How I Know That I Should NOT Be Married! 👀 (Page 2)

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Xper 5 Age: 58

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That is a good take. I respect and applaud your decision.

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Xper 4 Age: 34

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This a good read! I love how expressive you were. I would certainly enjoy discussing topics with your type of crowd. 👍😂😎

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- akumetsu
  
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  Although you weren't exactly clear of how you want to be loved. You seem to be flip flop on this.
  
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- Rexnine9
  
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  thanks for the up vote
  
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- Ellie-V
  
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  @Rexnine9 no problem ☺️
  
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Xper 5 Age: 26

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Marriage shouldn't be on your mind in my opinion. It is something you do when you truly love someone and want to live together forever. It shouldn't be on your mind until you find that perfect person.

By the way, I can relate to this.

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At 23, there's still plenty of time to change your mind. One of the luxuries of youth...

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- Ellie-V
  
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  I’m going to change my mind about a lot of things—that’s how reality works.
  But marriage and long term relationship are too big of a deal. I know that I could change my mind about those things but I doubt that I will.
  
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Xper 7 Age: 26

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Marriage isn't bad, just the couples should know how much serious it is, how much they really rely on each other and love

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- Ellie-V
  
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  I didn’t say marriage was bad
  
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CuChullan Follow
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A good, readable take. You're not alone in how you feel. Many women think and feel the same. Society is changing.

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Xper 2 Age: 23

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i dont have what it takes to be in a long term relationship? can you elaborate more

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- Highsxhoolstudent15
  
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  Yes can u elaborate more
  
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- Ellie-V
  
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  Relationships take desire and commitment...
  Two things that I am willing to put into any relationship excluding the romantic kind
  
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- Highsxhoolstudent15
  
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  Why tho
  
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- Ellie-V
  
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  It’s just not something I want. It’s unnecessary for my life.
  
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Xper 6 Age: 51

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Got pretty combative a few places up there; I kind of took this as a MyVent...

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- Ellie-V
  
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  I wasn’t really venting but okay
  
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- DesertCreature
  
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  That's cool, just saying how it came off at times like you were arguing a position instead of relating one. I wasn't looking to be married anytime soon when I was your age either.
  
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- Ellie-V
  
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  We are two different people
  
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Xper 3 Age: 29

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Great MyTake and good for you for realizing all this and embracing yourself

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Xper 6 Age: 33

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Just keep calm and accept the fact that no one us perfect and choose the partner according to your heart's will.

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- Ellie-V
  
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  I’m fine... what are you on?
  
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I'm curious how you would feel if the guy your in a long term relationship with couldn't have sex due to ED. Would you dump his ass? 😂

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- Ellie-V
  
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  I wouldn’t be in a long term relationship in the first place, but if I was, the ED wouldn’t bother me because as I’ve already mentioned... I don’t value sex as much as others do
  
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Xper 5 Age: 38

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Everyone is different and there's nothing wrong with that. Some people marriage works and for others it just doesn't.

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Xper 6 Age: 26

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Half of marriage is trust and expectations, so it's okay to not be ready. I'm definitely not ready to get married right now, so I'm learning how to just be my own person and love myself.

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- Ellie-V
  
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  It’s not a matter of readiness. Marriage is just not something I want for myself.
  I have relationships that are already built on trust and expectations... but I don’t feel the need to make those romantic
  
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- dae07102
  
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  I can understand that too.
  
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bamesjond0069 Follow
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You sound like a train wreck, don't worry, I am sure not too many men will be wanting to marry you.

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- Ellie-V
  
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  Train wreck how?
  
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Xper 5 Age: 36

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Well, you have good reason. Nobody can make you marry anyone.

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Master Age: 34

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Interesting read and you put some thought into it. thanks...

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JudgmentDay Follow
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I see no point in doing so one way or another anyway.

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sp33d Follow
Guru Age: 37

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There's no need to make it look like something complicated. I know I should not be taking up extreme sports due to a bad back. So I won't. Very simple.

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Lance1965 Follow
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Some people are just not made for marriage but most of those people discover that the hard way. I knew a couple of years into my marriage that it should have never happened.

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Good take.. Honestly the way i see it is Marriage is not for every one. I'm married with no plans to have kids yet, and we both agree on this.

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