How can I get my boyfriend to be ok with my body goal? (Page 7)

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Hi everyone!  My boyfriend and I are together since 2013. I started going to the gym as my 2015 new year resolution and I got addicted after I saw how my muscle grew and how hard they become lol I took it more seriously for the past two years and I grew a lot. I talked to my boyfriend and I told him I want to grow bigger and more defined. He wasn't as thrilled as I hoped (he loves muscle on women). I'll post pictures to get a better idea: I am like her in terms of muscle amount and definition And I want to be bigger and more muscular like this girl ore more: How can I convince him, I don't want to lose him neither to stop myself from doing what I like?

Steveram9 · Answer

Oh sorry but you look like a man! I think there is no way to make him accept it! Unless he afraid of you lol

SovietBall · Answer

Dang girl! I'd feel like I'm dating one of the dudes if I were him! Definitely A HUGE turnoff to be honest!

natgal · Answer

Two options here, one is that he need to do the same. Two break up and find some one that IS doing the same

100lbguy · Answer

I support your boyfriend because, would you like it if your boyfriend was making himself look feminine?

MaskedVigilante · Answer

Most guys dont like musclular girls. Youd probably be better off with someone else. Especially if your muscles would be bigger than his thats a no go for most guys.

pt00488 · Answer

He should love you enough to let you do what makes you happy

Zion666 · Answer

Plain and simple, and trust me, what better advise than one coming from a guy: WE FIND IT REPULSIVE. In other words: we wouldn't go to bed with... THAT!

NOCTERNAL1234 · Answer

Buy him a PS4 and he’ll be to busy to worry about it.

bestpersonever899995 · Answer

Why did you use other girls pictures and not your own this makes me think your not a girl at all

Christopherthrob · Answer

I wish my love 😍 mussel would grow bigger then I could be super man

Anonymous · Answer

Maybe he feels self conscious against how you look, when you have a certain amount of muscle it takes your femininity away and that is very unattractive

IrishAyy · Answer

Reach your goal, show him who's boss then get a guy who's jacked

ashleyRenee1989 · Answer

a lot of men are intimidated by that, other men feel like its reminds them of another man

SandNigga · Answer

How about you tone down on that muscle building yo, not a of guys would be comfortable with you

J4Zzi3 · Answer

... nothing beat a morning talk at breakfast. after lots and lots of sex at night.

Anonymous · Answer

If you were addicted to video games or vodka I'm sure he would be worried too.

Wariatth89 · Answer

Girl r u crazy? Tell me where those woman look close to the beauty of womans body anyone agree with me?

wittyeva · Answer

To be honest here. If you can't convince him with words use physical force lmao! With those guns you should have no problem hahaha

MartinFFM · Answer

Like everything... find a common ground that works for both of you. If you cannot find common ground than you should seek consequences...

fdd62094 · Answer

Sorry to say this but... Frankly, It's disgusting. Maybe because I like women who had little or more fats in their body

DNB1994 · Answer

You could Date me? I don’t judge anybody. But this is the internet... so that request never works.

MohammedAZ · Answer

There is no guy who'd like a girl who have a body more manly than his own body 😂 I bet his body ain't that manly lol

mrniceguy3919 · Answer

I think your boyfriend should support you in any goals you have and that you should always be beautiful in his eyes. at least you have healthy interests and goals.

thedoctor880 · Answer

Im just going to tell u strate up most guys are not going to like the u should do thin some Muscle but not riped it makes u look like a guy and thats not attractive

benzoek · Answer

Your should never be afraid to be urself no matter what if he's stopping you from what makes you happy then he's not the one cuz if you guys are really in love hell back you no matter what

Anonymous · Answer

If removed the face... i would say that it's a man with thin waist in both the pictures!

zach6969 · Answer

Lemme tell you something, that shit is a deep turn off for a lot of people

clampfan101 · Answer

Maybe if you tone it down? I think muscular women are sexy, but not super buff like that pic.

soleil2666 · Answer

I think that looks terrible on a woman. On a man too.

Presidentt · Answer

As long as you enjoy anal he'll love you no matter what.. You're welcome.

Iron_Man · Answer

Damn girl you taking the Juice? You look like those girls?

Words_and_Wisdom · Answer

Just do what you want to do. And if he doesn't like it, you'll find a guy who really loves it.

ThatWeirdDude · Answer

It depends on what he's into, because there is muscle, and there is bodybuilding muscle

Hotterpop · Answer

Well have you DIRECTLY asked him about his disposition?

Dredg · Answer

Remind him that women do not gain muscle mass in the same way men do.

Dre_808 · Answer

He should try to support you. Did he give you a reason why he doesn't want you to?

dylanrhodes · Answer

Well, the second girls might actually be on steroids.

Gedaria · Answer

Sorry but i would have a problem as well not into muscle flexin ...

a77m95i36t73h62 · Answer

Look at the her, she looks like a guy, girl is dead in her, only guy you can see in her, if you're boyfriend is not gay then he won't like it at all.

dunbad01 · Answer

Personally the one on black only way i know it is a woman is her boobs. They second one? Is it a guy or girl. Sorry but I don't like

jenny_10 · Answer

Do what makes you happy

beechman2129 · Answer

Well, you have more muscle mass than I do, which will turn me off any way.

MaleaskFemale · Answer

It depends. But i dont like your body. You looked like men. Very unattractive.

BlkGamer · Answer

Get him to work out too and do outdoorsy things! Where he can see what it can do!

Delroy1995 · Answer

Personally I hate that you start to look like a tranny a man

milantb1 · Answer

Both of those women are on heavy amounts of roids so you will never look like that naturally

samueljf07 · Answer

I think they both look hott, how close are you to your goals

Anonymous · Answer

The first one looks good the second looks creepy. On a guy or girl. You shouldn't be using roids to change your body. I honestly think it's a vain goal to get that huge. Guy or girl

Anandkk · Answer

It is the most difficult one to say guy's always look a pretty body not muscular one... u should be take interest on your boyfriend thinking also...

someho · Answer

Why would you want to become a guy

Sovan · Answer

see... u always need to focus and love ur passion and dreams. it can be anything... life is once.. so enjoy it vertically and horizontally.

K_ur121 · Answer

Better you Try to Quit slowly..  Women Hormones deplete with your Regime..  You would then say,  I want to b HIM..!  Better TAKE CARE

MIKEMOTTA · Answer

I think if he loves you nothing about your appearabce should bother him maybe he should go to the gym with u and u guys could grow together

SollyHisham · Answer

Mmmm if loves u what won't be hard to undrestand what u want and u love , he will engorg u to see ur happnes

minormurders · Answer

It's because he feels like he is not the "man" in the relationship. Just try to make him see through your side of the window.  Hope this helps!

jmphung7 · Answer

If he doesn't like it and you are feeling this way that he doesn't like it Then there is a problem I thank you look amazing

Troleckh · Answer

It is all about the diet and resting to see results. I do understand you care for volume. Girl those are big Triceps.

irshhh · Answer

Maybe go easy on the abs and look more feminine... I guess your guys loves the feminine side in you.. and not the muscular one.

theFantasticJ · Answer

If my bitch looking like that then I must be gay

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