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How to tell if someone is just being nice or flirting?

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  • ryryryan
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    I believe there's a direct relationship between the flacidity of a man's peen and his interest in another nearby to him

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    • Hapinus
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      Lmao I think so too

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  • Guanfei
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    I'm both

    How to tell if someone is just being nice or flirting?
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  • Mamaganja
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    Always assume theyโ€™re being nice unless it comes out of their mouth that they feel that way about you.

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    If they cross your boundaries they're usually flirting

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  • Salmon4056
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    If they keep asking questions after compliment, like "why are you walking alone" then it's pretty much flirting. Sexual compliments can be flirting also. If he just says something like you "look beautiful today", he's just being nice. If he ask questions after a nice compliment, like "you could be a model" or compliments and ask "what brand is that outfit from" than that's considered being nice as well. Basically, nice compliments don't go all deep about the individuals life ( asking whether or not need dependence , and sexual life) like a flirting compliment does.

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  • Aguysopinion4799
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    I think it really depends if they start sounding serious, as in, if they start going further than flirting.. For me, these two are the same thing because I am very sexual and therefore my friendliness is also flirty ^_^

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    • Hapinus
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      I like that about you

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    • Aguysopinion4799
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      Thank you :* ^_^

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  • jdrrichmond
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    Good question. I'm clueless. I also want to know when someone is flirting for fun and when they are serious. For me, if I compliment a girl in her teens or early 20s, I'm just being nice. I usually tell girls when they are pretty on HDIL questions, unless they are young and trying to sexualized themselves. For example, the comment I made on yours yesterday. You're a beautiful girl, but I'm not hitting on you. I have a daughter almost your age.

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  • Jjpayne
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    That can be tough, I suppose the amount of time they spent around you can be a factor. Also feeling out if you want your help or if you like being around them. Flirts are more pushy at times and nice guys are more considerate.

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  • scottalanmiller
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    Flirting is more or different than being nice. If you can't tell, it's just being nice.

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  • your_ego
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    if they invite you to play COD with them, it's flirting

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    • Hapinus
      Hapinus
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      Okay cod with me ๐Ÿ’ฆ

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    • Hapinus
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      Play*

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  • Jas03
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    I think what gives it away for me is when girls talk to you and they curl their hair and want to be close and touchy. Not like an inappropriate kind of touchy but just a more natural, flirty kind if that makes sense

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  • Redf00q
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    We he someone flirts will give sexual tips usually, and be very odd in behavior, like a kid in a candy store. When he is nice will just act normal.

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    • lydiahtml
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      There's a guy that I'm pretty sure was flirting with me the week I saw him. One of the things he did was that we were sitting in a group with us and a few other guys. He said something and I said that's what he said. I apologized for my dirty mind and he said it's not a dirty mind it's a sexy imagination.

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    • Redf00q
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      @lydiahtml yeap that would be a hint he would be flirting. Can i ask how old was the other part? since your 13?

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    • lydiahtml
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      He was 15๐Ÿ™ˆ๐Ÿ˜

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    • Redf00q
      Redf00q
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      @lydiahtml yeap he was flirting, i only asked his age, to make sure is not some adult creep or misinterpretation on your side. Be safe kiddo.

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    • lydiahtml
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      ๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜ thanks!

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  • ENTP_EMO
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    If they open their mouths and you hear words. They're flirting

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  • N23SA
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    if they raise their eyebrows suggestively they are flirting

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  • nbbn5
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    Tough , use the general record of that person how is that person with everyone

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  • AbdKilani
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    Why can't be both 🤔
    But for me I would never flirt with some who is in a relationship

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    • AbdKilani
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      And I am always nice ๐Ÿ˜Š

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  • Demised
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    When after looking at like in the pic they give you a flying kiss and a wink. 😉

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  • YinLong
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    Xper 5 Age: 25
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    Listen to what's being said and how it's being said also asking the person directly is always a great way of being certain.

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  • Anonymous
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    I be nice and flirt at the same time. It's hard for most women to tell.

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  • JesseTheMan
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    If they're woke enough realize their in a TV show I'm sold

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  • dontgofalling
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    Xper 7 Age: 23
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    The story of my life... some girls are just so nice you're sure they're in love with you

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  • Anonymous
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    If he's only "nice" to a good looking girl. If he's nice to everyone, he's just a nice person

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  • LegateLanius
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    Women don't flirt with me IRL

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    • Hapinus
      Hapinus
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      Me neither

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    • LegateLanius
      LegateLanius
      +1 y

      okie

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  • JellyDonutguy96
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    I can't even tell myself

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  • WeirdoWerdo
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    I'm always flirting thus I'm always nice.

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  • wingattebaby16
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    You will just know...

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  • TheNephilim
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    If they get too nosy, you know they're flirting.

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  • NightOwl8801
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    +1 y

    I couldn't tell you because I suck at flirting

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  • everynameistakenffs
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    Xper 3 Age: 23
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    he's always flirting unless he's gay, trust me

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  • shub09
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    Test him with due course of time.

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  • disgustingweebtrash
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    I can't tell

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    • Hapinus
      Hapinus
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      Me neither

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  • hardik_003
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    Xper 3 Age: 26
    +1 y

    If you have good instincts you can tell by his eye

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  • imacake
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    Xper 4 Age: 36
    +1 y

    YouTube body language etc

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  • 6ftallady
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    Xper 4 Age: 46
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    That comes off kinda creepy.

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  • Zyzags
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    Xper 3 Age: 25
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    Why you need to use obed for this jus why

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  • Manish21
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    Xper 3 Age: 27
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    Make him or her bro or sis if u don't like

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  • Revolver_
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    Somehow

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    • Hapinus
      Hapinus
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      Thank you

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    • Revolver_
      Revolver_
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      You're welcome

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  • That2kKid21
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    By telling

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    • Hapinus
      Hapinus
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      Oh helpful

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    • That2kKid21
      That2kKid21
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      thanks.

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  • Anonymous
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    I don't know it's a tough one

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  • Dude_1820
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    I can never tell lol

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  • johnmichaei
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    True flirt

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  • Travis_Skyles
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    Xper 7 Age: 24
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    I have no clue.

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  • shubhamchachapara
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    Explorer Age: 30
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    By saying that. 😁😁

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  • AliGodlike
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    Xper 7 Age: 25
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    Aks him 😐😶😶😶

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    • AliGodlike
      AliGodlike
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      Ask*

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  • gowtham12
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    Xper 7 Age: 36
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    Ask him

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