Girlfriend says she's not ready for a relationship doesn't want me to be a rebound n now needs space because she has exams, should I contact her?

jdotkidd93
Ok so brief history me and my girl have been together for almost 2 months, first month was amazing the 2nd month has been up and down she tried to break it off with me a couple weeks ago because I'm too nice, her previous ex was violent controlling didn't let her speak at certain times, controlled the way she dressed who she spoke to etc? I'm the complete opposite I'm not controlling at all I just love her and who she is as a person so maybe because I'm so different to what she's used to (usually dates bad boys who cheat etc) she has a problem with me being nice, I'm 6'5" so people genuinely dnt try and fight me but I'm usually the peace maker in confrontations, she is quite fiesty and hot headed she says because she's more fiesty and loses her temper more than me she feels like the man in the relationship. She later apologised and said she has anger from her past relationship which she hasn't let out and it's unfair that she's putting it on me and she feels like she's going to mess up the best relationship she's ever had maybe we should take a break blah blah blah we spoke and stayed together.

Since then things have changed she's more distant and moody since the day she's tried to break it off she'll just tell me she spoke to her friend about how she's scared that I'm a rebound and doesn't want me to be but sometimes u don't know someone's a rebound till it's over. She told me this a couple weeks ago and I shrugged it of but tbh all these thoughts she's having points to one thing right? We have been ok recently but over the last couple days she's been ignoring calls and texts we both have exams so she's told me she needs no distractions I find that funny because yesterday she was watching a film with her family yet she is too busy to accept a phone call because she needs "no distractions" it's clearly an excuse right? I jus checked and she's also hidden our in a relationship status on Facebook now I know it's Facebook the only reason it's... CONTINUED...
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significant is because she literally begged me to go Facebook official with her a month ago she really wanted everyone to know I don't really do that tbh but I did it for her so for her to hide it after going through so much Effort to get it means something? From what you've read what would u say, is it over? Should I keep messaging her or leave her alone?
Girlfriend says she's not ready for a relationship doesn't want me to be a rebound n now needs space because she has exams, should I contact her?
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