Is a huge height difference bad for a relationship?

[Anonymous]

Ok so i a 17 and there is this girl i really like
i have liked her since freshman year, and i'm a senior now, but one thing sort of lingers in my mind..
if we were to become a thing, is a height difference a bad thing for a relationship?

She is 4"11 - 5"0

I am 6"0 & i don't even know if i'm done growing.
is that bad?
if we were to kiss i would literally have to pick her up, squat, or bend down.
would this be bad?
her head literally comes up to like...

a bit above my belly button..

Yes this would cause problems

No it would be fine

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[Wolfbringer22]

is this a joke? Women dead/ make it a qualification that you be taller then them in order for the relationship to exist (they deny men the ability to have a relationship unless they have more then them) I see your young but after a while you'll understand why it ok for you and not ok for short men to date tall women.
lol "equality" lol
but no your fine intact a butch of girls in this comment would agree as well as tall guys

[Wolfbringer22]

sorry a lot of auto correct

[Asker]

Im someone who is considered tall and she is considered a midget...
so compared to her i'm like a giant.

[Wolfbringer22]

to put it in a nutshell in nature when something is natural an equivalant or opposite reaction occurs. Your not gonna see a tall attractive girl hanging out with smaller not socially accepted boys. But you will see tons of girls make a will and a way to get a taller, batter looking guy even if their only friends and even try to work their way into more than that. Therefore it is a forced one sided standard. Trust me your fine. But take it from a guy who was the seed of a 6'4" stud and a 5'3" book worm. they do not respect those who don't meet those expectations. So make sure she wants you for you and not the feeling she gets from dating someone to feel better about her height complex or she will be your down fall later.

[meatballs21]

Any excuse for another picture of Hayden and Wladimir!

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[Asker]

thats about how we look next to each other
but
that guy is wearing sandals & she's wearing boots so she is taller than what she actually is without those boots

[RedMatch]

Nope, nothing bad about it in fact i think its good is equals it out a bit as so to say. My partner is almost a head taller then me, and I like being embraced by him and picked up, and Im usually among the taller of girls so just feels nice that there is someone bigger then me.

[RedMatch]

Im 5'7" he is 6"0, I know not as different as with you and you girl, but it doesn't matter as long as you love each other.

[Poppykate]

I am 5'3". Most guys I have dated have been over 6'0'. It has never been a problem. With one guy I lived with I had a 'kissing stool'. If I wanted a kiss or hug I would go over to the stool and jump up and down. He would find it cute.

[Asker]

well 5"3 isn't really that short
my moms 5"2 and she come's up to my chest i think
but my mom has a lot of hair so without the hair it might change

[Poppykate]

Yeah, 5"3' is average.

[silverblood]

If you like her and want to get to know her on that level, then go for it. how tall or short someone is shouldn't matter in the long run if your just two young people dating and getting to know one another.

[anniisa]

No there's no problem with it at all. My cousin is a 6ft male and he's married to a woman who's 5 ft. Don't worry about it.

[thatguyfromtoronto]

Yeah, you girls say sure go for it, but if a girl is 5'10 and a guy is 5'8, you same girls are going to say ew! He's such a loser and then gets influenced by your girlfriends that he is a loser because he's 2 inches shorter in height *smh* Y'all ask your friends like they pay your bills.

I'm sorry but I find that extremely hypocritical for the girls on here saying that. I wonder if it's cool for me to have the mindset of a girl should look like Pamela Anderson back in her Baywatch days, but then I would be considered a sexist pig.

[CubsterShura]

Go for it! If you love each other then that's all that matters.

You can sit on a bench/sofa and make her sit on your lap to makeout if it's really a problem.

[nbbn5]

dude go for it its fine plus many girls like taller guys maybe she will like your height
yesterday a girl said to my friend that he looks nice as he is tall (5"10)
but not for many girls so just go for it height should not be a issue in it

[Mitch6192]

If you like her, and she likes you, then go for it.
On the negative side, this means that another guy who is shorter than you, may not have the chance to pass his genes on now.

[Anonymous]

I'm a sucker for tall guys, the guy I'm seeing is almost a foot taller than me and it's not a problem at all :)

[xburrowbuntx]

If you both have that mutual feelings for each other , I don't think height matters tbh

[lovelyhoneybones]

How would height be bad for a relationship? There are some things that don't need to be asked or answered, and this is one of them.

[Anonymous]

For men height doesn't matter. For women. It's actually been studied that they are their most happy with a man who is 8.3 inches taller than them. So no. HEIGHT DIFFERENCE IS NOT A BAD THING.

In fact the taller you are than a girl the better.

[abundantlyrich]

above your belly? then she can't be four feet nine. She could be four feet five!!!

yes if you want to kiss a short girl, you have to carry her up for some smooching.

[MoeAli]

Realistically speaking, what has height to do with someone you love & in a relationship with. people will always find something to judge us.

[Asker]

i have not been around her family but i have seen her family
they are much like her, very short..
i dont know if that would be a problem for them

[alice55]

This is very awkward. In my country when couple have too much height difference they always break up.
They prefer to be on the same height levels.

[Asker]

I have never been in a relationship so im not sure if it would be a reason to break up
but the women that are in my family aren't that short so it's something im not quite used to

[alice55]

Maybe try to find a taller girl? I know that personally it's always awkward when I'l next to short people (even when it's still friends).

[Asker]

Really like her though
Usually I have crushes, then the crush I have on them will fade away after a good month, I've had the biggest crush on her for 3 years
I've seen her go through like 12 relationships And I still like her

[alice55]

If she move away you'll surely not like her anymore (I have the same type of crush as you and it what happened to me).

[Anonymous]

im barley over 5'2" and my boyfriend is 5'8". we have a happy relationship still being together after 3 years. if you were like 2 feet taller that might create an issue. but a foot taller shouldn't

[Asker]

that's not bad though

[Solanaceae]

Haha I'm 5'9 1/2, so I seriously need someone taller than me, especially since I like to wear heels

[Asker]

5"9 isn't bad
my sister is 5"10

[Solanaceae]

How old is she? She's m role model haha <3

[Asker]

She's 17 but turns 18 soon
(We have different moms)

[Solanaceae]

Ah. I'm 15, so I might still get taller ❤️

[Solanaceae]

Tell her happy birthday for me 😊

[MikaC98]

you're FIIINE, ask her out already :)

[Asker]

Wish i could but she's actually in a relationship with another girl at the moment

[Anonymous]

If you both like each other you'll make it work. It isn't that big of a problem

[meandane]

It's fine. Kiss her on the stairs if you must.

[Anonymous]

It's not ideal for most reasons, unless you have a height fetish.
I don't want a girl who needs a step ladder to kiss me.

[WalterRadio]

There are certain advantages to small girls.

[Asker]

they don't have tall people problems lol

[meganthemenace]

It can work but some people may stare.

[Anonymous]

i think it is not much important

[AlwaysBelieving]

It's only an issue if you make it one.

[Nahid1234]

Seems okay and I would love to be your height

[Nahid1234]

No it would be fine

[IHaveLists]

No it'll be fine

[TJLaMoss]

it has ups and downs

[Anonymous]

not a problem at all