obviously live is full of compromises but set your boundaries once and don't cross them, cause crossing them is litterally stepping over the edge into a downward spiral that leads you into abusive relationships and mental issues.
Taking the time to find and know people enough to back up with actions how they "say" they are. Less texting as communication and more talking, directing "real" time together. Go more slowly instead of rushing into a relationship with someone barely know. All things people seem to be doing these days.
Don't gain too much faith or it will come crashing down iv been told I have wisdom beyond my years can't argue with that my viewpoints are completely lost to people my age yet it seems on par with the older people
Everything mentioned in this mytake are things women have and always will wipe their asses with in their youth and regret it after no man will want them. I've been rejected enough times to know that women will never want me and so I e lost faith in all women. I see no point in forgiving women.
I'm sorry cuz that's no way to live. Look we've had words. Cuz you and some don't get, as much as you may have been hurt by a woman/ women, some women have been equally hurt by men. I was molested by my father by 5, physically abused by my first husband, among other things Im not going fo get into. But still, don't use that as excuse fo hate/ bash all men. Wouldn't of had my second hubby if I had. Not that it mattered seeing he died anyway. That's what pisses me off tho, you people hating/ wasting life I'd give anything to get back. Be angry,, fine, but at the people/ person who directly hurt you. Don't use that as excuse fyi be rude, disrespectful to people sho don't deserve it, you don't know what they been through is all I'm saying. Hear it or don't🤷♀️
I've been met with mostly cruelty whenever I tried to live my life and find a woman to love me for me to love her but things didn't seem to fall into place, especially in highschool but now as an adult I still feel like women just make fun of me or reject me anyway just like I was back in highschool. It's really hard for me to be nice and forgiving when it's just easier to avoid women and it's fun to watch women rot just like Karen Cross who only ruined herself while the man she abandoned ended up hating her for life for trying to come back into his life and possibly ruining 3 relationships for him, she begged and pleaded to interact with her ex husband to the women he was with and was met with rude responses and finally eternal silence.
That's no way to live. But that's your choice. But when you and the other Steve, you called yourselves the Stevo's right? Use your unhappiness to attack others who may have had just as much unhappiness in their lives or more, well that's not cool.
Actually the other guy insulted you, thenpart where unsaid you were bitter was my bad but also shows I can't interact with women at all.
I would rather die alone and unwanted now that I know it's all I can expect. I had nothing but love to give and it was all shit on so in a way I'm commiting a selfless act in the sense I won't be missed if I'm dead.
That's not true. If you feel that way, maybe you should talk to someone or seek help. I don't say that insultingly, more out of concern. Maybe you are not suffering from hate but more from depression. There is nothing wrong with admitting to needing, seeking help. Life can knock us all down, but it can only win if we let it. Please at least talk to someone, whether it be a friend, family member or professional.
I have talked with family about my troubles and i was either ignored, mocked, and humiliated, I had and have no friends, and I have talked to enough enough professionals to realize all they want is my money and wasted my time for them to never really understand. The poison these so called professionals prescribe barely even worked and was expensive as hell.
I faced the fact that I am destined to live alone, I become old and bitter before I even hit age 30 and have never been in a loving relationship, maybe it's for the best since with all the false rape allegations with the #metoo bullshit or the divorces from women such as Karen Cross who was very petty.
Your bitterness is what holds you back. And if you are bitter towards all women, how can a woman love someone if they hate on everything she is. You have to love yourself, before others can. And you have to give love to receive. But if all you give is bitter and hate, that is all you'll get.
I hate myself more than anything in existence, hell everybody else hates me no problem. I hate my body, my face, and my parents for even thinking of procreating and having me as some sort of fucked up burden to wander the earth. Hell I was born with arthritis and tuberculosis, almost as if I was meant to suffer no matter what.
