Would you date a guy who has your same height?

[Anonymous]

[michael78018]

That's funny I never been with a girl that is the same height as me until last week I went on a date with this girl that I'm still seeing that I'm willing to bet is gonna be a lot of fun when I get her naked those long legs are gonna be just wrapped around my head when I eat her out

[Prankster13]

I would like to find a girl shorter than me. But I will not mind if she is my height or taller. As long as it's not very much taller. Like 2-3" then no. No taller than that.

[Lemonz92]

I dated a guy who was shorter than me (I'm 5'4") He was a complete douchebag though but I'm sure not all short guys are like that. (He was bitter I was taller and it didn't help his ego, he was very abusive because of it so be careful js)

[Armourdillo]

I'm sorry but imagine you replace height with race in this situation. "Be careful when dating black guys" would you feel good about saying that?

[Armourdillo]

"Because you don't have to be careful dating tall men right? Because ALL tall men are so loving and nice unlike the brutish short FUCKS, but some I assume are good people"

[Armourdillo]

And I know what you're gonna say "if you are short and you get offended that I say short guys are abusive, you're abusive" I'm not, that's what I'm upset, you're creating this narrative that one short guy ruins it for all short men. Like if that's really such a concern for you, why day taller men? Chances are you wouldn't be able to defend yourself from a tall man easier than short guy

[Lemonz92]

@Armourdillo Pretty sure I said, "I'm sure not all short guys are like that" but okay get bent I couldn't care less that you're illiterate.

[Armourdillo]

Replace height with race and read it again

[Armourdillo]

"I'm not saying that all people of a certain race are bad, but be careful of people of that race"

[Lemonz92]

@Armourdillo You're getting hurt over a comment in which I clearly stated with absolutely NO sarcastic connotation whatsoever, "I'm SURE they're not all like that." She should be careful as my friend had this same issue so it's a recurring thing, I also never said to not be worried about taller gentleman as they can be equally as fucked up pieces of shit when their ego is in jeopardy. In the parenthesis I stated he was abusive because of his ego, not because he happened to be short. Was it not clear it was warning to be wary of men with a huge ego? Hm? Move along sir, because you clearly just don't know how to interpret comments.

[Armourdillo]

I didn't read it as sarcasm. I read it like how trump calls Mexicans rapists and criminals, and some he assumes are good people

[Lemonz92]

@Armourdillo Okay what's so wrong with your brain that you can't even understand it when I completely break it down for you? Unless you're here defending stupid men with huge egos I suggest you bug off because I'm not stating nor implying men who happen to be short are tiny demons from hell or some shit. Also why the fuck are you bringing a racist, sexist piece of shit into something that has nothing to do with it? You're really just looking for a reason to bitch or you've realized you've already gotten yourself knee-deep in shit and now you want to be right. I'll say it again, move along or I will block you because you're just taking up space of my notifications in which there are much more important conversations to tend to.

[Armourdillo]

So short people aren't important

[Armourdillo]

Done

[Lemonz92]

@Armourdillo If it puts your puny brain at ease: Short people are just as important as those with average height and those extremely tall, this conversation however is just not important because you're making up problems where there are none. Unless you're having a depressive episode because of it, are worried about something that has to do with life or death, or are a person seriously questioning whether or not their life matters right now than no I don't find this to be important as your shortness cannot be helped unless you want some fucking knee surgery or to where platforms. What do you want a pat on the back for not considering those options? Here:
Short guys deserve love too.
Feel better? Jesus you act like there aren't women out there who actually prefer shorter guys and find them to be more attractive. Complaint department is now closed, fuck off.

[Lily_Pi]

Yes but preferably no shorter than me. I'm 5'2 so it's rare for a guy to be shorter than me in the first place. I normally like them to be a little bit taller but nothing dramatic a few inches is fine.

[Darkphoenix99]

Since I'm quite short, therefore the guy too would be short. Even though I prefer a bit taller guys, I'd not mind dating a guy my height if I like him well enough.

[Armourdillo]

How much extra does a guy your own height have to do to be as good as a tall guy?

[guyuser2]

How tall do you like men?

[Darkphoenix99]

I've dated quite tall men, one was 6'4, another 6' and one 5'11 but I'd happy with even 5'6

[Armourdillo]

What are the Xtra things that the short have to provide to be on par?

[guyuser2]

You are 5 ft 1 or so 😂
You still want a man to be at least 5 ft 6 😏
And even dated 6 ft 4 :o

[Darkphoenix99]

@Armourdillo nothing as such. I just need to like you as a person. Looks and height are superficial. One cannot alter their genes and that's why I don't care much about it, what I care about is physical and mental compatibility. I need someone who is willingly to accept me as I'm because I'll accept them with all their flaws. I like a guy who's willing to open up emotionally to me. I value a person over how they look.

