I have dated a couple of douches in my life and it's generally my friends who has told me so. So I'm happy for the ps you've included.
Shopping isn't for me, but I have such a wide perspective on my interests that most people I meet I can click with.
#4 is so damn true I wish it was tattoo to every guys brain! LEARN how to use that thing between your legs, I'm not going to faint with orgasm just because you have one. But if you are patient with me and yourself then DAMN you will find me VERY appreciative!!!
Oh sure you say that now but if you had
the choice between a 8" or a 4 I doubt
you'd pick the 4.
@Touglyforfemales Guys say that but you do realize 8 inches is just more than a little painful.
My husband is 7 and that's quite enough thank you. I honestly can't image more than that. Thicker maybe but not longer 😉
And that's my point size does matter cause if it didn't you would of said 4" is just as good. Hence way all women are size Queen's.
@Touglyforfemales LOL I just said that to get you riled up LOL
So just say size matters then. I don't know why its so hard to admit it.
@Touglyforfemales Because it really doesn't. I'll admit I've never been with a man who is two inches, so I don't know how that affects the sexual relationship. I can't answer that. I'd like to think if I was in love with him we would find a way to make it work, so size doesn't matter.
I don't choose my partner based on the size of his cock I base it on multiple things, primarily my love for him. My joy for his penis is a big part of that but it's not in the top five.
Does that make sense?
I guess.
7. Well my crush is clean and smells good and has awesome hair, but she wears beat up shoes that she's drawn on or Crocs and outside of work just seems to wear t shirts and sweatshirts and those athletic shorts that show off her legs.
So I feel weird to wear like a button up shirt with her...
i want the no.1 !!! it was like valentines day and i was waiting for him to give like balloons or flowers (i also accept plastic stuffs even if isn't real :'( ) but he didn't.. its like it doesn't matter to him and just said "why would i give you? balloons would just shrink and flowers would just die.." WHAT THE... :'( sad valentine EVEEEERRR!!
About #5, probably more than a few guys out there would have no problem going along with whatever the girl wants to do. But if she wants to go to the Justin Bieber concert, knows for a fact that you hate him, but you say, "Yeah, sure, whatever you want, let's go," will she like that? Or will it be interpreted as weak? What happens if the guy says yes EVERY time?
I think its time for guys to stop telling Women how Women are., Kicking a habit IS difficult but you CAN do it. When you get the urge to tell me how i think/ feel/ act , just put down the key board. Go do something else.
As Spencer Tracy said to Catherine Hepburn In DeskSet.
(Before she kicked his butt in his own IQ Test,)
" Never Assume. "
Women seem to have no problem telling men how they are... why exactly can't the door swing both ways? ;)
Great quote and not to nitpick, but it's Katherine with a "K."
Well, just to add, if women could help men be the guys they want with to be with without getting them friendshipzoned, that would be super amazing. By your logic, Cosmo should stop the "help the women with men" pages, agony aunt must piss off and basically psychologists of the same gender shouldn't give advice for what works for the other gender. Just saying.
also by your logic, women's advice would also get men girlfirends /laid if they new themselves so well, or they could get outof their own way to have succesful relationships...
*knew
@Don_Juan_Papi exactly. I've never met a women in real life who had helped me get a girl. They all say "aw, you sweet, you will find somebody amazing". That line fuckin infuriates me. If I could go back in time, I would have punched all those women in the teeth. That would definitely get me out the friendshipzone👊🏻
I have to disagree on #5. I can't stand shopping; especially when stores don't have, what I'm looking for. My late Dad never went with my Mom, on her shopping trips, unless she was buying for him. As for the rest, I agree on. Chivalry never goes out of style; including being polite-always.
https://m.imgur.com/gallery/NH0zEjj
YESSSSS!!!
Except the shopping.. I prefer to shop alone... and I wouldn't make it a test or something.. if he wants to come or has to buy something... sure.. if he doesn't.. I really wouldn't care... but the rest points are all valid 😄
Wrong link :P
https://i.imgur.com/NH0zEjj.gif
@YourFutureEx awww.. What would I do without you..!
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Sleep and dream about me maybe?
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@YourFutureEx already done 😉😌😏
I personally Can not stand it when Girls say "I'm fine " When they aren't it's a bullshit move. Just say what's wrong.
Nice take but I think I will only do 8 and 1 if she is really deserving... If I think yes! She is the one..! and that she deserves being treated that good...
And that 5 is something I don't expect from a mature women... She needs to be crystal clear if she wants me to come or not... Cause I won't be free for her always and I don't have time or tolerance for amy stupid mind games...
Everyone should read up on the 5 languages of love. It explains why things sometimes breakdown even with the best intentions. Know what languages you speak and know what languages your partner speaks and you will have a better relationship. Google it and take the test.
I have learned a lot from that book. It has enhanced many of my friendships and familial relationships. :)
Is it okay if I decide to not bother with mysterious puzzles on how to behave around girls? Because I literally have no desire and no leftover energy to analyze such nonsense.
I prefer honesty and open conversations.
And I hate mindgames and mindfucks.
gosh. special days and the little things yes ! special days have to be special !
i love to give my lover gifts big and small and it makes me happy to know that it made him feel better. it's nice to receive too. i don't expect it but i appreciate it.
Thank you, a non-female, for writing a big ass thing about what women want.
ffs.
But women writing about what men want, which by far and away outnumbers the articles written by men on the subject, is perfectly okay. Yes?
Yes absolutely that is 100% what you should take from my comment. I actually haven't seen any articles like that probably because I didn't get an annoying fucking notification for it like I did for yours.
If you haven't seen any myTakes written by women about what men want on GaG, you're really not paying attention.
Uh, I'm not, because I don't use the site much. If your only defense is "but they did it even way badder!!" then move along. Don't let me get to you so bad buddy.
Heh. I don't do internet drama.
I merely said there were articles from both viewpoints on this site, whether you choose to read them or not.
I agree with everything about this, outside for "Size doesn't matter but how you do it does". You can perfect your skills, but you cannot enlarge your genitalia, so for me it is quite the opposite, as long as he shows dediction eager to learn.
And don't get started with all the "There are different position where you can feel the smaller ones too..." BS, yes, it is true, but you can have the same exact position with a normal sized penis as well, and feel even better.
Totally agree all those little things make a man really special and a woman feel appreciated and respected and valued. My last relationshiPhone ended because my ex just did not get the above he wanted everything from me but wasn't willing to give back in any way
It's very easy
1. Get paper
2. Stay in shape
3. Compliment her when she deserves it like when she dresses up
4. Punish her when she is bad
5. Reward her when you think she deserves it
6. Take her out and show her a good time once in a while
7. Put yourself always first before her and have a life and don't become clingy with lovey mushy shit.
8. Your dick game on point.