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This text popped up on my boyfriends phone... Cheating 😡? (Page 2)

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  • luvstoned4him
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    Could it be an old flame or someone who he liked previous?

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  • AnonTheGuy
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    Why not ask? There's no risk involved, you are either angry or relieved.

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  • Rose_07
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    do some research on the girl lmao, don't jump into conclusions with little evidence.

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  • Anonymous
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    he got some real explaining to do. He better prove to you that it was only just a regular friend that they didn't kiss, or sleep together or done anything inappropriately behind your back.

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  • pooper89
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    Judging from the tone of the message, this isn't the first time he's talked to this woman. If it were me, I'd confront him about it

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  • SpoonieKitty
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    Just ask him!!! Also do you follow him on Instagram? ##lookathispagelol

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  • Cola7248
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    ask him about it. It's probably someone he is following not he is doing but ask anyway

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  • Anonymous
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    I woulda openedbit.. read it and if needed to be confronted.. I would have I dont play with things like that.. you be faithful honest andbloyal 100% as I am

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  • Midget_Hug
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    Sounds like corny ass poetry. Definitely not cheating.

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    • Ashley8919
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      Either way it's wrong

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    • Midget_Hug
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      Probably. I wouldn't know.

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  • Anonymous
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    confront him. tell him that if he doesn't show the whole convo you're dumping him.

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  • bloodmountain1990
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    I'd pay attention for other signs, that alone is not a sign of cheating.

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  • singlebee
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    Big red flag !! Confront him about it... it looks like something is definitely up

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  • zellegion
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    sounds more like its someone who wants him but knows he taken

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  • GraceChi
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    not enough info, though it sound like a possible ex. Or it could be an older post

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  • realperson02
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    the full message is not available. don't misinterprete things unless you see the full text.

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  • zoonotic
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    It's IG so might not exactly be what it looks like you know a lot of people put those dramatic love quotes and all on their social media

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  • Alevine
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    Ask him if he wants to open up the relationship, if he denies everything then you know he's a lying motherfucker

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  • BrandonToTheD
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    just be upfront about it, I would say I know I shouldn't have looked at ur phone but I saw this and it concerns me

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  • johndoer
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    At least, the girl in the message reject him... Confront him and let's see how he explains

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    • Ashley8919
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      Yeah but wtf happened 2 weeks ago to make her reject him

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  • Bitterpill
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    It reads to me like this girl has admitted to having feelings for your boyfriend only to be rejected and now regrets telling him. If in doubt though, ask him.

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  • Highlander984
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    I've been dumped for a charicter script so yeah ask but don't come off offended. There will always be people who want you and him if that's what this is. Tact above all else.

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  • Anonymous
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    could be but I dont know for sure
    I got accused of cheating for something written literally a year later lol
    and I never did anything

    do a bit more digging like physical evidence pictures of him and a girl kissing or something

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    • Poppykate
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      But why does she even have his phone anyhow? Never read anyone's phone! You end up catching part of a message, and misinterpreting meanings altogether.

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    • Anonymous
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      @Poppykate

      I wish I knew more but my advice do a bit more digging see what you find

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    • Ashley8919
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      @Poppykate his phone was sitting there and the message popped up. How can I misinterpret something. Clearly something happened 2 weeks ago that this woman didn't like... and if she did like him, would they be Pursuing a relationship?

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    • Ashley8919
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      @Opinion owner I can't do much digging his phone is always glued to his hand... he just forgot it this one Time

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    • Poppykate
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      Hmm.. so the boyfriend that you loved isn't the guy you thought he was unfortunately. I am sorry. There is two ways you can approach this situation. 1. He angry, get mad, get upset and cry. However this will give him the upper hand or 2. Realise that he is an ass! That you deserve someone who is devoted, adores you, completely loves you (more than his phone 😒.. seriously it's like people are having a relationship with their iPhone!) and start shopping around for someone fabulous! Because I think he might have been. While you are at it, make yourself feel fab by doing a spa day, getting your hair done, buying a new dress/ shoes etc. and go have a night out of fun!

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    • Ashley8919
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      You're amazing @Poppykate I will do that

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    • Poppykate
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      I hope my advice helped! And this situation sorts itself out one way or another. Good luck gorgeous! 😉

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  • mT2359
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    may b he is just playing with you girl. May b he wants to pop the question... I saw u. u fine girl! he will be lucky to have you.

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    • Ashley8919
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      Yeah it seems to be the complete opposite

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    • mT2359
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      be calm. Rationalise. Withdraw. He will know something is wrong.

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    • Ashley8919
      Ashley8919
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      So you're saying to shut down essentially and let him ask me what's wrong

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    • mT2359
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      no use confronting. He will deny. B sure of it. Then confronting. Till then make him feel something is not right with you. Dnt you go cheating on him gurl! show some class.

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    • mT2359
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      yes. Essentially shut down.

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    • Ashley8919
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      No I would never do that to get back at someone... shut down for just tonight?

      Reply
    • Ashley8919
      Ashley8919
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      But when he's starts asking what wrong.. tell him?

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    • mT2359
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      shut down for tonight like a woman scorned🤣

      Reply
  • ashley004
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    you should tell him Isaiah thomas will be alright. but the cavs are still sweeping

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    • Dred1614returns
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      I had to turn tonight's game off. 72-31 at half. ouch

      Reply
    • ashley004
      ashley004
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      its ganna be okay chief curry will get LeBron lol

      Reply
    • FantasyGeek05
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      Curry for mvp

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  • KevinAvila
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    Booooiiii You done got cheated on better tell his ass something

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  • TheSpartan
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    Eh... I'd say that's too inconclusive. Keep investigating.

