Sorry to hear this, you sound like a great guy. This is a battle your girlfriend has to take up with her family - you can't do much but support her in this battle if she chooses to challenge their narrow minded views. Afterall, she is the one they love and dont want to lose and dont want to hurt. She is the only one out of the two of you that has power over them. If they feel they will lose her than they will be more inclined to change. You are both very young to be taking on this battle. But her parents are playing a dangerous game because if you guys break up she could end up very resentful towards them.
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Well the relationship is limited. Your girlfriend likes you but she's afraid of her mom finding out. Because of this you can't go on dates or be seen together in public. What's the point? It's nice your girlfriend isn't racist but I couldn't be with someone who is afraid to be seen with me in public.
Side note: I noticed you're 16. So is the only time you two are together is in school?
There isn't anything you can do about it. Her mother is stuck in her ways and was more than likely brought up that way. y'all can still be together but thats something that will always be on the back burner. When and if you meet her mother just be as respectful and gentlemanly as possible. ( yes ma'am no ma'am please thank you, ill treat your daughter right, etc.)
To be honest, I've never had a girl's parents like me.
But you can calm the waters by buttering her mom up.
Try sending her a nice arrangement of flowers, or maybe find out something she likes, a hobby or something, and get that to her somehow.
WITHOUT the help of your girlfriend, mind you. You can't have your girlfriend bring the things to her mom for you.
Your girl's mom may never come to like the idea of you.
But you need to make it as hard as possible for her to hate you as a person.
I'd at least try to meet her mum. Once she meets you she might realise that she was wrong about you after all. Show her that you're nice and polite and that you'll treat her daughter right and she might just change her mind about you.
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Where no shirt show more of your skin letting her know under the skin you won't find anything different its like a red apple and a green apple they're both apples the taste practically the same and you won't find anything different underneath the apples skin.
Keep dating her for as long as you care about her don't rock the boat too much you'll be old enough for her to spend time with you with out her parents approval soon. It just a year or 2 depending on how much you care about her.
Was in your shoes nearly a year ago. You could put your best foot forward and meet the friends and mom but dont expect a lot of change. Maybe wait a long while before meeting the family.
.Don't leave her because of her racist parents.
If you both love each other than that is all that matters.Is this girl really worth it? I'm sure u can find someone else
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