Maybe she came into his life and is tryna fw him, you shouldn't assume. Maybe you should ask him about it but don't accuse him because it could be nothing. Give him the benefit of the doubt
Something happened between them 2 weeks ago obviously. there's a good chance, he cheated. Or maybe she tried to make a move on him and she regretted it because she knew he was taken. Its hard to say, not knowing more
*Red Flags* I'd confront him about it, explain what happened and have him tell you his side. But it doesn't look good, looks like he's flirting with other women.
looks like he asked her out and she turned him down. ask him about it. he shouldn't hide anything if he's not doing anything. if he does he's guilt of something
Definitely cheating. Maybe it wasn't physical but he felt the need to go behind your back with this chick. Just bring it up and end it. I'm sure he'll deny it.
It doesn't mean he is cheating but it does look suspicious. Just ask him about it but remember to keep calm so it comes across as a casual question rather than a demand for information.
Think well, try to leave it, if that issue is going be solved. Some times it will take little time. Be clam & prepare nice dinner for him and discuss with him clearly after finished your dinner if that issue is going to spread. show your spiritual qualities to your partner to solve issues.
Sounds like she's rejecting him. He might have been cheating, or might have received a text from an ex. Anyway, he's not going anywhere anytime soon. Why don't you ask him about it?
Is this even about him? It almost sounds like a poem or something. It may look bad, doesn't mean it is. I would straight up ask him and see what he says about it. Based on his reaction, you should be able to make a better determination
I guess you should talk it out to him about this and figure out, rather than leaving anything to speculation between you guys. No one is guilty until proven.
You have to ask him, but definitely not with this attitude. Just be open about it and say it concerns you, but don't immediately accuse him of cheating. You don't wanna put him in a defense position.
Not necessarily. He simply could've been looking at eye candy on social media and posted 'I'd date u if I was single you're really cute!'... and that response was sent
LOL. Even mentioning this to someone shows the intent that you want something more. There will always be temptation, but a loyal person will keep it to themselves. If my boyfriend said that to someone regularly, I'd have to reevaluate whether for not he's good for the long run.
If that popped up your girlfriends phone and you thought she was cheating you would do that same thing. It's only invading his privacy if he was doing anything and she went through his phone. A guy only doesn't want a girl to go through his phone unless he is cheating same with girls.
wouldn't be looking at her phone. to take a pic and post it on here as a means to endertain a paronoid delusion is an invasion of privacy regardless of anonymity.
If i was to see something like that message somehow. I would ask her because im not a child. rather than work myself up over a a probable misconception. Id tell you to grow up but just saw that you're 14 so maybe you will understand some day
That shit is all over media, ofcourse I already understand it. Stop bringing up my goddamn age in these conversations. I'm exposed to a lot of shit so I already know most things like this and about it and how to avoid. So that someday was a long time ago.
Yeah I saw a movie once. that pretty much makes me a director. Don’t try too hard to be an adult, you dont get to be a child again once you actually are
Adult is just age, because if it was just the way we acted you would be 13. I'm trying hard to be adult, I want learn more so these "adults" , that think they know everything because of my age, can shut the fuck up. I might be going to the 11th grade next year so I think I'm pretty close to being a adult sense I would have to go to college.
You obviously not really paying attention and just paying attention to my age, so I'm going stop responding but not I'm going get in argument with someone like you. Bye
don't be stupid. if you see something pop pu on someone's phone you look. your eyes at trained to see it. she probably looked casually and then saw it was unfavorable.
and then instead of asking him, she jumped to a conclusion that wasn't necessarily validated by the amount of information given. But by all means if you wish to help ruin a perfectly good relationship then continue enabling that sort of paranoia. "don't be stupid" fuck off cunt
and if it isn't then its a massive waste. only saying communication is better than assumption. But wonderful that you dont understand that. what do you suggest i be doing at 32 seeing as you're the authority on everyones life? thanks for letting me use the app that you obviously own too. super generous of you.
say hi to Hitler lol!! So you're one of the people who is so stupid and self involved that when they feel wronged they make holocaust comparisons. How completely daft. you little snowflake (Or should I say old snowflake)
You're just the most adorable little thing. putting people in little boxes to simplify the complexities of life like that. that reply you were too mature to make could have been copied from anywhere on the internet where safe spaces and fairness to the privledged spewed from
i know way better words than any of those. I've a penchant toward a perspicacity of verbose eloquence. But 'syntax' was a very good effort too... just adorable
The use of ad hominem really shows the capacity of your grasp of logical discussion though. It's so much nicer when people go the extra mile to make themselves look stupid. Anyway its 2am and this has become far too errotic than is appropriate, so take it sleazy shit hammock xx
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You should ask him.
tell him you saw the message come up and it looks suspicious. if he refuses to show you, it's a huge red flag.
coming from a guy who has been "the other man", I used to get messages very similar to that.
Better to ask and look foolish if you're wrong then not ask and find out he's cheating on you.
Maybe she came into his life and is tryna fw him, you shouldn't assume. Maybe you should ask him about it but don't accuse him because it could be nothing. Give him the benefit of the doubt
Something happened between them 2 weeks ago obviously. there's a good chance, he cheated. Or maybe she tried to make a move on him and she regretted it because she knew he was taken. Its hard to say, not knowing more
*Red Flags* I'd confront him about it, explain what happened and have him tell you his side. But it doesn't look good, looks like he's flirting with other women.
looks like he asked her out and she turned him down. ask him about it. he shouldn't hide anything if he's not doing anything. if he does he's guilt of something
It means he probably tries something two weeks ago and she gave him the cold shoulder but now she feels otherwise... or she has remorse
Definitely cheating. Maybe it wasn't physical but he felt the need to go behind your back with this chick. Just bring it up and end it. I'm sure he'll deny it.
