I made a fake online profile to see his loyalty to me and he failed the test. I hate myself... Please help? (Page 2)
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I am sorry to say this he obviously doesn't love you then.
Im a little shocked why would u think of doing that. Think u both got what u deserved. .
Have you met him in person? I really think that it was not an ideal situation from the start.
No he lives too far. We were planning on meeting as soon as we could.
You were on the site too/ you set him up/ he fails/ whyd you set him up if you didn't think of what to do next... Move on.. Neither of you have the others trust anymore..
The fact that you did that proves you didn't trust him. It wasn't going to work out.
The best thing to do is for you two to move on... You both failed.
Why did she fail? =/
@inamorata if she has to go to the level that she did she failed just as much as her boyfriend.
Yeah, I'm with you here. I know we've both failed. I guess I've just wasted a year of my life. It would never have worked out anyways.
Hmm... Did she really fail? She went with Her gut feeling and she found out the truth. She will no longer be wasting her time with this guy who has been fooling her this whole time. How else would she have found out? They have no mutual real life friends. So its not like she'd have gotten a tip from someone else.
I'm not sure how to take her approach on her testing her (now ex) boyfriend's loyalty but she at the least now know the truth.
I had suspicions that one of my exes had been talking to other girls. I didn't have the solid proof so I did the same thing as this girl to find out the truth. Not long after that I broke up with him. Its always best to follow your intuition.
@KillerTaco the issue is trust. and obviously there's communication problems. It was doomed to begin with and they both failed.
I think people fail to understand the concept of trust. Trust only exist if TWO people are in the same boat. If one person betrayed the other person's trust then who failed who? Did she really fail his trust? I mean he wasn't supposed to be on those dating sites but he was despite him knowing he was leading a relationship with someone.
Communication means absolutely nothing when a person is deceiving you. You can confront them a million times and they will still deny the truth. You can catch some people red handed and they'd still argue they're innocent.
He broke the trust and she sensed that and did what she had to in order to protect her self. Anyone would have done the same thing. If not then you're just denying what you know is the truth.
@KillerTaco and I wonder how that situation even happened?
Your guess is as good as mine. I usually cut guys off when they start bullshitting around. I talk to a guy once about it and if the issue is still coming up then clearly we're not on the same page. Time to drop him.
@KillerTaco I think I kinda did fail in a way because it's really sad that I would have to resort to this. But thanks for what you said about the mutual friends and stuff. You're right, the only thing I have is what he tells me. And I've always trusted that. But then when things started to not make sense, I felt a little paranoid. I made up so many excuses for him and it really sucks that I was right this whole time. And I 100% agree with you when you said that someone can be caught and still argue they're innocent. All you have in a LDR is trust, and I don't even have that any more. I gave him so many chances and all I wanted was for one time to be like "sorry I'm taken" or "it's complicated" or "I don't have a gf, but..." something that doesn't erase me from the picture. And whats even worse is that he was texting me at the same time and telling me that he loved me and that he wished I was with him and ugh. I'm so done.
He was wrong for obvious reasons, but you showed that you dont trust or respect him.
Well if he failed the test its going to be hard for you to trust him again if and when you get together
Trust me? it will play on your mind...
He's not worth your time. I think you should just move on.
Strange situation. You can't trust him but test him.. to have a confirmation
I read this exact question like, 6 months ago.
Interesting. I wonder what the outcome was.
If you look for answers you're gonna find them.
Have you met irl? Or are you Internet only?
Internet only, he lives too far.
You might find you are one of many. Make another profile and try again. Then after he fails again stop all contact with him and go and fine a guy that is real. They can be much more fun
You both faked thus. Live with the consequences.
Confront him and get him to apologise.
I don't think I can... I'm too embarrassed that I made a fake profile in the first place. I never thought that it would come to this
Dump him!!
Just leave him.
Nope, dump him