[steeph98]

I definitely would date someone my height if i loved them! Easier to kiss as you’re face to face :)

[Armourdillo]

But you date tall guys without loving them. Essentially tall guys get to have fun and what not, but short guys HAVE to have the girls fall in love to even get the chance to get know her.

[steeph98]

I wouldn’t date anyone without loving them x

[Armourdillo]

But you'll only love tall men?

[Tuxxy]

I'd hope so us short motherfuckers would appreciate height not being a factor. Source: 5'5

[Jackieboi]

Yeah im actually surprised by this question. You make it sound like taller is a requirement and even same height is questionable. I mean i know very small can be a turn off for most but same height? Sounds more like you just pref/are used to taller guys and now there's a break in the pattern with a guy you otherwise like?

[karolines97]

I am a little tall (5'10") and my boyfriend is 6'3", I am very attracted to tall guys. But assuming if I were single, I would make an exception for a short guy if he was Mark Wahlberg lol

[Armourdillo]

So a the only way for short males to date a girl is to be a movie star. Lmfao on what a fucking joke. Fuck you and your privilege

[Babygirl247]

^Ok now I’m sure that you’re trolling lol

[Armourdillo]

I'm not trolling. Just replace height with race and see how good that sounds. We don't accept race discrimination, but height discrimination is fine?

[Babygirl247]

Lol don’t compare height to race. Not even in the same category

[Armourdillo]

Yea, people can be mixed race , but they only be one height

[Armourdillo]

It's actually easier to even predict a humans height than race. Height is even MORE specific than race

[karolines97]

^ What an angry boy ¬¬

[Babygirl247]

Right lmfaooo

[Armourdillo]

At least answer the question

[Armourdillo]

Tellings guys "just be rich and famous" isn't easy like you make you it seem

[Babygirl247]

I’d prefer to be the shorter one. It makes me feel petite lol the guy I’m seeing right now has at least 7 inches on me and it makes me feel tiny hehe

[Armourdillo]

Would you consider yourself shallow?

[Babygirl247]

Not at all, it’s just my preference.

[Armourdillo]

So classifying guys into date able or not based on height isn't shallow? What about saying "I only date rich guys because it makes me feel dependent on him?"

[Armourdillo]

I thought being shallow was liking people based on superficial means beyond their immediate control. What's your definition of shallow?

[Babygirl247]

Lol calm down dude. It’s nothing like that, it’s like preferring green eyes over blue. I’m not replying after this so I hope you have a good day and maybe become less bitter about people having certain preferences!! 💕

[Armourdillo]

So literally you ONLY date guys who make you feel petite and have green eyes? And you don't think that's shallow?

[Babygirl247]

First of all, damn it I’m replying. Never said I would ONLY date guys who make me feel petite. I said I’d prefer if I were the shorter one, not saying I’ve never dated anyone my height (5’5). Second of all, I didn’t say my favorite color eye, I used an example. Again, less bitter please. It’s not a good look

[Armourdillo]

Wouldn't you bitter if someone told you "you're inadequate for me to get to know as a person based on your height"

[Babygirl247]

Lol no. Personality is important but if I’m not naturally attracted to you physically then 🤷🏼‍♀️. I understand that I’m not some peoples type. It’s irrational to believe that you’re everyone’s type. You deflect and call us shallow, but what are you? You clearly have some issues with your own height and take it out on us. Height is not a shallow thing, it is a preference.

[Armourdillo]

Explain how height is a personality trait

[Babygirl247]

It’s not a personality trait, never said it was lol

[Armourdillo]

Inudrr it being a preference, but I don't walk around looking at girls judging each one being is she's "good enough" for me based ONLY on her looks

[Babygirl247]

Ok lol

[Babygirl247]

Congrats? I don't know what you want me to tell you man

[Armourdillo]

Its FINE if you ONLY want tall men to fill your insecurity of having to feel petite, but how it not shallow? Should guys get surgery to get taller then.

[Armourdillo]

Just explain how basing a humans worth based on their height isn't shallow.

[Babygirl247]

Insecurity? Lol no. I’m not insecure. It’s a fucking preference dude. Do I like feeling all cute and petite, yes. Do I think talking to you is a waste of time, yes. If anyone is insecure it’s you

[Armourdillo]

How do I not be insecure when girls are out there telling me who I am based on my height? Explain how basing a human's worth on their height isn't shallow

[guyuser2]

What's your height

[Jemini_Crocket]

Not sure to be honest. I'm 5'2" and I always wanted someone taller than me. At least few inches.

