Well, I don't find short or no hair unattractive, but just differently-attractive, so it's hard for me to contemplate your question the way you want me to.
But I can think of few things less important than how you do your hair. It's your hair -- I don't own you. Do with your body what you will.
Now, if you had your vagina sewn shut, that would be a bit different. I wouldn't pretend to have any right to tell you what you can and cannot do with your body, but I also wouldn't pretend to be interested in a relationship with you either.
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I'm not saying it does happen -- I'm saying that... hair is such a non-issue to me. Women, to me, seem to obsess over it like it's going to make or break a relationship (with me).
If it is that important, you have to ask yourself... was he dating you, or your hair?
I also like short hair so im all good. and no I wouldn't break up for that.
its so stupid, like seriously that's so fucking... shallow!
i will drink to that *raises glass* we're all equally shallow. I've seen girls say they won't date a guy who isn't taller than 6'1 and I've seen guys say they won't be with a girl who doesn't have boobs, ass, and a thin waist line. all shallow fucks! im so repulsed lol.
your dog <3 you for it :)
what breed?
ooh a Lassy dog :P I never learned the name of that breed until now, thanks! and thank you again hahaa.
@nuqood my bad d00d lol
Yeah well my ex was like " don't cut your hair, don't dye it, don't even think of doing something to it" we were fighting about this a lot and he get really upset when I talk to him about cutting it. Come on it's MY HAIR HE SHOULDN'T BE LIKE THIS.
This is a really great test to see if your boyfriend truly loves you or if his eyes and heart would wonder once you lose the superficial desirability...
Wow, what? No. I wouldn't. That's like if my guy got a circumcision and I broke up with him... really?
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Yes I would break up with her. Hair is a major point of attraction for me. I would prefer she gain 50 pounds over cut her hair. If I did something to make her no longer attracted to me, then I would also suspect she would break up with me. Why would anyone remain with someone they aren't attracted to?
I am willing to make sacrifices to keep her happy, if she can't do this for me then it shows she clearly doesn't care about keeping me happy. There are plenty of girls that actually do care about keeping their man happy to choose from. She is free to do what she wants with her own body, but she is not entitled to a relationship with me.
What is intense about it. Everyone cares about looks no matter what they say. Hair is simply more important to me, much like other physical features are more important to other people.
It makes sense but it's also stupid, especially considering that she can can wear a wig or some women look beautiful with their hair cut short. I don't think a lot of guys understand how tiring and annoying it is to deal with long hair (having to wash/condition and then style it) yet expect their girls to do that for them. If she has to do that for him, he better be fucking perfect is all I'm saying.
Otherwise I would encourage her to find a better man.
Physical attraction is crucial for every relationship, and there is nothing wrong with that. Instead you want to try and make anyone that admits to having any type of standard you don't agree with sound shallow. Like every other human I value both physical appearance and character in a relationship. It takes both of those to make a relationship work, not just one of them.
@RationalLioness So a woman keeping her hair long is equal to a man being perfect? That is nonsense. There are many different types of sacrifices men and women make in a relationship. Asking a woman to keep her hair long isn't nearly as big as some of the sacrifices people go through.
I didn't deny that physical attraction wasn't important. What I said was that it was an easy fix. You're being stupid and not comprehending what I'm saying. Big surprise.
If a guy wants her to have long hair which takes a lot of time to maintain and do, he better be worth it. And if he's not, then she should move on. And if she's the only one doing the sacrifice, that's not fair as well and I would encourage her to leave.
Grow up. That's probably why you're still single.
@RationalLioness No, you said a guy had better be perfect. Not that he had better be worth it, or that he had better be making sacrifices as well. There was also no need to resort to insults.
Stupid people annoy me. Are you ignorant of turn of phrases? Do I have to explain that as well?
If you had any sense, you would have understood that I was saying that if a woman had to deal with a selfish fool who wanted that from her--and who is apparently oblivious to how hard it is to deal with--that fool better have something to offer to demand something so small of her which could be fixed and has NOTHING to do with him. How many times am I going to have to say this?
I don't know what woman would put up with an unattractive troglodyte demanding that she keep her hair long for him because if she doesn't he will say manipulatively that that means she doesn't care about him because she doesn't want to keep herself the same FOR him when she wouldn't do the same to him.
I'm not attracted to bald men but if my boyfriend decided to shave his head, I wouldn't kick him to the curb.
Whatever. I now brand you a loser.
Everyone has different tastes and standards. There are plenty of physical traits I would over look that a lot of men wouldn't. Hair is simply more important to me than other physical traits are. It isn't right to act like I am more shallow or superficial for having my own physical standards, that are actually easier for women to reach than the standards a lot of people have.
Those actually rank pretty low for me. I see guys ranking girls as 5's, and I am looking at the same girls and seeing 9's and 10's.
When I married my wife she had beautiful long hair which I loved. Later she decided it was too hard to take care of and went short. I would have preferred she keep the long hair, but it is her hair, her effort, her decision. Of course I did NOT break up with her. that would have been extremely immature.
I wouldn't mind how it looks.
But a girlfriend doing that without telling me or getting my opinion would make me feel like she doesn't care about what I think. So I would find it hurtful, but its not enough of a reason for me to end the relationship.
breaking up is a big reaction
if they broke up with me just because I cut my hair, then it would be better without them
only a controlling psycho boyfriend would see this as a reason to break up...
It's her hair and her decision all the way.
