Me and my girlfriend have been dating for about 4 months and a couple of days ago we decided to get really intimate and make love for about an hour! This included making out and humping with our clothes on. Best day of my life to be honest. We are each others first and this is all new to us. Plus we are both 19. I want to be completely open with her and her with me; I want us to feel very comfortable with each other and what we discuss. This might mean taking things to the next level if we are going to discuss sex. Now we are both abstinent but I'll do anything that isn't putting actually p in vag, I'm not sure about her though. But I want us to talk about this sort of stuff and I'm very nervous about bringing it up with her. I don't want her to think I'm a total perv :( which I kindof am but that's besides the point. How can I bring this topic up? Not just in one conversation but for the future. Like I said I want us to be very comfortable with each other but I don't want to screw this up at the same time. Do I just ask and wing it? Or should I bring it up in a subtle way? Or what should I do? I'm looking for a girls point of view on this, but I'll take guys answers only if they've been in my situation.
Please also write long responses and refrain from one sentence answers, I'm looking to start a conversation on here.
Please also write long responses and refrain from one sentence answers, I'm looking to start a conversation on here.
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