I’m a 19 years old college student and I live with my parents. There is this handsome dude in my university, and my mom had a crush on him! Seriously! It’s like she is in love with him and she is forcing me to date him! He is very attractive and all my female friends think the same and he came from a wealthy family, so I feel that my mother is pressuring me! I attract him and that’s how my first relationship béguin and I didn’t felt anything. This boy doesn’t know that even some cute messages I sent him are dictated by my mother! She was always very protective with me, and now she is pressuring me to be closer to this guy, and when I says that I’m not in love with him, she yells at me, telling me that I would be the most stupid girl ever to reject a guy like that! He is handsome and wealthy, but I don’t feel anything for him, and I had to make the first steps that my mother ordained me to do so I can seduce him. I’ve been dating him for 2 weeks and my mom is asking me everyday if he messaged me while I don’t care about him! Please I don’t know if it’s normal but I doubt. I mean.. she’s my mother but I never dated anyone before, because I was never attracted to someone. Is my situation normal?
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How will you react if your parent force you to date someone you don’t want to?
Tell her he admitted he is sterile, but still wanted to have a three way with you and his boyfriend and that he thinks herpes is gone now because he thinks the heroin cured it and that the anti psychotic medications are making him less violent and the divorce of his baby momma is going to go through just as soon as he can talk to her and get the restraining order lifted with the help of his parol officer.
Pressuring is pretty normal, my mum sometimes tries to get me to date girls she knows one way or the other. Usually I just laugh it off and go about my business. To be fair I will actually meet the girl most of the time to see if there is something there, my mum does know me fairly well after all.
I'm an open minded person, but that is actually pretty messed up. Plus, nobody's perfect, so it's got me pretty suspicious. that really does sound like an episode of the twilight zone right there. You're welcome to try and get to know him, see if you'll like him but this sounds creepy, to put it bluntly.
How does he act with you? I would want to date a guy like that if he's kind. I'd understand if he's rude or arrogant. Just make up an excuse to why it ended.
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