I don't think you should give up yet. Yes, he's been dishonest but you only found that out by being dishonest yourself. Have a heart to heart, admit you were wrong and make him realize he's wrong, then see I you can work it out. Bad breakups happen and it can be really hard to get over that. If you can help him find closure then that would be a great thing... or you can just give up like everyone does these days. Your call.
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Is he stalking her? If so that's not healthy for your relationship nor for her mental health. Sounds like he hasn't gotten over her, this is more compulsive behavior then trying to get back at her. Maybe some kind of counseling?
Your boyfriend is obsessed over his ex which means he's not ready to be in a new relationship with another woman. I think the fact that she treated him bad and he wants her to suffer is just an excuse... you can't really see if she's suffering from her Facebook page. What you see from her page are her pictures, what she does, who she hangs out with and this is what he wants to know, I believe. He's not completely over her.
That sounds like a weak excuse to me. If he really felt bad about how they ended, why didn't he simply send her a message to get some closure?
I think many women make "allowances" for their men (and vice versa), because they love them, but if they're lying to your face or treating you like you wouldn't them, then you need to stand up and tell them you're not going to take it.
I think you guys should call it quits. This guy is obsessed over his ex regardless if he hates her. I'd leave him seeing how bitter he is about a past relationship that alone says he's not the guy you thought he was
The third to the last sentence says it all to me. You have already marked him as untrustworthy. With that said, I think the question really is, do you want to continue on a path with someone who is untrustworthy?
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When a partner deletes browsing history and lies to you about
who he's searching for or talking to on Facebook he is hiding
something that he's doing and doesn't want you to see.
If he really loves and cares about you than why look for his ex
on Facebook yes it hurts cause your being faithful to him but
he is acting immature i think this relationship is coming to end
i really believe you need to consider giving this guy second thoughts.How can you love an individual who wants another person to suffer because they broke up with him? That's immature and spiteful. He lies to you and you don't trust him. A relationship without trust is not going to go places.
I would say the relationship is headed quickly towards the end if he does not quit lying to you and the trust is worked on between the two of you. If there is no trust it is very hard to keep it going
If he delete stuff and he is hidding something and you are doomed if he looks up his ex he still cares about her
Trust issues? Please stop asap.
My cellphone is my castle. I would be extremely pissed if my girlfriend looked through my messages and history. If you didn't do that you wouldn't have questions to him in the first place. Don't tell me like you've never looked up or talked with girlfriends about one of your EXes or guy friends just to see how they are doing.It's over. Time to move on. Considering the amount of bull you wrote I doubt you will do that... Enjoy the ride.
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