I don't see it as being manly, i see it as being self-reliant in the eventuality that she leaves you; it makes you more attractive to women so that you have more options to choose from.
Or, simply because you live there too. You used those dishes. You wore those clothes. You got stuff on the floor. You help clean. That's how a family works, no matter how small.
Yeah I'm not really to keen on doing housework after working 9-14 hour days at my manual labor job where I lift and move usually at minimum 10,000 pounds a day by hand.
You know that women aren't the only ones who have jobs and come home tired, men work too. So no they both can share doing housework and not just men because women want to "kick their heels and put their feet up".
No, just no. Cut the lawn, paint the rooms, fix the dishwasher. There was a study that showed that guys who helped with the housework got less sex not more. Be the man.
When I had a girlfriend I loved being in the kitchen with her. I can't cook worth a damn so I would end up prepping things for her. Even if I could cook, both of my girlfriends loved it so much I doubt they would let me do it anyways. Also, weirdly enough, I like doing dishes. The only chore I HATE doing is laundry because of the time it takes.
Since 90 percent of women make less cash than their male counterparts this is a convenient way to get out of household work. Housework is thankless and endless. It should never be dumped on one partner. Sharing it eases the monotony. If you live in the household help maintain it. If someone is working 60 hour weeks, sure, you aren't going to be pitching in 50 50. But few jobs require that kind of overtime. A truck driver isn't going to be able to pitch in as much... But a regular working guy and woman can work out something equitable.
The natural order is that the woman would stay home and the man would work and no matter how much we try to avoid this fact we can’t. Men don’t make more cause of some conspiracy either, they provide more value and thus get value in return. Not to say they shouln’t ever help out but if they make most of the money and they usually do, they should come home to a meal and a clean house
Well these men are shallow, and the women that date these types of men put themselves in horrible situations. 50/50 for life! Yet these types of men get women.. How?
Because women don't want a man who treats them like shit, if you treat anything as shit It will hate you. Even if you treat a dog badly he'll end up biting you and (hopefully) even killing you
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I don't see it as being manly, i see it as being self-reliant in the eventuality that she leaves you; it makes you more attractive to women so that you have more options to choose from.
Or, simply because you live there too. You used those dishes. You wore those clothes. You got stuff on the floor. You help clean. That's how a family works, no matter how small.
Yeah I'm not really to keen on doing housework after working 9-14 hour days at my manual labor job where I lift and move usually at minimum 10,000 pounds a day by hand.
Also I don't really see it as manly.
@Phoenix98
Do you fo any house work?
@MysteriousDarkness I'll cook and clean when I need to but as I said I normally don't because I'm just to tired and drained normally.
I don’t really know any men who don’t expect to split them.
I also don’t know many people male or female whose spouse seems to really appreciate what they do even if they’re doing 85% of the work.
You know that women aren't the only ones who have jobs and come home tired, men work too. So no they both can share doing housework and not just men because women want to "kick their heels and put their feet up".
I do all the cleaning already. I haven't met a woman in my life that actually cleans, aside from the women on active duty.
No, just no. Cut the lawn, paint the rooms, fix the dishwasher. There was a study that showed that guys who helped with the housework got less sex not more. Be the man.
I think it is more fun and consider it as a bonus activity, doing something together
When I had a girlfriend I loved being in the kitchen with her. I can't cook worth a damn so I would end up prepping things for her. Even if I could cook, both of my girlfriends loved it so much I doubt they would let me do it anyways. Also, weirdly enough, I like doing dishes. The only chore I HATE doing is laundry because of the time it takes.
I'm a little bit ocd on cleanliness don't like clutter kettle toaster has to be in a cupboard minimalist makes cleaning up easy
If we both work all day we should split the chores, sure, but whoever is working less and bringing home less cash should pick up the slack at home.
Since 90 percent of women make less cash than their male counterparts this is a convenient way to get out of household work. Housework is thankless and endless. It should never be dumped on one partner. Sharing it eases the monotony. If you live in the household help maintain it. If someone is working 60 hour weeks, sure, you aren't going to be pitching in 50 50. But few jobs require that kind of overtime. A truck driver isn't going to be able to pitch in as much... But a regular working guy and woman can work out something equitable.
The natural order is that the woman would stay home and the man would work and no matter how much we try to avoid this fact we can’t. Men don’t make more cause of some conspiracy either, they provide more value and thus get value in return. Not to say they shouln’t ever help out but if they make most of the money and they usually do, they should come home to a meal and a clean house
I love doing the housework a lot more than my fiancée does
Well these men are shallow, and the women that date these types of men put themselves in horrible situations. 50/50 for life! Yet these types of men get women.. How?
Because women don't want a man who treats them like shit, if you treat anything as shit It will hate you. Even if you treat a dog badly he'll end up biting you and (hopefully) even killing you
Not sure what you are getting at? No one wants to be treated like shit.
Unequal treatment
Obviously. The house is both of YOURS. So split the chores.
The definition of "housework" has changed dramatically over the years. Cooking used to be a man's job, but now it's considered housewife work.
it’s not manly but fun if the guy does help with household chores.
Why isn't it manly?
hey woman lover
this is so common sense. any man that can't clean is a bum that does not deserve life.
You kinda have some obsession with men being submissive
Whos ever said its not manly? Its sharing responsibilities which is part of being manly.
Lol just read the rest of comments apparently im wrong.
I already do all the housework myself. And I make Adrian Monk look like a slob.
people just need to stop deciding what is manly and what is not.