It depends. Does he have other suspicious behaviour patterns? Does he have too many girl "friends"? (If you get what I mean.) Does he hide his phone screen whenever he uses it? Is he lustful? (Don't answer this, just analyse yourself)
I've noticed guys who have a habit of posting other girls' pictures and barely posting yours, if any, are most likely to be players. If he only likes a certain type of pictures too (explicit and dating ones), you should think it through. There is nothing wrong with liking pictures online, but if that was covers his newsfeed, I think it's time you have a talk with him.10 Reply
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+1 yI don't think you should worry but I do find it disrespectful. Just like people who advocate rubbernecking: it doesn't matter if he's just looking, he's with you and looking at someone else. It's disrespectful, no matter if he still "chooses" you.
I wouldn't worry but I can understand how you wouldn't like it.00 Reply
+1 yNo, if you want to keep him, then give him some freedom. If you stalk people and try to control them, you push them away. The more you control him, the more likely he is to cheat on you in hope to find a girl who is more tolerant than you. He is your love, not your prisoner. Give him space to take a breath!
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566 opinions shared on Relationships topic. no, if he decides to take it to the next level and meet them or exchange private explicit messages then I would be concerned...
but liking pictures or posts of any one else is nothing to worry about
but if you become offended and become possessive or what seems like being possessive or controlling about the matter then it could drive him away...
also if teh roles were reversed and you liked a few images or posts of guys on any social media, would you expect him to react concerned? or would you expect him to just express your own tastes that you liked that image...00 Reply
426 opinions shared on Relationships topic. No.
Let's be brutally honest.
You're not the only girl who is beautiful for him.
You're not the only girl who is sexy for him.
He will have other crushes.
But then again, who is he staying with? Who did he chose? You.
So drop the insecurity bubble, and be confident that you have him. Be confident that despite tons of women out there, he chose you. Act normally. Give it your best in your relationship.
If the time comes he leaves you - you can proudly say you did everything you can for him, and that it's his loss, not yours.
BE CONFIDENT.40 Reply
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+1 yIf it's a huge mass of girls then the answers is "No", because... hey like it or not we men like beautiful girls, anyone says otherwise is either lying or has a different in sexual orientation, but obviously we usually settle down with the one we find the best, believe me beauty strikes us at first but it's the inner beauty that will stuck with us for the rest of our life, physical beauty is temporary. It wanes with time. We want the girl we love to be fun, playful, independent, caring and love them more if they share our common interests.
Anyways I get carried away all the time... don't mind me.
But if you find him following one particular chick... there's one red flag over there.30 Reply
+1 yI think it depends on bow much attention he pays to Instagram vs. How much attention he pays to you. If he's spending more time on insta following other women and liking their pictures than he is spending time with you, then that might be a red flag. Before jumping to conclusions though you should try and have a talk with him and let him know your concerns. Be nice though. Men respond to a combative woman by being even more combative, so if you come across as pissed off or irritated as soon as you try and talk to him, he'll probably bite back, or sgut down, and you won't get anywhere. Hope this helps.
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+1 yIf he is following models than no. it might say public figure in their profile. if it's some local girl or in the same province or state, and it says her location is close to where he lives or is driveable in a day, then maybe. Ask him if he knows the girls that concern you, try to see if you can see their pics, maybe he's making comments or whatever.
It really depends what the girls do, and if they are public figures or local ordinary people. If the girls are taking sexy pics and posting them, you might be concerned. But you can't really get mad at a guy for seeing another girl as attractive or whatever, I can't remember how many times I would watch a movie with my family and my mother would say, "that actor is so good looking" or something like that00 Reply depends on what they're posting and what he likes...
e. g - if he likes only bikini girls pics, i'd not be ok with that.
but if they're his friends and/or he likes other stuff they're posting - then i think it's fine.22 Reply
Asker+1 yI won't lie that they look pretty.. but he's posting pics of us two on his social, does that mean anything? Am confused
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if he's posting pics of you two together and doesn't hide the fact he has a girlfriend, i don't think you should be worried.
but if it bothers you, maybe you should ask him about that. who are they, does he know them in real life? if he does, maybe ask to get to know them and see his reaction.