I'm sorry. But noones life is perfect. I suffered a lot in my life, probably way more than you. But I've still tried to stay positive. But the moments I can't, well I break down in silence, I don't take my problems, fears or hatred out on anyone. I'm sorry for the things you've gone through. But you have fo remember you are not the only one who had suffered. a lot of people have, and still find a way to go on. And you can and need to as well. And if you ever need an ear I will always listen to someone who needs a friend, as long as they keep it respectful with me and with others.🌹
Love is a chemical reaction and nothing more. So i don't care anymore about pursuing love. It's just programming & hardwired in our dna to seek out mates who look physically good to mate with & produce healthy offspring to keep the human race surviving. We literally are organic robots
@Cocacolaaddict People attack because they don't wanna admit when you're right. Just stay true to you and your beliefs, don't listen to the haters. Your're not stupid. You're intelligent, more so than some years older who should know better. ❣
Don't I know there are lots of examples on this site of such people its usually girls on here who like to put men down they are the perfect example of it not all girls mind you there are some decent girls on here
I did a mytake on adults who try to bully. Maybe you should read it. You might learn some manners. Your insults don't hurt me they just show your "true " character. I don't have to insult to get point across. Those that do, well usually it's cuz they don't have a valid point. I'll respectfully argue difference. But won't put up with or waste time on those who can't behave, discuss things like a rational adult. Bye now. You won't get another response from me. Behaving maturely is not cowardly, attacking, insulting people over a computer is. Sorry for whatever happened that made you be so consumed with anger. But find another way to release it. Bye now😊
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i think the most important thing is: the point of dating is to find someone that fits you. the point is not to make youself fit to someone else.
obviously live is full of compromises but set your boundaries once and don't cross them, cause crossing them is litterally stepping over the edge into a downward spiral that leads you into abusive relationships and mental issues.
Can you let me know the answer to that because that's what I'm looking for in my life
Taking the time to find and know people enough to back up with actions how they "say" they are. Less texting as communication and more talking, directing "real" time together. Go more slowly instead of rushing into a relationship with someone barely know. All things people seem to be doing these days.
Wow you hit it spot on I was starting to think I was the only one who understood this
Thank you so much❣I'm glad to see some people still feel that way. Restores my faith a little.
Don't gain too much faith or it will come crashing down iv been told I have wisdom beyond my years can't argue with that my viewpoints are completely lost to people my age yet it seems on par with the older people
Everything mentioned in this mytake are things women have and always will wipe their asses with in their youth and regret it after no man will want them. I've been rejected enough times to know that women will never want me and so I e lost faith in all women. I see no point in forgiving women.
You're only hurting, cheating yourself that way but okay
I guess it's for the best, can't exactly miss somebody you never cared about, I take comfort in knowing if I die I won't be missed.
I'm sorry cuz that's no way to live. Look we've had words. Cuz you and some don't get, as much as you may have been hurt by a woman/ women, some women have been equally hurt by men. I was molested by my father by 5, physically abused by my first husband, among other things Im not going fo get into. But still, don't use that as excuse fo hate/ bash all men. Wouldn't of had my second hubby if I had. Not that it mattered seeing he died anyway. That's what pisses me off tho, you people hating/ wasting life I'd give anything to get back. Be angry,, fine, but at the people/ person who directly hurt you. Don't use that as excuse fyi be rude, disrespectful to people sho don't deserve it, you don't know what they been through is all I'm saying. Hear it or don't🤷♀️
I've been met with mostly cruelty whenever I tried to live my life and find a woman to love me for me to love her but things didn't seem to fall into place, especially in highschool but now as an adult I still feel like women just make fun of me or reject me anyway just like I was back in highschool. It's really hard for me to be nice and forgiving when it's just easier to avoid women and it's fun to watch women rot just like Karen Cross who only ruined herself while the man she abandoned ended up hating her for life for trying to come back into his life and possibly ruining 3 relationships for him, she begged and pleaded to interact with her ex husband to the women he was with and was met with rude responses and finally eternal silence.
That's no way to live. But that's your choice. But when you and the other Steve, you called yourselves the Stevo's right? Use your unhappiness to attack others who may have had just as much unhappiness in their lives or more, well that's not cool.
That was more of a coincidence that we were both Steve's if anything. I have no affiliation with that other guy
No but you both came at me, insulted me for no cause or reason.
Actually the other guy insulted you, thenpart where unsaid you were bitter was my bad but also shows I can't interact with women at all.
I would rather die alone and unwanted now that I know it's all I can expect. I had nothing but love to give and it was all shit on so in a way I'm commiting a selfless act in the sense I won't be missed if I'm dead.
That's not true. If you feel that way, maybe you should talk to someone or seek help. I don't say that insultingly, more out of concern. Maybe you are not suffering from hate but more from depression. There is nothing wrong with admitting to needing, seeking help.
Life can knock us all down, but it can only win if we let it. Please at least talk to someone, whether it be a friend, family member or professional.
