My elder sister has been dating this guy from her college and let’s just say I fell for him the moment she brought him home. He works out so he’s jacked and I just can’t stop ogling at his topless photos on Instagram.
I thought I could just pass it off as me being lustful but as I got to talk to him and know him more, I started to fall for his personality too.. So I know it’s not just physical attraction anymore.
But he & my sister are very steady (he’s even shared with me he plans to propose to her during graduation) and everytime i see him, it breaks my heart a little.
Worst thing is they’re quite sexually active and my room is right next to hers so I can kinda hear everytime they do it.. It doesn’t help that I keep imagining my sis enjoying his hard pecs and abs while he makes sweet love to her..
Moving out of my family house is not an option now cause I still wanna be with them tillI I myself get married. But that only means more heartache for me whenever I see him go into my sis’ room cause I know what they’re going to do..
This is him by the way.. Just so you guys can picture the kinda body he has..
Ok stop for a few minutes like you said it's just lust you can have that with anybody first of all let's turn it around I say it's your boyfriend and your sister feeling the same way except for your sister acts on it and he goes for it now what who you going to hate more your sister or him there's $550,000 and trillion guys out there the corner of you all look like him if you want a fantasy fulfill it that you can't do with him it's not worth the pain that you go through between your sister and your family
well, complicated situation you are in, but honestly you know that they love each other and you just should forget about him, or depending on your age and attractivness you should just get some guy that resemble him and maybe you can found love as well?
I'm not sure how much I believe this, but if it's true, suck it up princess. Your sister is happy - by extension, you should be happy. She got a great guy and he's TAKEN, so stop sitting there and wishing there was more because trust me, even if there was a way it wouldn't be worth it to lose your sister and possibly family over. Just go and get your own.
Start looking for his flaws (we all have them). Don't fixate on him, look around at other hot guys.
Just give yourself time to get over him and take him off his pedistool. Your sister is someone that is going to be a part of your life forever. Don't ruin your relationship over it.
I don't think you are in love with him. I think you are in love with the idea of him. I think you also want what your sister has with him. Stop focusing on him/them and focus on making yourself happy. This fixation will only end in your own misery. Don't do that to yourself.
That feeling you have, although probably not the norm, isn't all that fucked up as it sounds. I do not however see how him proposing to your sister would break your heart just a little. I would think you'd be happy for her. Is he the only guy in your town? You need to get out on the town and get your own guy.
Maybe you should have an honest talk with both of them, explaining how it is hard for you, and that you don't want to leave them yet, or bring trouble to their relationship? Maybe they'll act accordingly to that
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You always want what you can’t have. Like others have said when you find the one for you none of this will matter. You just have to stick it out until that time comes.
Don’t risk your relationship with your sister over lust.
There are rules... don't keep it in the family that's just wrong! I say take your infatuation and find someone else life is to short to be wasting time and feelings on someone that clearly isn't interested in you...
@GhettoSandwich64 bless your only 16? Life seems to drag at that age oh I wish I was 16 again, I remember wishing to be older... now that I am I see just how short and fast life goes! It's true believe me years go by before you know
You know what I'll tell you something. When you sister is not around and he's there. Take you shit and pants off. Go nude in front of him. He'll probably give his penis in you. Fuck him hard so that he comes every day to meet you
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Anonymous
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You have issues. You are jealous of your sister and you feel the need to compete her. I don't use the word hoe usually, but...
Don't do anything... You'll find your guy and be in love too, but if you tell them imagine how ackward it's going to be on the future. And you'll ruin they relationship a bit too...
Literally just an average guy gobbling protein drinks like candy and spending all their free time at a gym. Then, they have to maintain that or their body will look disgusting for the rest of their life, which will happen with age.
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