Tricky question but at least you know for sure if theyre really hot. Depends on where his interest lie. If he's liking tje pics of some gal thats posting pics about a shared interest you should be fine for now. But if he's just liking their posing pics its kinda a red flag no matter what he says
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Anonymous(30-35)+1 yNot at all. Unless you can connect the dots to him cheating, and you have solid evidence of infidelity... who gives two fucks.
If anything, have a family member keep tabs.
I spent so much time worrying about cheating, likes, follows, etc... I still am trying to untie the knots in my stomach.
Don’t live your life like that.
Please. Just choose to be happy. Even if it means being alone, or distance from him.00 Reply335 opinions shared on Relationships topic. Don't be paranoid with that, a female friend of mine has some more than 5 boyfriend by watching recently what they do online, following the girls they follow to spy on them, and to control them in real life too, not only digital.
It's and extreme case but it shows what can happen. If they decided to be with you instead of anyone else, why would they change?10 Reply
Anonymous(25-29)+1 yYes. If he respects you, he wouldn’t, even if he thinks another girl so attractive. All the guys defending it obviously do it themselves and make their girls feel bad. It’s plain and simple - he wouldn’t if he respected you. It’s sugarcoated disrespect.
00 Reply847 opinions shared on Relationships topic. No. My boyfriend follows loads of girls on instagram, and he likes their photos too. It means absolutely nothing.
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+1 yA little. It depends on who they are to him. If you know they're his friends then It's not a big deal but If they're just random girls that seems sketchy
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Asker+1 yI won't lie that they look pretty.. but he's posting pics of us two on his social, does that mean anything? Am confused
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If he's open about being with you publicly then he's likely got nothing to hide
+1 yDepends on what type if post he's liking and what he's looking at
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Anonymous(18-24)+1 yDo u follow other guys and like other guys posts on insta, what kind of question is that.
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Anonymous(18-24)+1 yIf it's one specific girl than maybe but if it is a lot of different girls than no don' worry. Guys are guys and they find women attractive so what.
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+1 yNot necessarily - it would depend on who he is following and for what reason. I follow a lot of girls that I know on IG, and any likes are just me being friendly. Only date people that you can trust.
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+1 yMy personal opinion, is yeah you should be worried...
Well I'm a very jealous person, so I get jealous really really quickly, so I would be worried. ♥♥00 Reply
+1 yNaw. Don't be a crazy bitch like me... Let him have his own life on social media. . But if he never post pics of y'all or likes ur pics then... I'd drop him. If he starts hiding things.. drop him
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+1 yIf he's liking selfies, then yes. Otherwise, obviously if it's a pic of her breakfast or whatever, not so much.
10 ReplyIsn’t that what you are supposed to do on there?
I would worry about it too much unless he starts commenting on them in a certain way too00 ReplyI would say no unless he's obsessing like commenting on every post and going and liking very old photos
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+1 yNo, but you should worry if he is commenting on them something flirtatious or following pages that are just partially nude girls
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+1 yNah. Its not like he have a chance in real life with those insta models (#thots actually)
10 Reply I wouldn't let it be a deal breaker. Like someone else on here said, guys are guys. They find women attractive. You may as well ask if he looks at a pretty girl at the mall, should you leave him.
00 ReplyYes you should worry.
It shows where his attention is placed.
He is still in fuckboy land00 Reply
+1 yI don't think so
Why don't you tell him how you feel?
Maybe he'll clear your misunderstandings if any00 Reply- 3K opinions shared on Relationships topic.
+1 yNo. There are more relevant things to be insecure about.
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+1 ySeriously? What do you think? Are you really that clueless?
