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Why I Prefer A Good Guy Over Bad Guys And Nice Guys (Page 2)
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Yea I agree with your take and this can be applied to girls too.
I love my girlfriend but she has a lot of issues to deal with before getting involved with someone.
She is not a bad person though.
The thing is, I don't think this posst iss honest. . It soundsnlike platitudes and highlights, not experience. I tried to talk about feelings qith a girl onc3, and she said, "Imdon't need anothher girlfriend! I want a guy who who has a pulse, who wants to get in my pants! Doesn't mean you will. But I wonder about myself when you don't even try. And if your going to style my hair and arrange a bouquet.
So there are girls who are attracted to bad guys because she can secretly go to their house and have gangbang sessions etc. While this nice/good guy can't get the girl he wants because he is a good guy and inexperienced. After some years the same girl realises oh she needs to get secured so she finds this nice guy, she conceals to him who she was so she plays him and he falls for her and wanna marry her. And he doesn't know what a slut/whore she was. She they get into a relationship, later on they have kids and she goes around and cheats on him because she is used to weekly gangbamg. Who are the victims here? both The man and the kids. So a girl/woman have to learn to have dignity and a man have to learn not be fooled. When woman become ruthless she becomes 100% but a cruel man can differ from 0 to 80%. by the way this is Islamic source I read one day I can't remember the name of the book but it's TRUE and I love it.
Yeah and a "good guy" always has to worry about the paternity of "his" children. "It's mommy's baby and daddy's maybe".
Yeh, very unfair!
Wow, this is really sad to read. What you described is nothing like what most girls go through. In fact, in my own situation.
I was a virgin throughout all my relationships. I didn't do anything sex related till I got with the love of my life. Not every woman is the same and different women have their reasons for stuff.
Stop assuming the women is a slut or a cheater just because she is attracted to "bad guys." Most times it's because she desires to have excitement, feel special, be understood and feel protected in life. A bad guy is just the wrong place to look. This post is extremely rude and disappointing.
The whole time I talked about one woman and one man!
For starters I think you never understood my text at all or you actually have but trying to put word in my text.
Where in my text said most of the girls? I will lend you some glasses to read it says "there are girls..." .
My text never said "the women" are slut or cheater rather it says some women, so you better not generalise women please stop putting words in my text.
Where in my text says women are sluts just because she is attracted to bad guys? You can borrow my glasses again and read it says after she got married and git kids she goes around and have weekly gangbanged becasue she is addicted.
And please dont say excitment. Say she is going around becasue her pussy is screaming for gangbang.
The moral of this story is to really get to know the person you wanna date or you are dating before it's late.
Also the moral of the story is to raise awareness to the nice/good guys to please dont fall for girls before you know them really well.
Good guys usually lack the love of a girl they desire when they are teens or during their adolescence so the girls make some advances to the good guys for whatever reason, the good guys get attached quickly.
So my message to the good guys, get your shit together, and get successful in whatever you like doing, make cool friends, hang out with them. Then you will become popular dont be lured by bad girls 😉.
I Love You All MEN And WOMAEN. You are gangster 😘😉
We all desire to have excitement and feel excitement, but we don't do it by having sex with 30 or 40 people.
I didn't mention any number you stupid.
Sorry ignore the stupid part, it came out wrong 😘
Yes, good men really need to know the background of a woman they are interested in. Women have the amazing ability to be chameleons, disguising their past.
An old lady once told me "If you want to know the truth about a girl, talk kindly about her to her friends'. The point being, if you say "Jenny is so sweet and virtuous". If she is not really, her friends will say something like "she wasn't always, LOL"... and you go from there.
Either way you HAVE to know about her past before committing to her.
Excellent KrakenAttackin, you got the point smart boy 😉
Shut tf up, you male whore. If you you western women so much, go fuck off to saudi arabia. You are mad only because you can't get laid. What is wrong with promiscuous women or men. It is not your life
Shut tf up, you male whore. If you hate western women so much, go fuck off to saudi arabia. You are mad only because you can't get laid. What is wrong with promiscuous women or men. It is not your life
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LMFAO wtf you hella tripping 😂 first of all I'm not from saudia arabia. Second is there is nothing wrong with you being promiscuous. Chill the fuck out with your intense kimpromiscuous ass 😒 coward virgin lookin headass
Hahaga then stop slutshaming
Am I a "Nice Guy"?
I am always friendly, help the person in need, I listen to her, give compliments. But I don't really want something in return, hmm okay well maybe. I would just like to have a relationship. Is that wrong?
If you're only being nice because you want something and not to be nice because you are a genuine nice person.
In essence, yes you are a nice guy. You're just not the aggressive type if you don't become upset when you don't get what you want.
If you just want a relationship but you're nice to people because you like being nice. Then you're a good guy. You would just like love like everyone else though.
It is okay to be attracted to someone (want something from them ;)) and you're a good person if you like helping people!
