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Covid Relationship Crashed.

Editors Note: I know there are some people here who do hate me and what I post and I deserve what I got with this, but I dont know.

Covid Relationship Crashed.

For 5 months I was in a relationship. The most oddest thing started the conversation. Two Guys / Bradless. These two stores were in the Woodbridge area where Walmart is presently.

I met them a couple days before Valentines Day. And the day before she said "She wanted to be just friends" since she was in a bad break up. Not to mention she still is married. On the 13th, she said she wanted to be with me. Which made me happy. During this time, she was taking care of her mother. Who was in ok health for her age. She had hot water heater issues and would constantly get mad at me since she had no hot water in the house. So when the hot water heater issue was fixed, she was normal. So I thought.

A Few weeks after the hot water heater was fixed, her mom died (this is when the Covid started), I took a ride to see her, and my mom came with me as well. I did not go into the hospital with her because of Covid and I did not want to get my mom sick, so I stayed in the car. I even bought her groceries that day and I paid partially for her mothers cremation.

This is when the fighting began. She went to cremate her mother and I stayed home because my mom needed me home and because of Covid. She heard me texting someone, It was my ex, Her rule was no ex's. In my defense, no one ever calls or texts me. She did. She got mad and I explained to her that "one text message" does not constitute a conversation. which simply said "Im with someone".

Covid Relationship Crashed.

Next was her birthday. The day of her birthday was bad, raining all day and I could not get there. She got mad at me saying it was the 1st birthday without her mother and I was not there. I explained to her that the road conditions were bad and I could not go there. The next day I went with balloons and cake. She was not really happy but happy to see me.

From then we met 2x a week since I was in transition of work, and I had to take care of my mom. She got bad because I did not see her everyday. I told her it was covid, my mom needed me as well. So as weeks and days past we met, we went out. I mostly did her errands for her. To get her cat food, to take her to the dentist. to the funeral home to pay for her mothers cremation, to staples so she can fax death certificates.

She would always fight with me on that,until one day, Im with her in a hotel room (the house is good, but there is no power in the living room, too much clutter, and other things. the other 2 bedrooms have her ex's stuff in there. And her 4 cats took over the house, also I dont feel safe in peoples houses, a fear I had since I was a baby)

Every Monday I would go see her. We would get the room, then feed her cats every 4 hours, get food, and watch her favorite show "90 day Fiancee". Tuesday Mornings when we left she would call the hotel her "happy place".

my friend was texting me 15 times (I was fighting with a credit card company) and the msgs and calls went to DND. She was asking me why she was calling and I said I did not know and ignored the calls. She wanted to see my call log to see who else called and I said no since the only people who did call was her, my mother and my job

For days she fought with me. I thought everything was good up until a week ago. Which actually was our 5 month anniversary. She has no female friends, and all her guy friends called my friend a side piece since she called me 15x. I never hooked up with her, nor anything, my friend is divorced. I never had any intentions on dating them.

She got mad at me for fighting back, and saying I was belittling her and being nasty. Well when you say your sorry for something and harp on the problem time and time again, then you really say enough is enough and fight back. You can't keep harping on a problem one someone says they are sorry and it won't happen again.

So here I am, wasted 5 months of my life. Something simple as a store and a memory brought a person together, and a bullshit text message destroyed it.

(She also suffers from menopause as she says and can't deal with heat, she has anger issues too)....

Covid Relationship Crashed.
Covid Relationship Crashed.
Covid Relationship Crashed.
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