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I will never cry in front of any girlfriend ever again⚠️ (Page 4)
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She was a bitch and it wouldn’t have worked out. I’m sorry she hurt you like that. Men should be able to express their emotions too. I’ve known men to cry and it has never made me think any less of them.
Good to know.
It's okay to show emotion we are all human. That's why it's better to be around family in these type of situations rather then your girlfriend, because family love usually most of the time isn't questionable. Rarely do you find a die-hard girlfriend that stick with through thick and thin. Hang on there bro, life's a bitch, but sooner or later you'll make her your bitch 😎
Naw, she's trash. In my life there's no room for trash but there's room for a proper girlfriend now 😎
Well, the good news is that I dodged a bullet.
I wanted to take my time and actually see if I could read through it. I respect that you're putting this out there (anonymous or not), as it's also something I wouldn't have ever considered. Right before you even mentioned it, I did think of it as this sort of "shit test", to test a woman's loyalty.
And sadly, yeah, I don't think that woman was right for you. I think she did you wrong, and you shouldn't have to be afraid to be yourself. Like you say, men are still human, and we're still people before the other way around.
I never had this happen when crying in front of them, they stayed with me and was happy to see some emotion from me since I’m not as affectionate as I should be. I think she left because she couldn’t handle you in that way and I’m sure she felt bad leaving you but probably thought it was best. I’m sorry you went through all that though but definitely don’t cry if she does because that’s when she wants us to be strong at the moment
She's toxic and unworthy. I'll find myself a better and worthy lady of my love and tears.
Yeah you just need a good woman and I hope you find her
Thank you, brother!
No problem
Crying before a woman owing to some deep hurt does not make him any less manly in her eyes. A mature woman would understand that more easily.
I agree. However practice shows it's varying by around half-half.
1. She's an evil bitch.
2. Find better women who aren't evil bitches.
If she can't handle a man crying, she's just plain evil and unworthy of love, altogether. It's that simple.
I knew that one ex was an evil bitch the moment she told me that she had problems with men crying. I flat-out told her that, as a grown man, I'll cry when a damned well feel like it and nobody get to tell me otherwise.
If a woman can't handle you crying, ditch her bitch ass, kick her to the curb. She's just a pile of stinking shit.
I would never leave a man if they cried in front of me, I have more respect for a man who shows how he feels rather than tries to act all strong and tough.
Good to know!
I find it strange to just assume she left you because she saw you crying one single time. Men cry too, that is not a secret or something most women are unaware of.
I mean what you told sounded like she actually responded positively, she even came to you, you cuddled, and she was there for you when you were crying.
Then two weeks later she just leaves. Well, sucks, but what exactly made you think it was because yoi cried?
It didn't take long until she ghosted me, so I have a close association with that. Besides she never told me, so all I am left is with assumptions.
Either way that's one less problem for me to worry about. She is in fact toxic based on how it all went after the crying and I don't negotiate with toxic bitches. I lost nothing but a lying bitch. Good for me.
Unfortunately, you just chose the wrong girl. You should be able to express your true and honest feelings to your partner. If not, then show them the door.
Thank you for your words!
Well, she's out fortunately. She's blocked and forgotten everywhere on my end. Got no room or time for toxic people.
Oh please 🙄 senior perinfection what a great word I just invented you are weak as puppy 🐶 pisser if you really must cry don’t do a lot of it maybe just a little bit but do it while running 🏃♀️ remember just a little bit
i’m sorry you feel that way. though you should be happy coz it take courage to show your vulnerability to someone. Use your experience to be better for yourself. find someone who is worthy of your tears.
I thank you for your words of wisdom!
People would say "oh but if they love you their view won't change even if they see you crying" but actually this take is very true and happened to me also... I cried infront of my girlfriend and her attitude changed towards me after a while... women prefer to do the crying in a relationship and have their man comfort to them so when a man cries a woman subconsciously feels that he can't support her if he can't support himself... Great take 👍.
See that's exactly what I'm talking about mate!
Doomed if you don't cry. Doomed if you do cry. Ain't life a bitch. There's simply no winning 😂
Just sit back and enjoy the show.
Were raised and expected to be masculine and people think crying is a female thing, i do it all the time and i would certainly do it in front of my girlfriend, she knows how much i struggle to keep going and im ok with expressing my emotions because i could care less what people think about me, the only persons opinion that matters to me is the woman's i love
That chick was just a lying bitch. Don't let one bad grape ruin the bunch! I wouldn't care if any dude of mine cried. We're all human.
Good to know!
but why cry in the first place? like why would u feel the need to?
i see so many guys on this site now acting salty how guys aren't generally supposed to cry and its seen as weak, but you could always cry, we never been biased against it, men have always been able to cry and u can go ahead and cry whenever u like, its jus many guys dont feel the need to ever cry cos we dont care about anything enough, well i dont anyway,
i think ur jus purposely cried to try and prove a point that men can cry and rebel against the norm, when the rule that men can't cry was never put there in the first place lol
i have no shame to cry and will cry if i feel like it... i cried a few times... well about 2 times... and both times i never actually felt sad or like crying, it was jus fake put on crying to make someone feel bad and sorry for me lol
I’ve been conditioned to see crying as weak also and won’t let anyone see me cry. Not even my super close female best friends. I understand the struggle and it’s not fair, especially on guys who are even more conditioned to see it as a weakness.
Welcome to our world.
I just hope one day I meet someone who understands and feels the same way so we could work on showing those negative emotions to each other
Together with you i am looking forward for that day to come. ✊
all the other girls/women whatever they are or want to be addressed as who are just attacking you
probably are like your girlfriend lmao no worries tho I myself like (LOVE ACTUALLY) guys who cry be it over little things or big things I feel trusted and I can tell that he's sensitive and feel very safe since I myself cry a lot and can relate to him it's cute too but that is just me being weird.
Thank you for your words!
Im sorry that you had this experience. My first boyfriend cried in front of me and later ghosted me. I never thought it was weak of him to cry but if you feel that what you learned is applicable to the rest of your life then just take it as a lesson on trusting others with your vulnerabilities
I have already developed this plan. Crying is our "shit test" for any girlfriend :>
Nothing bad intended.
Women trying to convince you to open up and show your emotions is just another one of their many shit tests.
That's all a woman is, one shit test after another.
Shit! I wish you were wrong but what the hell man. It is what it is.
Did you know it's actually more damaging and mentally unhealthy to bottle up your emotions whereas if you cry you're letting that steam out.
It's like microwaving something. If you keep the lid shut then a whole lot of steam with stay trapped in and eventually leave it to bursting, whereas if you left a hole for the steam to be let loose then it will won't burst.
I know.
I like strong women, if she can't handle male humanity then she can fuck right off.
my advice, don't be bitter!!! be thankful you avoided a bullet man! imagine if you had kids with her or got married?
You got it! She's toxic and unworthy. I blocked and deleted her on my end. She shall be forgotten history. I'll find myself a better and worthy lady of my love and tears.