[kittycity]

That would be ok with me but the guy would be 5''3 if he was my height!

[Saville_Row]

Same or taller works for me. But honestly, I'm just 5"2.

[becka999]

Yes how tall you are can't measure how much you love them

[CandacePerry]

My boyfriend and I around about the same height. yes I don't care about height.

[pinkery]

Taller... not the same height or shorter because it kind of turns me off 😅

[kilingninja53]

Well well well I'm 6,2 so I would be surprised if ur taller than me

[pinkery]

Im 5,6. Im way shorter than you

[blubblubblub]

a "girl", asking whether people would date a shorter guy, annoynmously. haaaaaaa sure "female" ;)

[sarahhcmarie]

of course. I’m 5’8 so it would prolly be pretty easy to find someone I suppose.

[LittleRedKat]

Yes. I'm 5'9 so I usually do. My man is actually shorter than me.

[AnberlinCanucks]

Given that I’m 4’11”, hell no, I would not date a guy the same height as me

[guyuser2]

You seem taller...

[Torex]

Yup, maybe even if she were taller. What matters more is the gleam in her eyes and her desires in life.

[salo16]

No I'm really small and like tall boys, and i don't met any guys with the same height

[Armourdillo]

Do you consider yourself shallow?

[Babygirl247]

Lol dude

[Armourdillo]

What allows girls to make these demands? Girls say all the time "ugly guys demand hot girls" well, those guys end up alone until they stop being shallow, girls get what they want

[Babygirl247]

Now you’re just straight up trolling, I’m sure of it

[Armourdillo]

Fuck you I'm not

[Babygirl247]

Whatever you say bb 😊

[Prankster13]

How tall are you to say you're small? Would the guy have to just be taller than you? Or tall in general?

[Starbers999]

Yes, if he looked good and had a good personality, then I couldn't care less.

[TallGuy96]

Well i'm not attracted to guys, but if it was a girl then she can be shorter same or taller than me, i really wouldn't mind, everything have its advantages no?

[mikinicki]

Yes, because height doesn't matter to me as long as he loves me and I love him, it's all good.

[Claire136]

Yeah, why not? As long as his not a jerk, I don't see the problem.

[Mexicoman101]

I've only ever been with people who were my height.

[TheRealQuestion]

Lol! I'm 5'5". I'd hope they would.

I dont mind if a girl is my height or taller (or MUCH taller), as long as she is okay with a short guy.

[Iron_Man]

I would not date a girl that's over 6 feet tall without shoes. On dinner dates she'll wear 6 inch heels making her 6 foot 8

[kiratpal_singh]

height dosent matter still it matter if you are a showoff kinda person bcs if you love someone you will love thier scars also so height matter if you want to showoff with you boyfriend to the soceity which is mean

[JSmuve]

I would not date a guy my height. Or any height actually.

[kilingninja53]

Same

[teruppin]

I prefer someone taller :) I'm 5ft so I'm thinking majority of the guys are taller than me anyways. 😅

[PurpleRoseTips]

Definitely, if I feel a connection to someone who just happens to be the same height or even shorter, it's not gunna change the way I feel.

[Kaylapremi]

I would date a guy my height or taller. Never shorter

[guyuser2]

How tall are you?

[Kaylapremi]

@guyuser2 5’3

[Asad1ONE1]

I would love a girl at my height or a just little shorter! Intimately compatible it will seem! A cute tall girl can be nice too.

[Anonymous]

Nope.
*waiting for triggered short dudes to rip my head off for saying this*

[mancatten]

How dare you!!

[mancatten]

Jk lol

[Opinion Owner]

I dare because manlets don't deserve to live!! 😱

P. S.: it was a joke, for anyone faint at heart

[DennisTheMenace96]

Whats a manlet?

[Opinion Owner]

A guy who is the same height or shorter than the average female (<5'4").

[emaragarcia]

yes, i have once dated a guy whos a little shorter than me.. height dont really matter as long as insecurity doesn't play a major role in the relationship

[guyuser2]

What's your height?

[AlwaysBelieving]

I would hope a gal would be open to dating a guy (me) that's the same height as her (5'4").

[kilingninja53]

I would honestly not cause I'm 6 2 and I'm only 15 and I don't also want to date another giant

[sphav]

Ha im 18 and im 6ft4

[Appa66]

I love that my boyfriend is only 5’8 while I’m 5’7. He doesn’t take up an excess room on the couch or the bed:

[Davram77]

Height doesn't really matter to me. But at 6'1 I don't meet many women taller than me.

