Is 25 too young to be a father?

[Anonymous]

I'm 25 and found out my girlfriend is pregnant.

do you think this si too young

[MissMinaaaa]

As long as you're living a stable life, there shouldn't be any problem. My parents had their first kid at 20 which is pretty young for most since it is still the beginning stages of adulthood, but my parents already finished school and had jobs so it wasn't too bad on their part since it wasn't as struggling financially or with their time. But this is all situational, many people are successful at young ages and can afford it or have family to support them, and some people have the abilities of time management with balancing family life, work, school, etc. at young ages without feeling like they're "bad parents". If you think you are financially stable and truly willing to put time, no, you're not young. But in terms of maturity level and you feel like you're not there yet, then step up since it's kinda too late now.

[Nodachi]

It's not too old or too young. What matters is that you're financially and emotionally equipped to deal with it.

Sounds like it was not a planned child so if you have any concerns you'd better start being willing to be rational and talk through everything and anything with her.

[sunshinechyk]

Maybe in today's time it is. People are waiting longer and longer but what's done is done. Just don't make the mistake of thinking you now have to go and get married. Wait... take your time... really make sure you are right for each other.

[M-ikaela]

depends on how you feel about it, agewise it's not. I have a friend who became father when he was 20 and doesn't think they should have wait but there are people who think they can't become parents in such age

[Caaarl]

Definitely not. If you can't take care of yourself and the child then you're not ready though. If you're a kid living at home with no job you better be praying she doesn't go through with it.

[Sonjita]

My father got me when he was 23 so no, no way you are too young :) He was an awesome dad in my childhood. I miss those days.

[Lyndsielee666]

My boyfriend was 19 when our daughter was born lmfao
25 isn't too young and even if it was it's time to grow up and take care of your child.

[Kitten967]

Nope, if you're both ready for the baby then it's fine. As long as you know what you're getting into and as long as you can cope it's fine

[Anonymous]

There is no "perfect" to become a father it really depends on your character. Some people are never ready to have kids. Honestly none is going to be always a perfect parent no matter how old they are you make mistakes and learn from them. My dad was 20 when I was born and he has been a great father he is always there and he does the best he can for me and my little sister.

[coszie]

um can't be too young if you found out she pregnant than you're a father...

[karlaj22]

Young, but not to young. What's important is for you to be mature and financially stable.

[Anonymous]

no. when i was born my dad was also 25 while my mom was 24

[Chico_brah]

I'm 23 and just found out too bud.

[Asker]

we hit the mark at the same time bruh

[seagreen]

Yes it's young but not too young

[sotruesosweet]

No I was 20 when I became a mom

[Rhysia]

no, you can do it. 😃

[princesesjasmin]

I was a mother at 16 so it's never too early

[Asker]

if you don't mind me asking how old was the father?

[princesesjasmin]

19 we broke up a few months ago

[TacosRAwesome]

If you're asking yes. In practice no.

[JamesCX]

Wake up an smell the coffee! 😂

[realperson02]

it's okay unless you not financially well off.

[Musso]

best age. YOU will grow with your kid.

[Anonymous]

no lol its a good age.

[cutemz]

No it's not

[Anonymous]

nope

[Asker]

why so?