Sadly the boyfriend is free to leave if he so chooses. I would be more happy for your girl friend, that the asshole left. Better she end up with ANYONE but him.
...It's a wonder how guys like that ever get girlfriends in the first place, while there are other guys out there who wouldn't do this, and yet have been single their whole lives. It's ridiculous.
I agree with you but that's the price people pay for falling in love.Its such a shame that life is this way,but we all live in a house on fire and there is no fire department to call and there is no way out.IT SHOULD BE ILLEGAL TO BREAK A GIRLS HEART.
I completely agree, that's wrong and screwed up, if anything I'd want to be MORE there for a girl if she lost a finger, I mean that's gotta suck enough, but adding insult to injury like that is just over the top, shallow and screwed up!
Lol, I'm just not so painfully and pathetically shallow to reject someone over something so superficial. Not to mention I have a single shred of sympathy for someone that has something bad happen to them, I can't keep from having a heart any more than so many of these "men" can keep from being self-absorbed pricks only concerned with physical qualities over emotional and intellectual volume and a deeper connection. I feel sorry for anyone that would over-look such characteristics.
Thanks, wish there were more respectable men responding to this, instead of so many boys giving an ill interpretation of what capacity a man is to be there for his woman, and more importantly what it means to be a man; it's shameful to see how well accepted it is to turn from a woman over something so minor instead of turning futher to her in the time she likely needs the most comfort.
Truth is, he didn't really love her. People that are in love stay with that person 100% when they go through something like this. I'm sorry this happened to your friend; regardless of her beauty and great body he just wasn't in love with her.
Although I don't know, it probably wasn't because she lost the finger. It could have been that she did something particularly dumb that resulted in losing the finger (I don't know if this is the case), or it could be other issues.
She should be able to get a prosthetic finger which would make it not noticable to most people so it shouldn't really be an issue.
If that was the only reason, he is an idiot. But it probably wasn't the only reason.
Its just a shallow dumb ass guy... I'm sure she is a great women with a great personality and sooner or later he will realize that he lost something amazing and it will be to late... So his loss and trust me he will regret it soon enough!
hmm...putting the shoe on the other foot for a sec, do you think your friend would've dumped him if he lost a finger (try really really hard to answer this honestly)?
Shouldn't expect anything better than that from 12-30 year olds. That's why I only look for 30+ women, don't even bother looking at young girls. They are too immature to be in serious relationships. At least most of young people are.
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looks like your friend won't be giving anyone the finger anytime soon.
I'd stay with her until she started asking the question "Do you think my missing finger makes me ugly?" Because that's one more question to p*ss me off.
That's sad. Atleast you found out what type of character he has. His true colors have shown through, and believe it or not, your best friend will most likely end up in the better position.
This man is shallow beyond shallow if it was the other way around she most likely would have stayed with him. I'm sorry for your friend and I hope she finds someone who will love her for her. My friend stopped talking to a guy she liked because he got paralyzed when she met him he wasn't but when he got paralyzed she dropped him, some people are just so cold.
I think it was an extremly insensitvie thing to do, but I think it showed his real intensions for their relationship, I think if he saw if going far he would of stuck with her and as someone else said it could of caused troubles in the relationship
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My girlfriend lost her entire right arm... I still think she's hot.
That annoys me a lot. That's probably a big asshole thing to do to someone. Bah. Well if he left her that just means that he didn't really like her that much.
Well if he is going to leave her over a finger that is not the man she wants to be with anyways..being that the vows do include the line through sickness and in health...if he is not willing to accept her no matter what, he is no good for her. But yes, you are very just feeling the way you do because I feel the same..how frickin ridiculous! what a douche!
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Sadly the boyfriend is free to leave if he so chooses. I would be more happy for your girl friend, that the asshole left. Better she end up with ANYONE but him.
...It's a wonder how guys like that ever get girlfriends in the first place, while there are other guys out there who wouldn't do this, and yet have been single their whole lives. It's ridiculous.
I agree with you but that's the price people pay for falling in love.Its such a shame that life is this way,but we all live in a house on fire and there is no fire department to call and there is no way out.IT SHOULD BE ILLEGAL TO BREAK A GIRLS HEART.
