I will never cry in front of any girlfriend ever again⚠️ (Page 5)

[Jager66]

I like strong women, if she can't handle male humanity then she can fuck right off.

my advice, don't be bitter!!! be thankful you avoided a bullet man! imagine if you had kids with her or got married?

[myTake Owner]

You got it! She's toxic and unworthy. I blocked and deleted her on my end. She shall be forgotten history. I'll find myself a better and worthy lady of my love and tears.

[kestrelkil]

Dude this is so un healthy its beyond the pale. I cry in front of my girlfriend and guess what now we are married and have 2 kids. She left get, dont blame the crying as the reason, and if it was great you escaped a shitty person

[myTake Owner]

You're right. That heartless bitch is now blocked and deleted from my end. She's forgotten history. Now it's time to bloom in life and there's room for a proper girlfriend worthy of my love and tears ☺

[incelposting]

Females do not like weakness.
Any display of vulnerability in front of them, especially if you are unattractive, is a sure fire way to make them hate you.

Females are the ones in society with a monopoly on vulnerability, being weak means They are protected. Men cannot share this as it infringes on their territory.

[Anonymous]

Honestly just let her go. You don't need to buy that real men don't cry crap. Plenty of people in jail cry or if they lose their jobs, friends die etc Men that don't cry either haven't experienced enough bad things or they're holding it in and will release it in some way.

Obviously don't cry over small things though eg your sports team lost, you didn't get things your way etc. That stuff is a bit over the top.

[myTake Owner]

Screw her, she's blocked, banned, deleted. I'll just reap success now.

[penguin_14]

If she was true and loyal she would stick by you during your good and bad times and wouldn't leave you just because you cried once.

[namino]

I do agree with your comment

[myTake Owner]

I agree as well entirely!

[Dextrosis]

Unfortunately true, but I disagree with the method proposed here.

Let it come naturally whenever it occurs, and don't start a relationship with somebody until you've been in the position to confide in each other and both have willingly accepted each other's feel dump.

[Anonymous]

This guys girlfriend: "well i dont mind that we never have time to spend together, he's always irritable, and his house is always a complete mess, but CRYING? Ugh what a puss! Just for that im getting out of here!"

Im not trying to make fun, but parts of the story seem to be missing.

[myTake Owner]

What's missing?
I was always up for spending time together but she wasn't so much up for it.
irritable how?
my house is neither a mess nor a clean place. Still I do my parts of keeping it clean.

Not much happened during those 2 weeks post me crying. She gradually began to cease contact until she began to completely ghost me. Everything seemed normal except she started fading away after the day I cried.

[Juxtapose]

Just because you had one bad experience doesn't mean you should bottle up. Stop trying so hard to impress women anyway, the right woman won't need you to.

[myTake Owner]

I'm not even trying.

[LuWe22]

Don´t cry in front of men also. They will think you are on your period, that you are a crazy bitch or a crybaby.

[Twalli]

My girlfriend cried in front of me. Or more precisely into my chest at night on a vacation. I comforted her and the next day and all through the next two weeks she was fine. If you truly love and care about someone, crying is not a turn off. It can deepen your relationship, because you can comfort your SO.

[LuWe22]

@Twalli Yes of course. You can show your feelings in front of your SO. I´m a bit careful with my emotions. I´m working on it to let them show. But I would never cry in front of strangers, coworkers or classmates.

[Streak]

The wrong type of man thinks those things

[Snakeyes7]

@LuWe22 If your boyfriend thinks that you are crying because you are on your period, being a crybaby or being a bitch, maybe you aren’t making yourself clear on why you are crying. Have you tried telling him why you were crying? Men who love you have no other reason to think of why you are crying if all you say to him when he asks what’s wrong is “nothing”. I’m not saying you do that but this is the typical response I get in a situation like this.

[myTake Owner]

So women experience the stigma of crying too?

[PrettyRegular]

Not true. It's a good and very important thing to show your emotions to your girlfriend. I don't believe she left you because of that, but if she did, there's obviously something wrong with her. Most women would dislike, if their boyfriend doesn't show their emotions.

[Xoirwinkan]

Cry in the rain, with only Thor playing sad guitar solos to see you. I however, feel like a "stone man", feeling no emotion, unless I get hit with something strong, or let myself delve past my armour. perhaps thats also why I absurdly find it hard to connect to even pets. Yeahh... Im a mess.

[Evil_Chuck]

Women say they want us to open up, but their idea of this is quite different from the reality of how it happens, why it happens, and how they would perceive it after it happened. Showing a high degree of weakness to a woman who depends on you for stability is an extraordinarily bad idea. I've done it occasionally, but the woman never respected me afterwards.

[AdrenaLynx]

Don't base it on the ex. A lot of us do not care if you cry.

[myTake Owner]

That's kind of unsurprising.

[AdrenaLynx]

I think you and a few others misunderstood

[myTake Owner]

Then what did you mean?

[UnicornLobotomy]

You are absolutely right. Men should not cry in public, unless it is in front of their mother and only if their mother was/is not a bitch, and was at least a good mother to them. There are a few other exceptions: a funeral of your child, your father, sister, mother, brother, or best friend.

[Anonymous]

I’m sorry but I would never leave my man if he cried in front of me? Why would I? It shows he got emotions which is normal, I’d love to be there and support.

[aleksi_siltala10]

Here is one of those lovely girls already 🤣

[God-vs-Satan]

Do not let other women dictate what makes men real. Real men cry and have emotions and show their emotions. If she can't understand that, she shouldn't be with you and you should find another woman.

[myTake Owner]

I agree 100% bro ✊
These heartless bitches should get lost far away into desolation and oblivion.

[Jaimie2001]

I don’t think it’s bad to cry in front of your girlfriend

[myTake Owner]

I don't know how you got these downvotes :/ It's weird.

[CassMi]

Sorry mate, you should be able to cry. There is nothing that says your not manly if you cry, it's good to show your feelings.

[myTake Owner]

I agree!

[SassyAzz05]

It’s okay to cry sometimes. Just because you are male it doesn’t mean you’re a robot.

Find someone that actually cares about you

[myTake Owner]

Certainly!

[HungLikeAHorsefly]

This is kind of stupid.

One day, I stopped off to get a bagel for breakfast on my way to work. An hour later, planes flew into the World Trade Center.

NEVER GET BAGELS ON YOUR WAY TO WORK. It causes terrorism.