How can I get my boyfriend to be ok with my body goal? (Page 5)

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Hi everyone!  My boyfriend and I are together since 2013. I started going to the gym as my 2015 new year resolution and I got addicted after I saw how my muscle grew and how hard they become lol I took it more seriously for the past two years and I grew a lot. I talked to my boyfriend and I told him I want to grow bigger and more defined. He wasn't as thrilled as I hoped (he loves muscle on women). I'll post pictures to get a better idea: I am like her in terms of muscle amount and definition And I want to be bigger and more muscular like this girl ore more: How can I convince him, I don't want to lose him neither to stop myself from doing what I like?

Caesar88 · Answer

It's about tastes, and my taste can't accept it. The first photo is kinda fine still need to give up some muscle but the other is impossible for me to accept

nicconos · Answer

Apologies but unless you plan to go professional to look like the second girl males no sense and it would take away your feminine appearance

CubsterShura · Answer

Talk to him and show him how dedicated you are. If he dumps you, be happy that you both spared one another for good. I hope he'll understand.

TXKen · Answer

The first pic looks like a guy with boobs. The second isn't much better. If he isn't attracted to manly looking women you won't be able to convince him.

KrisGlover · Answer

Nothing wrong with wanting to look like that but I personally an less attracted to a woman with that amount of muscle definition so I'm not sure how you could convince him otherwise.

AD240pCharlie · Answer

I don't really find muscles attractive on women, I actually think it's a huge turn-off, but if he loves you, then he will hopefully accept it. That doesn't mean that he will like it, but at least that he won't let it come between you.

DennisTheMenace96 · Answer

Just got done cleaning the vomit off of my phone screen

ItzPeter97 · Answer

Most lads are intimidated by girls who have bigger muscles and who look stronger then them so not every lad will be okay with it. If you want him to be okay with your lifestyle then try get him to be your gym partner

babaganoosh · Answer

You can't, but tough shit if they don't like it. It's yours, you do what you want with it.  Looks great by the way 👍 👍

muhhrissa · Answer

The first one is cool, second one looks manly. Maybe he still wants to see some femininity.

Raajk1995 · Answer

Well i suggest you to just talk to him tell your desire and goals you want. He loves you then he will never say no to you. And i know he will say yes and support you.
Good luck
Take care
And keep exercising

tyk4495 · Answer

Personally I would not be able to be with a girl like this but it's your life so do what makes you happy

chrisvolk · Answer

1. You are perfect.. seriously.. perfect 2. Taking protein supplements help... but lots and lots and LOTS of small weights.. reps..

rachelrockstheblock · Answer

Do what you need to do. If he doesn't accept you, then what can ya do?

10dsw · Answer

My god the second one makes me want to blow my fucking brains out. That's disgusting

dragoljub · Answer

He doesn't want you to take steroids and have manly features

TrajanJJ · Answer

Masculine men do not like masculine women.  I don’t think there is any way you can make a guy like a certain body type.

justlookingtosee · Answer

Nope... nope... and nope. Not feminine at all personally don't even find it attractive. I've dated big women and little women but muscular like that is a very fast turn off...

Goochbreaker · Answer

the girl in the second picture's biceps are too big, she looks like a man, unattractive sorry and I rarely say that about in shape women

SavagePatchKids · Answer

I don't think he'd want someone who looks more manly than he does...

Carley99 · Answer

That's not attractive maybe he's not attracted to that type.

ciitruskiwi · Answer

You can't convince him. If he doesn't like it then he doesn't like it and frankly I don't blame him

LennyR1 · Answer

You can't force someone to change their mind usually people do the opposite if it is forced. Best thing to probably do is invite him along with you and work out together.

iNsaneMilesy · Answer

Guys like strong women with curves, not gross shredded women who like he-men characters with bad boob jobs and obsessive compulsive disorders.

Sophylism · Answer

So whatever you like if he doesn't accept the way you are so be it. Even if it's hard being a female with a toned body

Fatboy98 · Answer

A woman is a woman regardless how she's looks. Be proud who you are, you shouldn't have to change your new look for him. If i was him, i would excited and arouse that my girl is the sexy She-hulk.

Buckzor · Answer

I hope you know, if you want to get to the bottom girls physique, you're going to have to inject shit into your body. She's not natural.