It doesn't mean he is cheating but it does look suspicious. Just ask him about it but remember to keep calm so it comes across as a casual question rather than a demand for information.
Think well, try to leave it, if that issue is going be solved. Some times it will take little time.
Be clam & prepare nice dinner for him and discuss with him clearly after finished your dinner if that issue is going to spread. show your spiritual qualities to your partner to solve issues.
How long have you two been together? if it's recent, then maybe that's the ex or someone else? Does the username sound feminine?
We've been together 6 months
Sounds like she's rejecting him. He might have been cheating, or might have received a text from an ex. Anyway, he's not going anywhere anytime soon. Why don't you ask him about it?
Is this even about him? It almost sounds like a poem or something. It may look bad, doesn't mean it is. I would straight up ask him and see what he says about it. Based on his reaction, you should be able to make a better determination
I guess you should talk it out to him about this and figure out, rather than leaving anything to speculation between you guys. No one is guilty until proven.
You have to ask him, but definitely not with this attitude. Just be open about it and say it concerns you, but don't immediately accuse him of cheating. You don't wanna put him in a defense position.
Not necessarily. He simply could've been looking at eye candy on social media and posted 'I'd date u if I was single you're really cute!'... and that response was sent
How would you feel if YOUR girlfriend sent that to a guy? And that message popped up on her phone?
LOL. Even mentioning this to someone shows the intent that you want something more. There will always be temptation, but a loyal person will keep it to themselves. If my boyfriend said that to someone regularly, I'd have to reevaluate whether for not he's good for the long run.
are you sure she's not just quoting a Taylor Swift song?
Probably cheating. Do some research on the girl before you confront him. Cheaters tend to lie a lot when they are caught
you took a photo of his screen? he should be the one concerned about the commitment of the relationship. Does he also invade your right to privacy?
If that popped up your girlfriends phone and you thought she was cheating you would do that same thing. It's only invading his privacy if he was doing anything and she went through his phone. A guy only doesn't want a girl to go through his phone unless he is cheating same with girls.
wouldn't be looking at her phone. to take a pic and post it on here as a means to endertain a paronoid delusion is an invasion of privacy regardless of anonymity.
That's not a invasion, I swear if a girl cheated on you. I wouldn't be surprised that you found out after you guys were broken up.
If i was to see something like that message somehow. I would ask her because im not a child. rather than work myself up over a a probable misconception. Id tell you to grow up but just saw that you're 14 so maybe you will understand some day
That shit is all over media, ofcourse I already understand it. Stop bringing up my goddamn age in these conversations. I'm exposed to a lot of shit so I already know most things like this and about it and how to avoid. So that someday was a long time ago.
Yeah I saw a movie once. that pretty much makes me a director. Don’t try too hard to be an adult, you dont get to be a child again once you actually are
Adult is just age, because if it was just the way we acted you would be 13. I'm trying hard to be adult, I want learn more so these "adults" , that think they know everything because of my age, can shut the fuck up. I might be going to the 11th grade next year so I think I'm pretty close to being a adult sense I would have to go to college.
Personally I don't like being a kid munch because people doubt you because of it. It's ok being a kid but I'm tired of these chains holding me down.
pretty much just said "i know you are so what am I?" great adulting there kid. real mature.
You obviously not really paying attention and just paying attention to my age, so I'm going stop responding but not I'm going get in argument with someone like you. Bye
The phone is locked. She didn't go through it, this just popped up and its a valid concern that she has.
I'm always surprised how cheaters try to play the victim when the victim is the one being cheated on.
don't be stupid. if you see something pop pu on someone's phone you look. your eyes at trained to see it. she probably looked casually and then saw it was unfavorable.
and then instead of asking him, she jumped to a conclusion that wasn't necessarily validated by the amount of information given. But by all means if you wish to help ruin a perfectly good relationship then continue enabling that sort of paranoia. "don't be stupid" fuck off cunt
no wonder you're on an app like this at 32 lol. It's pretty clear it's likely bad
and if it isn't then its a massive waste. only saying communication is better than assumption. But wonderful that you dont understand that. what do you suggest i be doing at 32 seeing as you're the authority on everyones life? thanks for letting me use the app that you obviously own too. super generous of you.
Clearly you prefer an echo chamber over actual contrasting opinion. begs inquiry as to why you're on this app
sorry for wandering too far from the categories you place people in. say hi to Hitler for me. twat
say hi to Hitler lol!! So you're one of the people who is so stupid and self involved that when they feel wronged they make holocaust comparisons. How completely daft. you little snowflake (Or should I say old snowflake)
You're just the most adorable little thing. putting people in little boxes to simplify the complexities of life like that. that reply you were too mature to make could have been copied from anywhere on the internet where safe spaces and fairness to the privledged spewed from
I wish that comment made sense. you tried to fit so many vocab words in it you forgot to give it syntax 🙁
i know way better words than any of those. I've a penchant toward a perspicacity of verbose eloquence. But 'syntax' was a very good effort too... just adorable
The use of ad hominem really shows the capacity of your grasp of logical discussion though. It's so much nicer when people go the extra mile to make themselves look stupid. Anyway its 2am and this has become far too errotic than is appropriate, so take it sleazy shit hammock xx
Well, something inappropriate happened a couple weeks ago. Do you know where he might have been without you in that time frame?
looks like it. Have you confronted him yet? If not then I'd play him. Use up his money, eat up his food and last but not least GHOST THAT BITCH!
Lmao cruel
lol like he isn't