Should I worry if my boyfriend follows and likes other girls posts on insta?
It depends. Does he have other suspicious behaviour patterns? Does he have too many girl "friends"? (If you get what I mean.) Does he hide his phone screen whenever he uses it? Is he lustful? (Don't answer this, just analyse yourself)
I've noticed guys who have a habit of posting other girls' pictures and barely posting yours, if any, are most likely to be players. If he only likes a certain type of pictures too (explicit and dating ones), you should think it through. There is nothing wrong with liking pictures online, but if that was covers his newsfeed, I think it's time you have a talk with him.
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I don't think you should worry but I do find it disrespectful. Just like people who advocate rubbernecking: it doesn't matter if he's just looking, he's with you and looking at someone else. It's disrespectful, no matter if he still "chooses" you.
I wouldn't worry but I can understand how you wouldn't like it.
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No, if you want to keep him, then give him some freedom. If you stalk people and try to control them, you push them away. The more you control him, the more likely he is to cheat on you in hope to find a girl who is more tolerant than you. He is your love, not your prisoner. Give him space to take a breath!
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no, if he decides to take it to the next level and meet them or exchange private explicit messages then I would be concerned...
but liking pictures or posts of any one else is nothing to worry about
but if you become offended and become possessive or what seems like being possessive or controlling about the matter then it could drive him away...
also if teh roles were reversed and you liked a few images or posts of guys on any social media, would you expect him to react concerned? or would you expect him to just express your own tastes that you liked that image...
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No.
Let's be brutally honest.
You're not the only girl who is beautiful for him.
You're not the only girl who is sexy for him.
He will have other crushes.
But then again, who is he staying with? Who did he chose? You.
So drop the insecurity bubble, and be confident that you have him. Be confident that despite tons of women out there, he chose you. Act normally. Give it your best in your relationship.
If the time comes he leaves you - you can proudly say you did everything you can for him, and that it's his loss, not yours.
BE CONFIDENT.
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If it's a huge mass of girls then the answers is "No", because... hey like it or not we men like beautiful girls, anyone says otherwise is either lying or has a different in sexual orientation, but obviously we usually settle down with the one we find the best, believe me beauty strikes us at first but it's the inner beauty that will stuck with us for the rest of our life, physical beauty is temporary. It wanes with time. We want the girl we love to be fun, playful, independent, caring and love them more if they share our common interests.
Anyways I get carried away all the time... don't mind me.
But if you find him following one particular chick... there's one red flag over there. -
I think it depends on bow much attention he pays to Instagram vs. How much attention he pays to you. If he's spending more time on insta following other women and liking their pictures than he is spending time with you, then that might be a red flag. Before jumping to conclusions though you should try and have a talk with him and let him know your concerns. Be nice though. Men respond to a combative woman by being even more combative, so if you come across as pissed off or irritated as soon as you try and talk to him, he'll probably bite back, or sgut down, and you won't get anywhere. Hope this helps.
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If he is following models than no. it might say public figure in their profile. if it's some local girl or in the same province or state, and it says her location is close to where he lives or is driveable in a day, then maybe. Ask him if he knows the girls that concern you, try to see if you can see their pics, maybe he's making comments or whatever.
It really depends what the girls do, and if they are public figures or local ordinary people. If the girls are taking sexy pics and posting them, you might be concerned. But you can't really get mad at a guy for seeing another girl as attractive or whatever, I can't remember how many times I would watch a movie with my family and my mother would say, "that actor is so good looking" or something like that -
depends on what they're posting and what he likes...
e. g - if he likes only bikini girls pics, i'd not be ok with that.
but if they're his friends and/or he likes other stuff they're posting - then i think it's fine. -
Tricky question but at least you know for sure if theyre really hot. Depends on where his interest lie. If he's liking tje pics of some gal thats posting pics about a shared interest you should be fine for now. But if he's just liking their posing pics its kinda a red flag no matter what he says
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Not at all. Unless you can connect the dots to him cheating, and you have solid evidence of infidelity... who gives two fucks.
If anything, have a family member keep tabs.
I spent so much time worrying about cheating, likes, follows, etc... I still am trying to untie the knots in my stomach.
Don’t live your life like that.
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Don't be paranoid with that, a female friend of mine has some more than 5 boyfriend by watching recently what they do online, following the girls they follow to spy on them, and to control them in real life too, not only digital.
It's and extreme case but it shows what can happen. If they decided to be with you instead of anyone else, why would they change? -
Yes. If he respects you, he wouldn’t, even if he thinks another girl so attractive. All the guys defending it obviously do it themselves and make their girls feel bad. It’s plain and simple - he wouldn’t if he respected you. It’s sugarcoated disrespect.
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No. My boyfriend follows loads of girls on instagram, and he likes their photos too. It means absolutely nothing.
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A little. It depends on who they are to him. If you know they're his friends then It's not a big deal but If they're just random girls that seems sketchy
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Depends on what type if post he's liking and what he's looking at
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Do u follow other guys and like other guys posts on insta, what kind of question is that.
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If it's one specific girl than maybe but if it is a lot of different girls than no don' worry. Guys are guys and they find women attractive so what.
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Not necessarily - it would depend on who he is following and for what reason. I follow a lot of girls that I know on IG, and any likes are just me being friendly. Only date people that you can trust.
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My personal opinion, is yeah you should be worried...
Well I'm a very jealous person, so I get jealous really really quickly, so I would be worried. ♥♥ -
Naw. Don't be a crazy bitch like me... Let him have his own life on social media. . But if he never post pics of y'all or likes ur pics then... I'd drop him. If he starts hiding things.. drop him
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If he's liking selfies, then yes. Otherwise, obviously if it's a pic of her breakfast or whatever, not so much.
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Isn’t that what you are supposed to do on there?
I would worry about it too much unless he starts commenting on them in a certain way too -
I would say no unless he's obsessing like commenting on every post and going and liking very old photos
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