Love Requires Balance
Most dysfunctionally relations are chaotic with the scale getting tilted because no equalization is there for the individuals to grow as a individual. One will try to get the other jealous to satisfy their own self-worth. Or one may try to cheat on the other to satisfy their ego of seeing themselves as greater than the other. All of these behaviors often feature the same actions like lying, false attitudes and manipulation.
Trust is balance, responsibility is balance. If your partner didn't level you out. The relationship wouldn't be stable enough for everyone to be happy. When you have a bad day, you can always count on your lover to make you feel better. When you have a good day, your partner can bring you back to reality so you don't make erratic decisions, for example like spending excessive money on something that isn't needed. Even when you argue with your lover, your lover often points out a perspective that you could not see yourself because of the ego. Every couple will go through these trials and tribulations. Yes, you will argue with your lover at some point. Going through these phases are just a growing period for yourself and for them.
Your Partner Makes You Better
If your partner didn't make you better, you wouldn't view them as anything special. Your partner is suppose to change you. It's normal to consider children with your significant other after you have completed through all the trials and tribulations. You know you would be committed to raising children with them and that you would do anything for them. The more time you have your significant other in your life, the more you will grow as a person. Ask yourself if your partner really makes you better as a person? Are you really in love or just in love with yourself?
Love is like a Smoothie, Her and Him Have to Blend into a Good Drink
Have you ever met someone and when it was just so easy for them to fall in love with you. You just lost interest? Well, it's not because you enjoy dating a significant other who treats you badly. It's because you are looking for someone who is your equal. They have to compliment you on who you are. You have to compliment them on who they are. Everyone has their own personalities and traits. Finding the one who fits you perfectly is what marriage is about. It is worth going through all the heart-aches and all the breakups with the ones who didn't fit just right. It really is worth it, when you experience true love when they feel it the same as you. There is nothing better in the world.
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