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  • NYkid27
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    You should ask him about it calmly first and see what he says

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  • JSmuve
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    Awww gurl u awtta shit alllll ova hiz cheetin ass! Shit on hiz face!

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  • Adrian99
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    my girlfriend saw something like that xD it was a joke from a friend that used his sister's acc to try to do a joke xD

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  • Stan718
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    I would honestly bring it up to him and see what he says. Based off what he says you should be able to determine your answer.

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  • Anonymous
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    Coming from a Michigan State fan, you should of broken up with him already for the Michigan lockscreen wallpaper. But yeah, kinda looks like cheating.

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  • Anonymous
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    Why are you snooping on your boyfriend's phone?

    and how about instead of asking stranger's on the internet, ask your boyfriend, and hope he doesn't dump you for snooping.

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    • cavmanier
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      Iphones screens tend to make a noise with the back light on. I've looked at phone doing that many times. I wouldn't call that snooping. She didn't unlock to the phone and read the whole message.

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    • Anonymous
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      @cavmanier Eh, still snooping IMHO.

      Now her phone after all, no business reading it. If I leave a piece of mail out on the table, doesn't mean someone else has the right to read it, IMHO.

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    • Anonymous
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      lol I can see by the down votes that there's a LOT of snoopers on this forum :D

      Reply
  • thegreekblackjack
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    Definitely ask him about it. Don't dump him without a reason.

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  • SwolDishWasher
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    Id dump you for looking at my phone. Insecure people are the ones that cheat themselves. And they blame out of guilt.

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  • WriterAndPainter
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    I'm trying to slide for more. That doesn't indicate much of anything other than suspicious behavior.

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  • rockyhardy669
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    with a stick in your mouth just say.. well there are 2 kind of man in this world, one who stay honest and the one who get busted !

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  • Westy616
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    Sounds like a very volatile situation. You should address the issue sooner rather than later. It seems like he is not 100% committed to you at this point.

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  • Anonymous
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    Woah! That's so crazy sorry but you have to tell him buy

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  • CorruptedDocument
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    could be a crazy bitch, could be cheating, could be a spam bot

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  • Kataclyst
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    how about put all those teeny tiny little useless insecurities aside and ask him

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  • awanti95
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    If you think he is cheaper then no doubt you are also cheaper.

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  • JustCallMeLeon
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    Someone has a lot of explaining to do. It seems SOMETHING definitely happened 2 weeks ago.

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  • boochie0
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    I'll confront him about it it go through his phone if he lies

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  • Anonymous
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    haii..
    relations gets breakdown bcoz of these kinds of secrets
    try to be transparent to each other
    even if u let go now
    somethings will be hitting inside ur mind
    which cause further distance

    clarify anything on spot

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  • col1n
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    i would say to him : thats a shit phone mate.

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  • independentman
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    Yeah... it's a sign he wants another female

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    • Ashley8919
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      I thought so to 😞

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    • Ashley8919
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      Not to mention I looked her up on IG. I'm way hotter. 🙄 guys are weird

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    • independentman
      independentman
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      Hmm maybe he's not satisfied with you in a relationship
      Maybe there's to much routine..

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  • sagar562000
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    Ur boyfriend ignored her .. that's why she is talking in past tense. . chill..

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  • Jamal_Duong
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    have y'all been together long enough to be that dedicated?

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  • Anonymous
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    So this is what people mean when they say social media destroys relationships, I get it now. Thanks! ^_^

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  • CingardNeverfrost
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    Sounds like a poem to me... nothing to worry about

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  • Anonymous
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    yep, my cavs were responsible for that isaiah thomas injury.. thank god. they're nothing without him, and we will continue to roll

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  • TrollG0D
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    Apologize for checking his phone. Privacy breacher.

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    • guztavo
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      She didn't check his phone. Its locked

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    • TrollG0D
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      SHe still read his shit and took a picture of it. None of her business what's going on there.

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    • Ashley8919
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      TrollGod... very fitting name

      Reply
    • guztavo
      guztavo
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      Absolutely trollgod haha nothing more to be said. Funny how cheaters want to make themselves the victims

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    • TrollG0D
      TrollG0D
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      This is the very first time I've ever addressed you. Now how would you know that's a "fitting name"?

      & @guztavo white knighting for this lurking skank won't result in you recieving GaG nudes buddy, you're wasting your time.

      Reply
    • guztavo
      guztavo
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      Haha you are funny dude. Keep trolling.

      Reply
    • Ashley8919
      Ashley8919
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      @guztavo don't respond to that child haha

      Reply
    • TrollG0D
      TrollG0D
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      I'm a grown man. (At least more of a man then your boyfriend who has mommy checking her phone)

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  • Fk7676
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    Confront him before you assume something.

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  • TripleAce
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    Ouuuuu lol
    Let the fireworks begin

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  • xolovenina
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    Super suspicious. You should keep your eye on him.

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  • Drooogie4
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    Possibly. Thats very suspicious

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  • MrAssHat
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    HAH busted by lady Juliet and her poetic words

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  • taleets
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    it seems like he cheated

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  • tsmithian
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    He ain't shit -.- lol

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  • OfDeath
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    Cheating. Kill him.

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    • Ashley8919
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      That I am

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    • OfDeath
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      I hope it works out for the best and you drop his arse

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    • Ashley8919
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      Thank you 😊

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