Boyfriend broke up with me because I was flirting with another guy? (Page 2)

Question

I play volleyball and recently we got a new substitute couch who's gonna coach us for 6 months. He's a great guy and yes he's attractive, but I do not see him in a sexual way! He's a tease, he teases all of us girls and we tease back. It's just fun! After one game I headed home with him because he lives in the area. I called my boyfriend to ask him if he's home and if there's anything to eat and he said he's not home and that there's nothing to eat, so I went to the near by grill with the coach. We took a table to eat. While eating we were talking and laughing and yes we flirted a little bit, it was really just subtly. He knew I have a boyfriend and I was often talking about him. When we were done, I came home. My boyfriend came 10 mins after and dumped me on the spot. Apparently he was at the same grill sitting near by and he heard everything. He doesn't want to talk to me, he's been ignoring my messages and calls for 3 days now. He said he doesn't want to see me ever again. That he can't forgive flirting with someone else. Is this really my fault? We've been together for 4 years, I can't believe this is happening...

Anonymous · Answer

If the guy loves me, he would trust me and our relationship. And if you love him enough, you would also trust yourself. You already admitted that you flirted a little bit, and tease him back whenever he gets a chance to tease you. There is no one to blame, both parties did a mistake. And if you want to save your relationship with him, talk to him and explain everything. He was hurt and you can't blame him if he's mad, all you need to do is be more patience explaining your side.

Anonymous · Answer

In the four years of dating that's kind of strange for him to break up so easily with you, either he's insecure or has someone else and looking for a way to break up with you , if not I'm sure he will come around eventually

Anonymous · Answer

I would have done the same thing if you lose my trust it's over

Pizzalover101 · Answer

He assumed you were going to meet him later on but you have to ask yourself how would you fill of he did that

Zk15224 · Answer

He was justified, it was wrong to do

BertMacklinFBI · Answer

explain to him what you wrote in this thread lol

joeldalton · Answer

Does he need someone to polish his crown?

Anonymous · Answer

Oh well. You weren't worth it to him.

Anonymous · Answer

I'd be mad too.

StickStickity13 · Answer

He's in the right

chuy10 · Answer

good for him

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