Are some people actually meant to be alone forever? (Page 2)
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It says ur 25-29, thats pretty young dude, my dad met my mom when he was 33 and I was born when he was 35. U still got time bro. Instead of being depressed out urself out there and meet girls
I'm exactly 29, and not too long before I hit 30. Thanks for your suggestions. Makes me feel better. But what's the point of meeting girls, if they find me 'physically unattractive anyway (as it has been happening all these years)?
I'm glad I could help.
And hm..
Well u can either lower ur standards and date a very unattractive girl.. Or.. U can try and do something to improve ur looks, go to the gym daily, eat healthier, get a new hairdo, different clothes, anything to make urself look better.
But tbh.. Confidence is what attracts girls, I've actually crushed on not that attractive guys, because their confidence attracted me to them.
I don't really have 'standards' regarding looks. I never judge anyone based on their looks because no one gets to choose their looks from a set of templates, when they're born. Unless the person is obese, because usually they bring that upon themselves.
I'm not a bad looking person by any standards. I have only been told that I'm above average or good looking. But the thing I hear the most from women is something similar to "Its not that you look bad, but you're just not my type". I don't know what this 'type' is, and what 'types' women prefer. And if almost every woman had to give similar answers, it means they were just lying and maybe there is some other fault with me.
Yes I believe there are people meant to be single forever and ever and I am one of those people.
I know the Forever Alone guy is meant to be forever alone...
What happen when the two "Forever alone" comes together? I know there's gotta be a way for those two to find each other right? @chocolateismylover
Usually the people who are alone forever WANT to be alone.
Sadly yes if your male but if your male rich, tall and good looking than no. But if your the opposite than yes. Women on the other hand don't have to worry as much about being single.
Yes it is, if they keep intellectualising about it.
I am. Despite being in good physical shape and pursuing an admirable job, i will always be this way. I have chosen to end it.
Same here with me. I'm told I look above, and I also have a good education and a decent job. But unfortunately, for some reason, women cosnider me as the worst possible scum of the planet. Maybe that's because I'm not an asshole/jerk who treats women like crap. Women these days are attracted mostly to jerks. And my conscience doesn't permit me to become a jerk, so that means I'm effectively out of the dating scene.
It is true and they deny it too. But i cannot act like someone i am not either because it is obvious and i make it worse for myself. My best route is termination of life.
So by 'ending' it', you meant to say you're killing yourself? Don't do that brother. Its not worth killing yourself just because women don't approve of you. There are so many other things in life to look forward to!
A life of virginity is misery
No, not at all. If being a virgin is making you miserable, you can always hire a hooker. I don't do this because for me its about finding someone to love, rather than have sex. Even if you want love, you can adapt to live without it. Build a great career, hone your skills, listen to music, play videogames, volunteer for animal welfare etc. There's so much you can do! Don't let go of life so easily! :)
I will only lose it to another virgin, so yea, i can be doomed
Only of you choose to be. Trying to convince myself of that.
Yes but those acknowledge this are always told to cling onto false hope.
Exactly. Hope is poison.
Yes I believe in that too some peole meant to be alone but probably for the good who knows god wanted to be that way.
Thanks for your answer. Although I don't believe in god.
I think so.. at least fot my case
accdng to my Destiny book, you will meet your future partner, 2 years from now.
should i add, 3 more years of waiting? haha...
just kidding Kangy.
Yes. In life not everyone is a winner. Sad fact.
I'm not MEANT to be but i MEAN to be
Yeah. Some of us are, but we're a rare percentage.
Maybe yes, maybe no; I don't know.
No it is always a choice.
"Always" a choice? Even for physically unattractive people?
If you're ugly as fuck then its not a wonder that you'll be alone forever. Im talking about decent people.
Suicide is the best option for me
You and I both.
I know i am
Welcome to the club!