I don't recommend dating before you are ready to get married but if you are ready to get married in your 20's then by all means start dating and hopefully you find somebody and get married.
Um for females that's a dreadful idea to stay single the whole 20s that means you'd be near 30 -40 before finding a husband and getting kids IF your lucky and he hasn't pasted you by already
Don't, to paraphrase Ferris Bueller, marry the first girl you lay. Get out there, enjoy your life, enjoy your freedom, see what kind of people are out there, and figure out who you want and what you want.
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You should avoid marriage, for sure. But don't stay single. You have to date, get out there, meet people and develop the right skills so you won't fuck up when the right partner comes along in your 30's.
I think there's a lot to be said for this. These days, in most cases households really need two solid sources of income to get ahead (or in some cases, stay afloat). Waiting until the late 20's allows for college and to get started in careers, but still leaves a good amount of time for kids, etc.
You should never stay single because of an arbitrary reason. If you happen to run into an amazing person early in life then go get it. If you don't then stay single...
People should only enter a relationship when they are ready to regardless whether in 20s or other after. Do what you feel is happy, relationship is double edge sword to me
Well I don't have a choice unfortunately, but i don't see why you should be single if you really like each other.
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IT depends on The person. Some people are doen partying when they're in their twenties. They hope to meet their future wife in college. Then there are people who wants to finish college first and enjoy their time in iT before they settle down.
I think it depends on what kind of person you are. For me it's time to start something when you come in your 20s. And if you have found someone you want to share you life with, then the best thing would DO NOT WAIT. Sure relationship can be hard, but I still think it's worth it and it will give you a experience you never had before (though I haven't seen it, LOL).
Depends on the person, I was single while in my 20's and it didn't bother me. Some people love being single as they can get their life together. While others need to be in an relationship while in their 20's.
Where im from most of the friends I went to high school with are now married and have kids. and they are only like 22-25 years old. I think 20 somethings should wait.
I agree, but if you notice, it's becoming the thing again to save "it" for marraige. That may be why the people where you're from are married so young. Most likely, almost 90% of them will be divorced before 35 sadly.
I also come from a rural community where there really isn't much in the way of a good economy and most kids don't even go to college. A lot of girls have their first kids before age 20
Look at the movie Frozen for example. Anna wanted to jump into a relationship and marriage too fast. Elsa on the other hand wanted to focus on herself and to become a better person. In the end Anna ended up with a broken and frozen heart because Hans did not feel the same way and was just using her to get power over the kingdom.
being single is great in many aspects, but if you have an opportunity for true love, don't thow it away.. spoken from a place of experience.
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Do what is right for you as the time. Everyone has a different schedule, don't compare yourself. Just because someone else chooses to be single it doesn't mean you should too
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I would not mind getting married in my 20s. after age 35, if I am not married, I will stay single
I was married at age 22 and had 2 kids by age 26. Don't regret any of it at all.
That's nice
I don't recommend dating before you are ready to get married but if you are ready to get married in your 20's then by all means start dating and hopefully you find somebody and get married.
Um for females that's a dreadful idea to stay single the whole 20s that means you'd be near 30 -40 before finding a husband and getting kids IF your lucky and he hasn't pasted you by already
Don't, to paraphrase Ferris Bueller, marry the first girl you lay. Get out there, enjoy your life, enjoy your freedom, see what kind of people are out there, and figure out who you want and what you want.
You should avoid marriage, for sure. But don't stay single. You have to date, get out there, meet people and develop the right skills so you won't fuck up when the right partner comes along in your 30's.
For some, they believe you should date yourself in your 20s and late 20s early 30s date people you see as potential life partners.
When you are older
U might have less years of fertility left
After 30
So u should really find a man first
Because who knows
U might wanna have kids
Split the difference. I got married at 27, and it was a pretty good age to do so.
Well by many standards, they claim anything after 25 is considered an IDEAL age to be married so I don't know.
I think there's a lot to be said for this. These days, in most cases households really need two solid sources of income to get ahead (or in some cases, stay afloat). Waiting until the late 20's allows for college and to get started in careers, but still leaves a good amount of time for kids, etc.
I agree 26/27 seems perfect :)
You should never stay single because of an arbitrary reason. If you happen to run into an amazing person early in life then go get it. If you don't then stay single...
Good answer. Nice and simple.
People should only enter a relationship when they are ready to regardless whether in 20s or other after.
Do what you feel is happy, relationship is double edge sword to me
You say it like it's a choice for some of us who can't find a bf despite wanting one looool
But no, the 20s are the best time to get out there and bang
Well I don't have a choice unfortunately, but i don't see why you should be single if you really like each other.
IT depends on The person.
Some people are doen partying when they're in their twenties. They hope to meet their future wife in college.
Then there are people who wants to finish college first and enjoy their time in iT before they settle down.
If you want a family it's a bad idea, but if you don't I think it's the best thing you can do.
I'm in my 20's and I want to remain single.
i'm on my 20s and i'm single and I LOVE IT!!!
it's the best time to be single in my opinion. you're young and you shouldn't throw your life away!
I think it depends on what kind of person you are. For me it's time to start something when you come in your 20s. And if you have found someone you want to share you life with, then the best thing would DO NOT WAIT. Sure relationship can be hard, but I still think it's worth it and it will give you a experience you never had before (though I haven't seen it, LOL).
Depends on the person, I was single while in my 20's and it didn't bother me. Some people love being single as they can get their life together. While others need to be in an relationship while in their 20's.
Where im from most of the friends I went to high school with are now married and have kids. and they are only like 22-25 years old. I think 20 somethings should wait.
I agree, but if you notice, it's becoming the thing again to save "it" for marraige. That may be why the people where you're from are married so young. Most likely, almost 90% of them will be divorced before 35 sadly.
I also come from a rural community where there really isn't much in the way of a good economy and most kids don't even go to college. A lot of girls have their first kids before age 20
Ouch, yeah that sounds about right.
Look at the movie Frozen for example. Anna wanted to jump into a relationship and marriage too fast. Elsa on the other hand wanted to focus on herself and to become a better person. In the end Anna ended up with a broken and frozen heart because Hans did not feel the same way and was just using her to get power over the kingdom.
being single is great in many aspects, but if you have an opportunity for true love, don't thow it away.. spoken from a place of experience.
Do what is right for you as the time. Everyone has a different schedule, don't compare yourself. Just because someone else chooses to be single it doesn't mean you should too
I'm single at 21 because I'm busy trying to establish myself, so I see no issue with it.