00 Reply11.2K opinions shared on Relationships topic. That sucks and I certainly wouldn't want a girlfriend like that that's for sure. You might want to think about finding a good decent boyfriend for yourself
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+1 yWhat are your feelings - Do you not like it? - Then say it, it is your feelings that are important
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+1 yNo his just using Instagram don't be a psycho who tries to be the only girl in the world.
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+1 yWhat girls? Like an ex? Some chic he said he was 'friends' will h in highschool, college?
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+1 yIf you like other boys photos then you can't be mad at him for doing the same.
00 ReplyNope. You just will make you and him mad. To have him not to look at other girls you would have to kill them all. Or just live with it. That will be like all the time. So the answer is no. He with you and that's it. Period.
00 Replylook and see if the girls are petty if they are yes if they are not then no
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+1 yNo you should trust him and not follow everything he does, doing this and showing him that you trust him will earn his respect and he'll open up with you
00 ReplyI think that's shady, it says a lot about his personality. I wouldn't trust him
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What's shady, and why?
Depends on who they are. Might be awkward if you get upset and it turns to be his cousin or sister
00 ReplyNope social life his privacy why are you invading his privacy who is following or likes on Insta or FB.
00 Replydepends... how much time he checks her profile or comment or do double tap on her posts. it it happens frequently... its a matter to worry
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+1 yNo, should he be worried when you like other men's photos?
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She's doesn't do that. She's the perfect t little princess who does no wrong. LOL. This question is great. Hunny, answers my man's question here. Can you be home eat JUST ONCE posting all anon. You're 18-24. What do you base your morals on , that old song? " I ONLY HAVE EYES FOR YOUUU. SHUH-BOB-SHUH-BOB. CMON. And if you DO only have eyes for him then we need to re-eval this whole SITUATION-TION-TION-TION
+1 yNo. If you can't trust the man you need to rethink your relationship.
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+1 yNo, it’s if he spans them with likes, and possibly comments stuff like “😍😍” “❤️” then fuck yeah
00 ReplyI do the same thing but I only follow People I know personally. I can't tell if it's ok or not. You have to find out by yourself.
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+1 yIt’s okay as long as he isn’t commenting on their photos then it’s fine.
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Anonymous(45 Plus)+1 yNothing to worry. its pretty normal for guys to do that.
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Anonymous(18-24)+1 yNo because that’s what a normal guy does. Just because you guys are in a relationship doesn’t mean he can’t simply like a picture. If he wants you, it shouldn’t matter if he liked Becky’s picture.
00 ReplyOf course not. This is nothing and honestly do you have sex with everyone that likes your ig pictures?
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+1 yI would so no, especially if he follows these girls and knows them personally. Just watch out for sketchy behavior and ull be good
00 ReplyWell are they messaging and flirting back and forth? If not then I would be okay with it
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+1 yNot at all. He's with you so don't worry 😁
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Anonymous(30-35)+1 yThis is my personal experience I am sharing with you.
There is nothing called love. Its just a state of mind.00 Reply1.1K opinions shared on Relationships topic. I think he do like everyone does. That's what instagram is made for
00 Replyyou better think that what makes your boyfriend loves you only. dont give a shit about other
00 ReplyNope not until he starts saying he loves them and what not
00 ReplyYes if he know one or more of those girls. You can speak with him nicely to resolve that.
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Anonymous(25-29)+1 yHmm so many insecure girls there. As if likes are everything.
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+1 yYah that’s being a bit too insecure and jealous
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Asker+1 yBut there are some girl he follows on insta and fb as well.. how did je get all those informations.. am starting to suspect
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Oh no your boyfriend has friends if the opposite gender... he’s for sure cheating on you 😑
Asker+1 yI don't know.. she doesn't seem like a friend to me honestly am pretty sure he barely knows her
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I follow about 200 guys on Instagram most of whom I’ve only spoke to once or twice in my life. It’s not some big thing
+1 yNo, not at all
00 ReplyI'd worry that he's even on it.
00 ReplyYes u should be worried
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