50kill · Answer

Damn, you should be great in bed, but I personally hate girls with muscles it's not that attractive

Arturs · Answer

You can tell him all the pros and cons of him dating you while u workout, but if he still doesn't agree, I'm afraid either u ignore him and race to your goal or leave him...

nutshell234 · Answer

If he’s not happy with it then don’t worry about it just do you. You can’t make him like something or be ok with something if he’s already thinking he’s not ok with it.

BigManSAB · Answer

There’s a lot of guys out there who love that shit. If he doesn’t like it that’s not a big deal!

boggboss · Answer

The same way u can do way u want with your body and no one can change that is the same way he can dislike it and maybe move on

smithe43 · Answer

Be 100% honest and tell him how you feel with self image I’m sure he’ll understand and if not still carry on never give up #girlpower

jim_thekil · Answer

I don t think a woman is atractive when she have biger muscles , it looks to manly but this my opinion

Dinnye001 · Answer

Holy shit... that looks so masculine I'd feel gay even for holding such a girls hand.

Not many people will be attracted to you with such a body. You WILL lose your boyfriend if you like gurly features and you can't do anything.

LilJuan01 · Answer

I don't know many guys feel like they are being emasculated if their girl is more muscular than them so it might bother many, but be yourself girl and do what makes you happy

SouthpawPablo · Answer

come be with me lol ill wax that any way you want it as long as you dont snap my dick off im good but ya pick one new you new guy or old u old guy.

rachel_1212 · Answer

I would say do whatever you want, it’s your life, you dont need his permission to do it

Bjorn526 · Answer

My wiener wouldn’t match your whole style, muscular veins and all

LovelyFlower · Answer

Simple dump his ass you shouldn’t need his approval.

dizmuhjam · Answer

I think you'd need steroids to get a body like that. 😳 and no.. thats not for me. The first pick is too much already. As you said "addicted".

kareemsaid · Answer

Regardless all my application to your efforts.. but most men don't like their girls to be shredded and have big muscles. . How the relation between you both on bed could go? Men love soft and fluffy skin dear.

That1GingerKid · Answer

Well these women are body builders it's a real lifestyle change. I don't know how you look now but if you want to get healthy go for it.

Solias · Answer

Maybe make you muscle gains more gradual so he can get used to your changing body, besides it with cut down on stretching your skin out

Anonymous · Answer

Definitely not cool too much muscle looks bad on a woman...

Griselda708 · Answer

That is plain disgusting on a female. I understand if you left to get toned and define your muscles, but as far as the picture goes it is not lady like

justasking247 · Answer

Nice but I'd rather have a woman without all the Cutts.. men need something to hold on to. And It doesn't feel right when ur women is stronger then u while have sex

hellacray · Answer

Well body building is a life style. If he doesn't like what you have become he's gonna leave.  Rather than trying to convince him I think it's better to just get prepared for when he does leave.

Phillips260 · Answer

How much do you love him? If he really loves u he would be supportive.

mr_big · Answer

I personally don't see any problem with setting goals for yourself. you have to make yourself happy and content, and if he's not supportive of your decisions i think he is being very selfish.

GirlsFlirtWithMe · Answer

Don't be get more fit than abs and a little muscle on your arms. Any more than that is not good looking. Those girls had pretty faces but their body's being fit like that is not attractive.

Dayanlove · Answer

U can tell him and if he truly loves you will be okay with your decision at the end of the day he fell in love with you not with your body always remember that

The_Gentelman · Answer

We I personaly like muscular girls but that first picture would be the top limit for my taste. Sorry to say so but atm I have no idea how anyone could convice him

blanxicity · Answer

Sounds like he can kick rocks if he's not okay with something that makes you happy.

Edanurus · Answer

You have to make a choice then. If your boyfriend doesn't find that look attractive then it's unfair to expect him to be with someone her not really into.

I guess it all depends which is more important to you personally.

Highlander984 · Answer

To be fit is one thing but one thing most beautiful that women bring to lifes table is softness. Be smart, be assertive like a warrior but don't surrender the one thing that a man can't otherwise have.

jimyee · Answer

The first one is already gross but the second is disgusting.

Slarenx · Answer

I'm a desperate virgin and even I wouldn't tap that lol

KevonO · Answer

You look amazing now... sorry but I agree with your man, the other chic looks like a dude, not sexy at all, you have to keep some femininity... you look great now maintain or you may as well grow a penis

addone63 · Answer

If he is not happy with who u r now and who u want to be.. then not right boyfriend or husband of the future either.

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