[You_Cant_See_Me]

There’s a 6’6 girl on this site lol

[Davram77]

Have met a few who are just a tall as me, but never 6'6.

[You_Cant_See_Me]

Yeah, 6’6 would be uncommon for anyone

[AbrahamDLR]

If they take care of themselves and are not a prick I don't see why not.

[Anonymous]

No
But thats probably cuz Id rather just date a girl of any height.-.

[Cecilia_L]

why not?
I have a normal hight or a little short.. but when I get fit I'll date in the same hight with no problem

[SRaza94]

yes. but i didn't find a girl of 6.1" to date with her -_-

[sphav]

No girl will fo that if they say yes they are just being kind

[leviathan22]

Id date a girl if she was the same height or shorter

[chubbyandsad]

But not taller? And why

[Anonymous]

If you feel weird about someone else's apperence, is that your fault?

[Angelina25]

Yeah.

[AbagailGun]

Yea I would I don't see any harm In it

[Jooying]

I will. Not a problem

[9teen]

No, he has to be taller.

[Armourdillo]

What's if he's not? Should all guys your height and less be killed off?

[Armourdillo]

Would you consider yourself to be shallow?

[Babygirl247]

Lol dude you must be short as hell if you’re commenting this on all girls who say that they would rather be the shorter one

[Armourdillo]

Yea I just want to see if girls understand if their shallow or if they feel height is a character trait

[Prankster13]

How tall are you? Just curious..

[Armourdillo]

5 foot 6 inches

[9teen]

I love to look up and I feel protected around a taller guy. I did not mention anything bad about short guys, they're nice as friends for me. There are enough girls who like them romantically.
I'm not shallow. It's called a preference.
I'm short myself hence why I prefer to have someone taller than me.

[Armourdillo]

I'm short too but I don't say "I only date taller girls". Preferences can be shallow. You're saying people who aren't the height you like are unlovable

[Armourdillo]

And every girl thinks "there enough girls who like short guys so I don't have to" but in reality most girls hold out for tall. Be honest just don't like, if you want short guys all dead just say so

[9teen]

I did not say that. I don't feel attracted to short guys but I never claimed they are unlovable. I find myself falling in love with taller guys.
Many guys prefer big boobs over no boobs as well. It's a matter of biological preference.

[9teen]

Ugh I think you don't get anyone falling in love with you because of your way of thinking rather than your height. It's really annoying.

[Armourdillo]

So? I have preferences, but I date people with out those preferences. I don't tell them "you're not good enough because you're blonde and not brunette". It doesn't mean anything about who they're as a person. But to you height means more than personality if someone has to be a certain height inorder to datw

[Armourdillo]

Like you're basically saying you could fall in love with a tall murderer before even dating a short guy

[Prankster13]

Does half of an inch count as taller?

[Prankster13]

@Armourdillo I think she's wanting to avoid the situation where she isn't attracted to them. Dates them anyways. Then has to say "sorry. I don't feel attracted to you because you're shorter than me."
Honestly. If you don't find someone attractive don't date them and get their hopes up. At least she's honest about her preference. I have prefeences like a wouldn't date a girl much much taller than me. And I don't feel bad about that either.

[9teen]

💢 what do you not understand about I don't feel attracted to them? I don't feel attracted to bald men, I don't feel attracted to morbidly obese men and I bet you don't either. I don't find a short height attractive and there is nothing you can change about it. I don't like to look down on a guy I'm supposed to date.
I'm not dating someone for his personality only, I need to feel sexually attracted and personality determines whether I stay. I cannot love someone in a romantic way if I don't find him attractive.
He needs at least to be 10cm taller than me.

[Armourdillo]

I understand it's fine, it's perfectly fine to be shallow, just admit it. She won't she's blaming the guy for being short. "No, he has to be taller." Is it a fucking choice?

[Armourdillo]

I'm not trying to change your fucking opinion, just admit you're a shallow person

[Prankster13]

Rats..
Well I still agree with your argument. I'm not attracted to any men, fat or bald aside. I'm not gonna turn bi because being straight offends someone either. That's not how it works.

[Armourdillo]

I hope your child is short or fat, I wanna see how quick you give him up. for adoption

[9teen]

It's not shallow, it's biological. Is the way I feel a fucking choice? I prefer to be honest than believing in the illusion that personality is the only thing that matters and destroy both of us in the end while the relationship is going to hell.

[Armourdillo]

@Prankster13 I'M NOT SAYING TO CHANGE YOUR FUCKING OPINION, just admit you're shallow and don't blame the girl for how she is

[Prankster13]

@Armourdillo Are you straight?

