Nice guys finish last, but only around the first lap!

[clampfan101]

When you're in a race, you don't need to be in first place around FIRST lap. You need to finish first around the LAST lap!

Love is much the same. Don't rush and try to get to intimacy asap! In a race, you need to start steady and get a good feel of the track and what you're up against. Trying to reach a woman, you need to take things slow in the beginning of the relationship, starting as friends as you get to know what she's likes, and what she's looking for.

And remember, in races and love, cheaters never ever win!

[Cuddlewolves]

Great analogy. I completely agree. Some people are so quick to rush into things and those kinds of relationships aren't guaranteed to last. "Nice" guys are the ones that are mature enough for long-term relationships.

[clampfan101]

Thank you very much. 😊