Do you ever regain feelings for a crush you once had?

[Anonymous]

Have you ever had a crush on someone, lost feelings, and then regained the feelings again? If so, what did the person do/ why did you regain those feelings?

yes I have regained feelings

no once the crush is gone its gone

other

[Anonymous]

I think its hard to find and I haven't really experienced love in the right way from family or friendship or relationship. My expectations are shot. Relationships these days remind me of some kindof competition for the best relationship to be hash-tagged... I am definitely not a take-home-to-mom type or good-on-paper, or good rep... I had to break against a lot of constraints within my family and community to hold onto any individuality and let's just say, my reputation took the worst blow in the end. I am usually dumped as soon as they hear about me from my small town. (:..

[ElissaDido]

It's possible assuming that I'm single. If I'm in a relationship with someone else, it's not.
The only way it could be completely gone is if the reason why I stopped having a crush on him is because I found at a part of their personality, mentality and or behavior a turn off.

[Asker]

I'm the exact same way!

[crazy_eyes]

There was this guy I had a huge crush on and we've talked recently. I didn't feel exactly nervous but I felt something I'd like to call the ghost crush. It's like remembering what it felt like crushing on him but it was barely there.
If that makes any sense.

[Asker]

I can relate to this so much

[Rainie_]

Yes definitely. I can suppress my feelings quite well if I have to and if I don't see any hopes of us being together. But the moment I do see us able to be together I usually let go of that suppression.

[Dim1213]

I only did after I crushed on her for a year eventually got the courage up to ask her out and she let me down gently. A year latter she got a crush on me and told me. I thought about it and the feelings came rushing back. We tried it but our freinds teased us to much and we never got to having a date. Dumb middle schoolers. Sadly she moved away before highschool and I resented those kids for a while in highschool. I was a lonely freshmin.

[Asker]

I'm sorry that happened, guessed some things aren't meant to be at timea

[Dim1213]

No sadly they wen't mean to be.

[whenigrowup121]

I've always wondered this as well. But it seems once I've had a crush i can never get those feelings back. I guess its because i usually put myself through hell when i have a crush. So subconsciously my mind doesn't want to get hurt again. Even if it was self inflicted.

[Asker]

I understand that. Have you ever had crushes that you thought you were over, then time went on and you realized you never stopped liking them in the first place?

[whenigrowup121]

No thats never happened. After enough time and accepting nothing will happen, thoses feelings have never come back. I've been in a situation where a girl had a crush on me for 4 years. I was young and wasn't really sure how i should feel about her. But when she moved on i developed a crush on her. But she had moved on and wasn't interested any more.

[lalala07]

Yes, I do regain the feelings but it is not as strong as before I lost it. I don't care much about my crush anymore though.

[Mil00]

Currently in this situation, and I hate every second of it.

[Asker]

I'm sorry about that, I have been through that struggle haha

[cupidkisses]

once i lose my interest i don't feel the same again

[Asker]

How come?

[cupidkisses]

i don't know it just happens

[scooogy]

Well, I lost my hate towards her after a while, but now she would have to approach me so she would get me

[Maypai]

Everyday of my life. I can't help it.

[ASEXY]

Nope, I never really had a crush...

[Asker]

Really? Wow I wish tbh

[ASEXY]

Yeah. I tried to force crushes on people but they never worked...

[Asker]

I know a few people like that. Honestly, its a lot of hurting when you get rejected so I guess you're lucky in a way

[Adigelunar]

no i don't

[Asker]

How come?

[Adigelunar]

if it is over then i don't have any feelings again

[Anonymous]

Sometimes, but it's very rare

[Asker]

What did they do to make you like them again?

[babeeeone]

It happens

[Walrus_au]

yes but not the same

[CasualGirlOnline]

I have before

[Asker]

Is it often?