I have talked with family about my troubles and i was either ignored, mocked, and humiliated, I had and have no friends, and I have talked to enough enough professionals to realize all they want is my money and wasted my time for them to never really understand. The poison these so called professionals prescribe barely even worked and was expensive as hell.
I faced the fact that I am destined to live alone, I become old and bitter before I even hit age 30 and have never been in a loving relationship, maybe it's for the best since with all the false rape allegations with the #metoo bullshit or the divorces from women such as Karen Cross who was very petty.
Your bitterness is what holds you back. And if you are bitter towards all women, how can a woman love someone if they hate on everything she is. You have to love yourself, before others can. And you have to give love to receive. But if all you give is bitter and hate, that is all you'll get.
I hate myself more than anything in existence, hell everybody else hates me no problem. I hate my body, my face, and my parents for even thinking of procreating and having me as some sort of fucked up burden to wander the earth.
Hell I was born with arthritis and tuberculosis, almost as if I was meant to suffer no matter what.
I'm sorry. But noones life is perfect. I suffered a lot in my life, probably way more than you. But I've still tried to stay positive. But the moments I can't, well I break down in silence, I don't take my problems, fears or hatred out on anyone. I'm sorry for the things you've gone through. But you have fo remember you are not the only one who had suffered. a lot of people have, and still find a way to go on. And you can and need to as well. And if you ever need an ear I will always listen to someone who needs a friend, as long as they keep it respectful with me and with others.🌹
I agree.. now where is he hiding 😹
Wish I could answer under my bed lol or in🤔😁
😂😂
Lovely post, thank you! :)
Thank you
Love is a chemical reaction and nothing more. So i don't care anymore about pursuing love. It's just programming & hardwired in our dna to seek out mates who look physically good to mate with & produce healthy offspring to keep the human race surviving. We literally are organic robots
Would you let me love you then my scars aren't anywhere else lol seriously my heart is waiting for someone like you
A good read 😊
Thank you❤
Love should be always real not fake
Agreed but are people real anymore?
Not all...
What do u think..
Nicely done!!
Thank you❣
Old and wise this is something most people don't understand these days especially the young
@Cocacolaaddict
Thank you. But you show some young people do get it, unless you're not really 21🤔lol😁
I am 21 but iv never met someone who understands I mostly get called stupid because they cannot comprehend my insight
@Cocacolaaddict
People attack because they don't wanna admit when you're right. Just stay true to you and your beliefs, don't listen to the haters. Your're not stupid. You're intelligent, more so than some years older who should know better. ❣
Yeah I know I just assume they have nothing else to say
@Cocacolaaddict
Misery loves company. People who can't find happiness or love for themselves try to attack or put others down out of jealousy
Don't I know there are lots of examples on this site of such people its usually girls on here who like to put men down they are the perfect example of it not all girls mind you there are some decent girls on here
@Cocacolaaddict
Really,? cuz I've seen more men do that to women on here.
Have you? I guess we have similar experiences then but then I rarely look at guys responses perhaps there is no gender to it
@Cocacolaaddict
No idiot isn't prejudice, nor is stupidity. Just people are 🤷♀️
What does that mean?
@Cocacolaaddict
Means stupid comes in all shapes sizes, races, gender...
I agree iv seen top much of it now I just expect it from people encountering intelligence is a rare treat
@Cocacolaaddict
Back at you!!!
Agree 100%
Thanks❣❣
Mhmm ^^.
Good take
Thank you❣
You're welcome 😊
Yh true indeed
Still trying to believe.. used to believe what I wrote.. lived what I wrote, but lately, all the hate, bashing, cheating I see, hear, read about, 🤷♀️
Really
I agree
Thank you❣
Anytime sweetheart
Most women don't care about love anymore.
👎👎👎
Truth hurts
Your "truth" don't hurt me. Have a nice day!😊
Ok old woman
We're done here!! 👋
Cowardly lion
I did a mytake on adults who try to bully. Maybe you should read it. You might learn some manners. Your insults don't hurt me they just show your "true " character. I don't have to insult to get point across. Those that do, well usually it's cuz they don't have a valid point. I'll respectfully argue difference. But won't put up with or waste time on those who can't behave, discuss things like a rational adult. Bye now.
You won't get another response from me. Behaving maturely is not cowardly, attacking, insulting people over a computer is. Sorry for whatever happened that made you be so consumed with anger. But find another way to release it. Bye now😊
Good riddance!