Haven't read the whole paragraph, but already know you're over-exagerating the issue.
Not everyone remember that date, it's so insignifiant.
Even more if it's been less than a fucking month.
You're angry at him for not having a perfect memory?
There's no effort to be put here, if you mark every signifiant part of your life with a date it's gonna bury your happiness and you'll hardly be able to live freely afterward.
Today it's was the first date, tomorrow it'll be the date for your first time together, the day after it'll be your first gift, and so on.
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I rather remember first meet or first kiss with my girlfriend then starting date or marriage.
Because it not spacial day for some. Ask him which is his spacial day.
Maybe his first kiss, sexual conversation, moments, baby...
Everyone is deferent.
To be honest every relationship I have been in I have never remembered the date... People have a lot going on as long as he treats you well don't grill him to much not everyone remembers that sort of thing it doesn't mean he cares any less.
umm.. shit happens.
I'd be more worried about how you're that shaken by him forgetting a date rather than focusing on how much fun you're having (or are you?) in a relationships that is still very fresh.
Maybe he was weirded out that you were talking about anniversaries and all that when it's only been a month. Ask him this in 6 months or so. Not now
Learn this now and prevent yourself some heartache. Guys are just like that. Don't take it personally and make it an issue. It's just not important.
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Most guys don't think that way. I deal with numbers all day so it's in my nature to remember dates. My wife was extremely surprised that I could remember the date we first met, our first date, etc., because I can associate the dates with other dates I can remember. She, on the other hand, could remember what she was wearing and what other people were wearing at the party we went to on our first date. I didn't even remember what I wore. You are worrying about nonsense, to be honest.
I am not good with dates either.
Life is not a fairy tale and neither is your relationship. You are upset because it matter to you a lot. I get that very well but still, if you believe that this guys is real and genuine then you need to move on from this little set back and see whether things materialize for you better tomorrow.It means you are insane. One month in and you are upset about trivia like this? If you are still together in a year it might mean something.
I don't do anniversaries, why would I celebrate my relationship once a month a year or whatever the period is when I can celebrate it everyday by enjoying the company of my partner. I barely care about my birthday let alone an anniversary.
hey in all honesty everyone is different it took me quite a few years to remember my own childrens birth dates lol xx
Shit I can barely remember my son's birthday sometimes. Give the guy a break. For starters y'all have only been together for a month.
Most guys don't remember the first date. It's been 2 years for me and my boyfriend doesn't remember ours.
You shouldn't focus on small things like that when it's only been a month to begin withIf it's that big of a deal to you, remind him what it is and tell him it's important to you.
Wow, why do I feel like you're the type to get angry about petty things as well?
For the record (update), I really don't care to celebrate my birthday. To me, it's just another day. I remember other's birthday's though.Well, don't worry about him forgetting a wedding anniversary, if this bothers you that much, he'll dump you soon enough.
Go right ahead and pour gas on that flame.. should blow up in your face nicely.Lol I don't think it really matters. What matters is you guys' relationship.
Not give a shit... Oh wait thats right he's like the only guy to ever do that, huh?
How little do you know about guys?
We forget dates like that. We forget birthdays, anniversaries, etc... It's practically a comedic trope and stereotype for a reason.I don't remember my wedding anniversary. Shit happens.
So what? Why are dates so important? He matters or his memory?
Any man who can't remember his anniversary date ought to get slapped.
Chill it's just a date. xD
Guys don't keep track of those things very well
Not that serious. Just remind him
Don't be so petty.
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