It sounds like he is a strong Christian afraid of getting an erection in public... That may be true story. Or afraid of her seeing him look at other women. Question didn't make sense to me.
This never happenned... Mate you sound like an incel who has never had sex. You also sound like a male feminist pussy. No woman as hot as you describe would date a man thatbused the term "gender neutral" and acted weird around her showing her legs. Women want to be viewed as objects by the men they are fucking you idiot. They only dont when they are either crazy or are not attracted to a guy looking at them. 1000 points for shit that never happened.
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Dang dude, no need to be rude! I have feelings too, ya know! :(
Do you want the truth, or do you want to get fucked around? Do not ask for advice if you cannot handle it. A real man doesn't cry over that shit, he figures out how to make things better. Im here to help people with real advice, not spare your fee fees.
Yes... she really loves the beach, and I frankly do too. I'll have to face my fears... I don't want to come off as a creepy pervert who thinks of her as an object... but all I really gotta do is just be cool and act rational. Plus, I can still catch an occasional glance or two. Especially with sunglasses or goggles. I just gotta not stare, lol.
Ah... well that won't be a huge problem, lol. When I see a random hot girl and just like her for her looks, it's great, but brief. Now when I truly love a girl, like my girlfriend, and like her for both looks and personality, she'll be the only girl I notice. ;)
But my girlfriend absolutely loves the beach, and really wants to go... and I frankly do too. It's just that I don't want to come off as a freaky pervert who thinks of her as an object or anything like that.
Plus, I feel good when I face my fears...
So I'm really in conflict here on whether to go or not, lol. Plus, Netflix and chill is basically what we do on any other day anyways.
Awww... that is very true, lol. She sure does love me quite a lot, which is obvious from her words, her kind actions, and her wanting to be near me, and hugging me. And yes, my insecurity aside, she herself is very unlikely to think that, ahaha. Thanks so much for reminding me of that ;)
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Yea take her. Act like everything's normal. And when u get that boner laugh together.
It sounds like he is a strong Christian afraid of getting an erection in public... That may be true story. Or afraid of her seeing him look at other women. Question didn't make sense to me.
Of course, ahahaha.
Can't see any problem going to the beach with her at all!
This never happenned... Mate you sound like an incel who has never had sex. You also sound like a male feminist pussy. No woman as hot as you describe would date a man thatbused the term "gender neutral" and acted weird around her showing her legs. Women want to be viewed as objects by the men they are fucking you idiot. They only dont when they are either crazy or are not attracted to a guy looking at them. 1000 points for shit that never happened.
Dang dude, no need to be rude! I have feelings too, ya know! :(
Do you want the truth, or do you want to get fucked around? Do not ask for advice if you cannot handle it. A real man doesn't cry over that shit, he figures out how to make things better. Im here to help people with real advice, not spare your fee fees.
Your good man have fun at the beach
Alrighty :)
she isn't some random girl, she is your girlfriend. don't sweat it bro.
You sound controlling already and this won't last past 6 month. If you can't take her to a beach, then what is next to come on your list?
I hope not. I'd never want to control my baby honey bunches like that. :(
I'll watch over myself and my actions from now on!
I don't think this lady knows what controlling means, so disregard this.
@krity You didn't even understand what he wrote...
He's not talking about keeping her in a basement... re-read it...
lol how you going get her in bed if you can't take her to the beach.
@krity I was mistaken. My reply was meant to go to this woman.
@pleasestopthis ah good were on the same page then! This woman I suspect to be jelly.
Yes, take her to the beach.
Yes... she really loves the beach, and I frankly do too. I'll have to face my fears... I don't want to come off as a creepy pervert who thinks of her as an object... but all I really gotta do is just be cool and act rational. Plus, I can still catch an occasional glance or two. Especially with sunglasses or goggles. I just gotta not stare, lol.
It's not creepy to look at your own girlfriend. Just try not to look at other girls on the beach.
Ah... well that won't be a huge problem, lol. When I see a random hot girl and just like her for her looks, it's great, but brief. Now when I truly love a girl, like my girlfriend, and like her for both looks and personality, she'll be the only girl I notice. ;)
Well, I wouldn't stare at her, but she will still like you sneaking peeks. lol
Got it, lol. Thanks ^_^
Sorry man I coudnt read all of it cuz in allergic to bullshit but from what i already read you're relationship ain't gonna last long
yes, go and have fun.
Are you a Christian?
No, just sort of a prude.
Oh jeez just go
Okay then, lol. What's the worst that could happen, anyways? It's just a beach visit with my girlfriend who I love very much! :)
Exactly lmfao
Yep 😂😂😂
I fail to see your problem
I bet you had to be the hunter
Yup... lol.
You can sure tell a lot in 4 months.
Calm down dude, just go to the beach with her.
No, haven’t you seen Jaws?
Netflix and chill.
Well that'd certainly be easier, lol.
But my girlfriend absolutely loves the beach, and really wants to go... and I frankly do too. It's just that I don't want to come off as a freaky pervert who thinks of her as an object or anything like that.
Plus, I feel good when I face my fears...
So I'm really in conflict here on whether to go or not, lol. Plus, Netflix and chill is basically what we do on any other day anyways.
Take her to the beach then. You're worried about nothing, she loves you. She won't think that about you.
Awww... that is very true, lol. She sure does love me quite a lot, which is obvious from her words, her kind actions, and her wanting to be near me, and hugging me. And yes, my insecurity aside, she herself is very unlikely to think that, ahaha. Thanks so much for reminding me of that ;)
Get dat ass boi lol
Of course, lol.
l would go
And I will, as most people on here already strongly suggest :)
cool thats nice
Yes u should