I completely agree, that's wrong and screwed up, if anything I'd want to be MORE there for a girl if she lost a finger, I mean that's gotta suck enough, but adding insult to injury like that is just over the top, shallow and screwed up!
You sound desperate
Lol, I'm just not so painfully and pathetically shallow to reject someone over something so superficial. Not to mention I have a single shred of sympathy for someone that has something bad happen to them, I can't keep from having a heart any more than so many of these "men" can keep from being self-absorbed pricks only concerned with physical qualities over emotional and intellectual volume and a deeper connection. I feel sorry for anyone that would over-look such characteristics.
For all the whiny jerks, this is what a real man is like.
Thanks, wish there were more respectable men responding to this, instead of so many boys giving an ill interpretation of what capacity a man is to be there for his woman, and more importantly what it means to be a man; it's shameful to see how well accepted it is to turn from a woman over something so minor instead of turning futher to her in the time she likely needs the most comfort.
Truth is, he didn't really love her. People that are in love stay with that person 100% when they go through something like this. I'm sorry this happened to your friend; regardless of her beauty and great body he just wasn't in love with her.
Well put - direct & insightful:)
Although I don't know, it probably wasn't because she lost the finger. It could have been that she did something particularly dumb that resulted in losing the finger (I don't know if this is the case), or it could be other issues.
She should be able to get a prosthetic finger which would make it not noticable to most people so it shouldn't really be an issue.
If that was the only reason, he is an idiot. But it probably wasn't the only reason.
Just a tad brutal. It's not like her face got horribly disfigured.
Sorry to break it to you, but your guy friends are d***s, and not of the cool/good variety.
Not true. maybe not of the p**** variety
Its just a shallow dumb ass guy... I'm sure she is a great women with a great personality and sooner or later he will realize that he lost something amazing and it will be to late... So his loss and trust me he will regret it soon enough!
hmm...putting the shoe on the other foot for a sec, do you think your friend would've dumped him if he lost a finger (try really really hard to answer this honestly)?
i do think it's a shallow/d*** move tho...
Shouldn't expect anything better than that from 12-30 year olds. That's why I only look for 30+ women, don't even bother looking at young girls. They are too immature to be in serious relationships. At least most of young people are.
looks like your friend won't be giving anyone the finger anytime soon.
LOL
How do you know what finger it was? lol
Lmfao!! I feel so bad for laughing at that...so I apologize lol
This might be kinda funny when you read it first but seriously the guy was a d***.And how the hell do you know what finger it was?
I'd stay with her until she started asking the question "Do you think my missing finger makes me ugly?" Because that's one more question to p*ss me off.
That's sad. Atleast you found out what type of character he has. His true colors have shown through, and believe it or not, your best friend will most likely end up in the better position.
This man is shallow beyond shallow if it was the other way around she most likely would have stayed with him. I'm sorry for your friend and I hope she finds someone who will love her for her. My friend stopped talking to a guy she liked because he got paralyzed when she met him he wasn't but when he got paralyzed she dropped him, some people are just so cold.
Unless it got pinched off while she had it up another guys ass while she was giving him a BJ, then the guy is a shallow, undeserving A-hole.
hahaha nice
I think it was an extremly insensitvie thing to do, but I think it showed his real intensions for their relationship, I think if he saw if going far he would of stuck with her and as someone else said it could of caused troubles in the relationship
My girlfriend lost her entire right arm... I still think she's hot.
Sorry to hear bro,and I guess we are the few good men left
That annoys me a lot. That's probably a big asshole thing to do to someone. Bah. Well if he left her that just means that he didn't really like her that much.
shes beatiful, and has a great body...but she's missing a finger.
thats the bottom line really and its a reflextion on the society we live in and the standard or lack of it, that we conform to.
Well if he is going to leave her over a finger that is not the man she wants to be with anyways..being that the vows do include the line through sickness and in health...if he is not willing to accept her no matter what, he is no good for her. But yes, you are very just feeling the way you do because I feel the same..how frickin ridiculous! what a douche!
Wow what a d*** that's seriously f***ed up. Damn tell her I'm sorry, and that she deserves better, what an ass hole, and f*** all those other guy's
maybe he is just confused at the moment or he is just a tool. that is somthing that a boyfriend is supposed to be a support for somthing like this