[Armourdillo]

You can be shallow and honest...

[9teen]

You surely have some serious mental issues. Trust me it's not your height but your mind which makes you unlovable. No one wants to date a toxic person who pretends to be a victim.

[Prankster13]

Because going by your logic it is shallow for a man to not date another man just because of how he looks. It's the same thing. And it is illogical and stupid.

It's not shallow to find someone not attractive. It's normal. I don't find EVERY lady I see attractive. That doesn't make me shallow I'm pretty sure.

[Armourdillo]

I'm not pretending, you literally said you would. not date someone based on height. How is that shallow?

[9teen]

You can hope as you like, it's pathetic.

[Armourdillo]

It's shallow tomdevalue a human based on appearance.

[Armourdillo]

To devalue*

[9teen]

Armourdillo guessing you're straight you wouldn't date a man! How goddamn shallow of you rejecting someone based on their gender.

[Armourdillo]

Based on both of your logic, there is no such thing as being shallow, right?

[Prankster13]

@Armourdillo Don't even pretend. She said she wouldn't date him because he's short BECAUSE she doesn't find short guys attractive. Not because he's short. Because she doesn't find him attractive.

[Armourdillo]

I'll admit that yes. I'm shallow when it comes to gender.

[9teen]

It's not devaluation. It's biological preference. You don't see them as any less when you don't feel attracted to them.

[9teen]

It's not shallow. It's called being straight. It is normal to not feel attracted to the same sex.

[Prankster13]

@Armourdillo Being shallow: not exhibiting, requiring, or capable of serious thought.
"a shallow analysis of contemporary society"
-- Google

You're shallow if you assume someone is a certain way based on something like their appearance. Like if I wear a pink shirt and you assume I'm gay. That's shallow.
Or if someone says they like tall guys and you assume they're a terrible person. That's shallow.

It has nothing to do with attraction.

[9teen]

Thank you.

[Prankster13]

Thank Google.

[Armourdillo]

Okay, so. she's insecure because she rather give an abusive tall guy a chance if he's attractive rather than a short good guy?

[Armourdillo]

I'm not saying all tall guys are abusive but based on what she says, ALL tall guys have better potentional than ALL short guys because of her preferences

[Prankster13]

@Armourdillo No. All tall guys are potentially more attractive than all short guys because of her preference.

She said already the personality matters (abuse no matter who is probably a no). But if she doesn't find them attractive why see if their personality is attractive (as in dating)? You already know it's not gonna work.

[9teen]

I'm insecure? Lmao. Isn't it when someone says only personality matters an insecure person and someone who knows what he or she wants rather confident?
A tall abusive guy could dream being in a relationship with me. Personality determines whether I stay. Attractiin catches my attention.

[Armourdillo]

Exactly. So being short regardless of personality is as bad as being tall and abusive.

[Armourdillo]

So personality matters ONLY if your tall enough

[Armourdillo]

Correct?

[9teen]

Ugh no. Would you date a very hairy fat woman?

[Armourdillo]

No, I wouldn't date murderer either. But I wouldn't assume the fat hairy woman is evil like the murderer is

[Armourdillo]

Based on what you say, you don't care what a short guy is like, he's trash.

[Armourdillo]

I wouldn't think of the fat hairy woman as trash unless she proved herself to be trash

[9teen]

Finally we agree upon something. I see short guys the same way as you see hairy women.

[Prankster13]

@Armourdillo Exactly. That's what she said earlier. She doesn't assume they're any less or that they're bad people. She's just not attracted to them.

[Prankster13]

Same as you with that lady.

[CallMeSunny]

Yeah, why not? I don’t see why I wouldn’t

[guyuser2]

Because then you would not be able to wear high heels...

[ChronicThinker]

No, I wouldn't. I'm 5'.

[Anonymous]

I am a short male...
Would you date someone your height?

[JKask]

Yes, why not? The weight is not an issue

[JKask]

Height*

[AbdKilani]

Interesting
I guess most women would say no

[_dardorsama_]

Yeah... but not higher lol

[hazfire]

The girl I'm in love with is eye to eye with me.

[torwulf]

I wouldn't date a girl my same height

[Black-Widow]

I won't date someone like this.

[guyuser2]

How tall are you?

[Anonymous]

No I would just have sex with him

[CT_CD]

Most women prefer the guy to be taller than them

[bluelily19]

I would date someone as tall as me or taller.

[MeGo99]

My ex was the same height

[nick7696]

I'm 6'2" anyone near my height

[Phillip99]

Definitely
What matters is love not height