Guys, why don't you like small boobs?

Question

I'm 17 and I have basically no boobs. Every woman in my family is above a DD except for me. I wear 34A-34B and I HATE it. 

Big boobs look way better in dresses, they fill them out a lot better and it looks more feminine. I'm 5'8 and 130 pounds, so I've always been skinny with very low body fat (from playing sports). 

I know that men are genetically programmed to prefer women with bigger "assets" which makes my self-esteem awful. 

Should I get surgery? Or just live with the fact that I'm flat chested?

Ratiocinative · Accepted Answer

When it comes down to it, people are attracted to people who they can connect with and have common goals and life experiences with. Becoming more physically attractive will help increase the number of people who would be willing to go on a date with you and give you a chance to connect with them, but it won't help you have a more satisfying relationship.

Plus, there are plenty of guys out there, such as myself, who are face and hair guys, as opposed to guys who like chest and ass. I've gone out with a woman I really like for the third time tonight and I honestly can't remember even looking at her chest on any of the dates. Not because I'm ashamed or afraid to, but simply because that's not what I really like about a woman's body. I really like long hair, soft lips, face, eyes, athletic thighs and hips.

If you're really worried about your physical appearance and wanting to be more feminine and attractive, start with things that are easier and make more of a difference, such as hair, weight, fashion, complexion. Something as simple as letting your hair grow to chest length can make you a lot sexier and doesn't require surgery.

QuestionMan · Accepted Answer

DON'T GET SURGERY!!!

As much as I like big boobs I wouldn't want a girl to go through plastic surgery just to please me. There are plenty of guys that like small boobs, just check out some of the questions about whether boob size matters www.girlsaskguys.com/search

Who knows your boobs might still grow just look at Salma Hayek she used to have small boobs as well.
Accept what you are or you will never be happy. Never change for other people.

mangaka92 · Answer

Depends on what you mean by feminine. Some use the word feminine to mean classier, more elegant, etc. which, I'd say that smaller chests give those vibes.
Also, a lot of guys really like girls that are in shape, as well.

They're also not genetically programmed to prefer anything. Each guy is going to be different. Some guys don't like big at all and see it as just useless lumps of fat and find smaller way sexier.

I wouldn't recommend surgery. There are not many guys that like fake. There aren't that many things that a lot of guys can agree on, but fake is only attractive to a very select few.
Don't "live with the fact." Feel confident in it. Don't just be tolerant of it or something. Tons of guys totally dig smaller chests and girl that is confident what she has is super sexy. Never waste time wishing you were a different size. If you become that size, you'll just find that there were just as many guys that want your new size as there were your old size. Spend your time rocking your body and feel confident because you have every reason to be!

Orion1084 · Answer

Believe it or not, there are actually guys out there that don't like big breasts, and honestly prefer smaller ones.

I am one such guy, and breasts have never been a very important aspect of attractiveness in my case. If pressed, though, I would say that I prefer smaller ones. I think they are more attractive, and they hold up better as a woman ages.

Please, please, please do not get surgery. It is ultimately your choice to do with your body as you please, but there is nothing sadder than a pair of perfect, natural breasts, regardless of size, being turned into fake monstrosities.

You will find a guy that loves your breasts, just as they are, but only if you are able to accept them, and be happy with them, first. :)

Anonymous · Answer

Small boobs can be great. At your age it's not as obvious, but as guys get more mature, size matters less and less, and even at your age there are plenty of guys who PREFER smaller boobs. Also, smaller boobs have better shape and they age better. You'll be happy they're small once you're older.

Men are not genetically programmed to prefer anything. Some prefer thick women, others prefer skinny. You're lucky that you are 5'8, cause skinny looks perfect when a girl is a 5'8 or taller, it just gives her this whole elegant, classy look that is very feminine and attractive.

dogbert444 · Answer

Please do not even consider implants!! There are guys like me who much prefer smaller boobs. I have been accused of many bad things here because I am willing to state that. I am just an average guy, nothing more, so there must be plenty of others that feel the same way as I do. I much prefer you to any of your family.

Stand in front of a mirror and tell yourself that there are guys out there who will love you for your personality, not for your boobs!!

abc3643 · Answer

Small breasted women are hot too - what is key is to be proportional.
You know, if you watch old TV shows - like 1970s and earlier, you will see that, on average, women had smaller breasts. Why? They didn't get implants and weren't as fat on average. There's a woman I know - A-cup - fucking stunning and I just wanted to die two days ago because of her.

The worth of a woman is not entirely measured in breast size. Be yourself because that is the best person you know how to be.

chuppachup · Answer

Just live with the fact that your boobs are small. Get on with life and don't change yourself so that you're attractive to boys.
Why not just wait until you meet someone who actually likes small boobs? There's plenty of guys like that. And plenty who don't give a shit about the size of your "assets".

Flat4 · Answer

I don't like small boobs at all... ... ... ... ... ... I LOVE THEM!! And they always look best on a skinny/athletic frame so you have it ALL going on 😊

DarkHumorRUs · Answer

Have you ever been on this website before?  WE LIKE ALL SIZES! 34B is great. As long as your chest isn't like a 10 year old boy, you're fine.

diarrhea · Answer

I don't think you want guys to choose you based on the size of your breasts. It won't hinder your life.

Anonymous · Answer

Since I am on mobile I can't link my question to you BUT according to that question I asked, Guys and girls HIGHLY prefer a b or c cup compared to a D or bigger. I am part of this group so be confident! Lots of guys will love yours don't worry!

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