No, that's a dumbass reason to break up with a girl
But I would most certainly vocalize my disagreement with it, especially with a pixie cut. I like women with long hair, its just plain feminine lol. Yeah hair cuts are necessary (female friends of mine constantly complain about split ends) but like I said, gotta have long hair.
Well I think is a thing you need to share, because when I date a girl I like to do what she wants, so I ask what does she likes and stuff. So I think is normal to ask. To break up I dont know but is not nice to do it without asking.
Think about it this way. Are you upset when your man spends money, that belongs to the both of you, without you first going to you.
You ever see that George Lopez episode where angie spent $1000 or whatever it was on a mud bath or whatever it's called and george is like, WHAT THE HELL, so they have a competition over who can spend the less.
Yes, because short on a woman is a dealbreaker for me. Some people say it’s wrong for a guy to break up with a girl/woman for cutting her hair but I disagree with it 100%. If I had a girlfriend, I want one that has hair that’s long and straight and if she cut it like into a pixie cut, I’d break up with her in a second.
Nope, it's just hair. I actually really like girls with short hair.
What a superficial reason to break up work someone.
Haha no, why would I do that? She can do whatever she wants, but no girl dating me would just go out and do it knowing I like long hair better.
I wouldn't dump her at all; I'm not a woman.
What does that matter? If she had long hair with me then I know she wouldn't just cut it off without first coming to me for approval. I know this because the type of women I date always care about what I think of them, and them asking "Do you like long hair on me?" (because no woman just asks upfront) would result me saying "Yes, I like long hair", and she'd think "dammit I don't want him to look at me like I'm gross".
Again, she can do what she wants to do; I won't leave her for cutting her hair since I don't own her hair, but I know already that no girl I'm with would just do that spontaneously.
No, I just date women who care about my opinion a little too much and care whether or not I find them attractive because they personally want to please me visually. It has nothing to do with me controlling anyone or making anyone feel obligated to seek my permission before making decisions. You're just projecting your own insecurities onto me at this point.
i don't think its a valid reason to breakup... hair grows back
Brother u just have to accept her that way... cuz if u love her... then just accept and love her just the way she is... Hair will grow again... but if u leave her for this small reason... then she is not coming back... so just be happy and accept her... ok
Without telling me then yes I’m done with her. If she discusses with me first before cutting I would definitely support her. I like long hair so it’ll hurt me a bit but that’s fine as long as she is happy. In the end if it’s without my opinion or hearing my side of it she goes ahead and cuts it, that’s it for me. She doesn’t care enough to ask and I would never do something so drastic without talking to her first.
I wouldn't break up unless there are more reasons to do it, but she would be less attractive for me and I would probably be colder with her until I get used to her new hair length.
I wouldn't break up with her but I'd be pretty upset with her. Something of that magnitude should definitely be discussed with your S. O.
No because having short hair is a normal thing for guys. That's like me wearing a dress and expecting her not to care at all.
I'm saying that cutting your hair dramatically altar's your physical appearance. Short hair traditionally is a "male" thing in our culture. That being said, if my long-haired girlfriend randomly decided to chop off her hair one day, I think it would be common courtesy to discuss it with me first. I don't see how or why it's hard to understand. Guys normally have short hair. I think the same discussion should be had if a guy wanted to grow his hair long.
Of course not. That would be a stupid reason to break up with someone. It's her hair, and she can do what she wants with it.
I'd still find her beautiful.
Its their hair to do with as they please. What guy would have the right to tell a girl what she can and can't do with what is hers.
Fortunately, I like both long and short hair girls. But even if I didn't, breaking up over that kinda shit is poco loco.
The fuck? Does he have to ask her every time HE goes to the barber? Gat daym.
I'd probably have an awesome sex session with her as punishment and then treat her to dinner - preferably cooked by me (she'll have to bear with that lol)
I'm a sucker for long hair though lol
I wouldn't break up with her over something so shallow, but I don't agree with her not telling me about it before hand.
Yeah sure is a poor reason to break up with someone cause they
decide to cut their hair real short , it makes no sense at all..
I'd think that it's a silly reason for the guy to break off with the girl.
if you really love her you probably not gonna care about her hair.
sorry bad English
Not break up. I'd be disappoint though... I love medium to long length hair.
No. I would do something that stupid! I wouldn't be in love with her hair. If she shaved her whole head, I'd love her anyway!
No, but I wouldn't be as attracted to her. I like long hair. She can do whatever she wants with her hair, but I don't have to like it.
I'd be upset because I think short hair is very unattractive on women and my girlfriend knows that but I wouldn't break up with her
I dit it, and he didn't breakup with me
I'm luckily :)
There's noting to discuss for me, How can I break with someone just because she cut off her hair without telling me
Lol 😂
Why would I break up?
That's the stupidest thing a guy can do
I would not break up with her. She can do as she wishes with her hair. Besides, I find short hair incredibly attractive
Nope I won't break up with her on this but I would be annoyed if she cut like very short boy hair
Wow its all about looks these days. Ridiculous. Clearly you wouldn't be in love with your girl to break up over that.
No, but I don't like pixie cut short. I'm sorry to say, but I wouldn't find her as cute.
Are there guys who really do that?
I wouldn't break up with them.
I would not break up: hair can grow back.
I'd get used to that.
Nope. It's her hair, her choice.
This one is a silly question ofc not
how short?
No I wouldn't because it grows back
bob looks sexy on some girls
if it was bob cut I'd like it, I'm not to sure about pixie though
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