I think what your problem is is a lack of dating experience which is normal at 18 :)
To be frank I only started dating with online dating so im a little short on advice for approaching irl but in general it is smart to subtly make your intention clear by flirting. Friendzone has a terrible reputation for good reason but there is some merit to it imo:
If you dont have chemistry with a girl but you keep persuing she will (at best) be your friend ;)
@joojoojoo I agree with you. @Socialist If you make your intentions clear at the beginning it definitely clears up a lot of that.
The girl can decide what she wants to do with that information, respond how she sees fit. And you can take her response and go from there. Communication is always key
Because longterm, bad guys are shit to us, and nice guys aren't nice and honestly just another form of the bad guy
Good guys are just basically the main type every girl deserves. They're the ones who have the balance traits of being bad and traits of actually be genuinely nice
Nice take , the main different between a nice guy and good guy is that the good guy is naturally good to everyone while the nice guy is only nice thinking it will let him get laid with women
Well I'm super duper nice to everyone not girls particularly and I attract almost all types of girls, including " bad " girls, there's a difference between bad boys which is just a taste just like anything else and an abusive or bad partner, i think people hugely mistake these two, i think the bad guys you went with are just bad partners in general and the " good " guy you loved is just a normal loving partner you have a good chemistry with
Another dumb article written by a dumb woman who says she wants one thing but responds to something different as I said twice in similar posts this week.
"Nice guys are the guys who go out their way to give you everything they think you want." See this guys? She doesn't want a partner. She wants a slave, therapist, a white knight, a clown. She will only give advice that will serve the interests of her vagina. She doesn't give a shit about you. Never forget that.
I really like the way Jordan Peterson puts it. I think he says it like you need to know how to use a sword as well as knowing when to keep it sheathed.
Stand up for what you believe in and don’t let anyone get in the way of your goal in life. Know how to fight but only fight when you or someone you care about is in danger. Finally, treat her as an equal and not as someone who is above you which is a mistake I see way too many guys including myself make.
You women are a waste of time and energy.
All this good/bad guy talk is just meaningless blathering in an attempt to emulate your favorite reality tv star or drama character.
The only problem is this whole "nice guy" thing makes some women see truly good men as "nice guys" because of their own hangups and insecurities, but to women smart enough to realize the difference, and i think you're one of them, props
I disagree with the definitions. For me, nice is synonymous with good. What you've described as "nice" I would see as a manipulative asshole: in essence, a bad guy.
While true the term is meant to be ironic. The words: "nice guy" comes from these types of people complaining online by describing themselves as such.
@dashyguydotcom The issue isn’t that some people take such use of words as the literal meanings. That’s why I don’t think they should be used as such.
Valid argument and i agree with your view aswell.
I agree
Good mytake I liked it and I would agree with you on what you've said.
There's nothing wrong with an actual nice person. Just because someone perceives him/herself as one doesn't mean that they qualify. So, yes, go for nice guys. Also, one should be good and nice themselves anyway before being picky towards their prospective partners.
"They'd break or leave me because they were weak." I didn't read past this point. So you're telling me that if someone breaks you it's because THEY are weak? No, princess, it's because YOU are. You brods will come up with any excuse.
Wow, it's very apparent you didn't read past that point. A few sentences in and you wouldn't be looking foolish for repeating my words.
No shit it's apparent because I just told you. 😑
I literally said In mytake "In reality I was the weak one." Try reading another sentence down.
Ah sorry. I usually have a good eye for this shit.
@FýrdracaDócincel No, you don’t. A quick browse through your post history reveals that you’re just another toxic, arrogant Internet troll looking for any reason to be rude and call a woman any one of the mean words you’ve got in your limited vocabulary. Honestly pathetic, but good on you for actually apologizing when it was finally beat into your head that you were wrong, unlike half of the dicks on this website lmao.
@CarpetDenim
To be fair, I'm like this to everyone. 😂
Also it wasn't BEATEN into my head. If she did try to, I would not be nearly as cooperative, if only to see her squirm a little bit more.
@FýrdracaDócincel Okay
Good guys looks are average or below average but bad guys look hot and above average or it can be vice-versa
Any person good or bad depend upon his statement and good work or deds
We can't judge a book by it's cover
Literally described a good guy by saying they come in all shapes and sizes with different personalities and interests. A lot of you actively choose to not read or something.
Which is sad, why would you comment on a mytake and not read it?
Girl it's too big to read I have read first 4-5 oor 7 lines
That's y I said according to my opinions ur opinion is also justified bcoz of virus spread I had diifren house hold works too doo
I raise white flag uu win I didn't read full article I can be wrong it's okay I accept my mistake appolgy from my sides no hard feelings for you.
You are correct in your own way I am correct in my own way
That's why you read the bold. It's made for skimming through.
Was a good guy. Then after 3 marriages I just really don't give a total flying flip too much about girls now. So went from good guy to the scarred guy.
What if he's a good guy, but at the same time he's a mean guy
You said you don't date nice guys, and bad guys, but, what if he was a good guy, but was mean, at the same time?
Finally someone said it! I always try to show the difference between nice and good guys but nobody listens to me cuz they call me a bragging incel xD 💔