Both are complicated. The difference lies in the fact that men tries to solve things logically and women solves things through instinct. Men cannot complicate things because they can only process one issue at a time since everything must be processed (1 issue solved by 1 process) - this assures that things are fair and understood, however it takes up way too much time. Women have a lot of complicated issues but solve those issues quickly (multiple issues solved through multiple processes) - they know what they want and need and have already reached the necessary conclusions - because of this, though, more complications arise from the quick fixes and/or the feeling of overwhelming issues come through different events, situations, and other friends with issues of which they also try to solve.
Man: "There is a problem. Perhaps I can fix it. Let's start with logical process #1..."
Woman: (doesn't talk, assumes you know the issue, she has already solved it, and is waiting for you to be on board)
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The average person would probably say women, due to more and sometimes irregular changes in emotion/moods. However, women usually don't hide what they think. Men typically hides things inside, and won't let anything out, even going so far as to deny certain feelings.. 🤔
As with so many other things, neither sex is actually complicated. It's just difficult to many a person, seeing things from beyond their own perspective. Everything is simple, once understood.
Whereas human beings are inherently complex organisms , bc we have advanced cognitive abilities and ability to analyze and synthesize date as well as share essential functions that have us all operating within relatively predictable and comprehensible manner enabling us to regard to other human beings very effectively... people become _complicated_ When they are unable or unwilling to communicate with other human beings. Resulting in ignorance misunderstanding bias and overall inability to solve otherwise simple problems and of course, drama. There is nothing productive about avoiding communication but people are still taught there is power in it... many believe they have nothing to communicate. Not understanding yourself does not mean there is no swig to understand.
Definitely women. Men donât talk about their feelings as much but when they do, theyâre often more rational that womenâs.
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Humans are very complicated beings.
Somehow I recalled something my (male) doctor told me more than once:
"I'm sorry I cannot pinpoint what's wrong. It may not be an internal medicine issue. If you were a man it would be simpler for me to diagnose an abdominal pain, but you're a woman, have more organs and can therefore suffer from other possible conditions while experiencing the same range of symptoms".
I think this is true in many other levels as well. Sometimes women tend to connect issues and react bitterly to something when the real issue is something entirely different. Many times it's hard to pinpoint the real issue, we just know something doesn't feel right and end up reacting to it anyway. At least I know I do many times.Women are without a doubt more complicated.
Men really only want a few things from women.
1.) Someone they are attracted to.
2.) Someone they can get along with.
3.) Someone occasionally gives back instead of just taking.
Women are totally nuts. They all like the bad boys until they get knocked up by a bad boy and have secured those "alpha male" genes. That's why you have so many single mothers all over the place today asking, 'where have all the good men gone?'
What women want and what they say they want are two very different things.Men are complicated af. The lack of understanding and willingness to express their emotions creates a potent and toxic cocktail that most women have the misfortunate of experiencing at one point or another. Add to that negative, misogynistic masculinity and it's a nightmare.
But having said that, humans are complicated. I dont think any one gender is more complicated. Human psychology and development is a complex knot for everyone, some individuals are more complicated but its not based on gender. In fact, a lot of men are likely to suffer more from some psychological conditions. So I think it's just humans that are complicated and many of us understand/have more experience with one vs. the other.
I relate waaaay more to women and gay men than straight men.Women.
Men are disillusioned right off the bat. Women are pampered from the earliest stages to live in a dream. Women have to wait until. they are old and ugly until they realize all the niceness aimed at them was bullshit. Men on the other hand start off without inflated value and develop it rightly through life. As men get older they get sexier, as women get older they get uglier, because men have accumilated much more assests in terms of characterLife isn't about men vs. women.
People are just complicated creatures.
Personally, I find that it's healthier to just focus on what you can do for yourself and how you can build your own character and own positivity from within. The challenges of life expands our souls.Both are complicated to the opposite sex. Men are pretty much clueless when it comes to what women want and need. Women can't figure out how men can be so clueless when it comes to feelings, emotions and other things women find quite normal and easy to understand. Also men can't figure out why their lady nags. The truth, in most cases, is that if the men followed through on doing what they say they will do as well as when they say they will do it, the woman will have no reason to nag.
I agree with the comic above, men are stupid and women are crazy! They are probably crazy because of how stupid we are, but it is what it is. That said women are far more complicated then men. Men just need 2 things taken care of: penis and stomach. Take care of these things and weâre happy. Women need much more
Women. Isnât it obvious why?
Weâre complicated but only because the men dont understand how âsimpleâ we try to make things for them. Weâre complicated because they dont get it no matter how we hint or explain it
Women are definitely more confusing. If at any point in time one has to use signals when words are something we have over other creatures, or not saying what one means, then obviously they are more complex than simple. Women themselves even say that they are more complicated. If they can agree, then I don't see how it might be wrong.
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It comes down to personality
I have guy friends who are straight forward and girlfriends who are straightforward
I have girlfriends who donât show emotion and are âmanlyâ and have âmany waysâ
Then I have guy friends who are âfeminineâBoth are complicated but we en try harder, while men are more lazy.
The lazy ones are better at solving problems. The ones who keep working harder, if she is on the right path then she can solve the problems. If she is on the wrong path working hard, then no one can stop her and she will destroy relationships.Women. Iâm not even saying itâs their fault, I think it has to do with their hormones. Women have mood swings that even they say come out of nowhere, and that would confuse the hell out of me too. I canât imagine being in a bad mood and having absolutely no idea why.
Men definitely.
Women are complex but their complexity is small it only looks so big because itâs a type of complexity that fits with many things but realistically that complex thing is only one thing. Men though have something complex for everything literally. Peeing.
Showering. Timing. Reasoning. Leading especially. Lying to protect both sides it doesnât stop.Women, but not so much once you understand one basic rule.
It is more important to observe what a women does, not what she says. A women's actions will protray her true self more than what will ever come out of her mouth. Often what a women says it's just verbal/mental gymnastics to rationalize her actions.It's the opposite sex of the one you are, like a man I'd if you're a woman and a woman is if you're a man. We are wired and think differently from one sex to the other, so how would you readily expect to understand the other so easily?
Men and women are both complicated, both stupid, both smart and both anything, just not in the same or even opposite regards.
Men. They sit there and complain and then say ânothingâs wrong with me!â Then you ask them to talk and they say âyou can talkâ then!! They get all sensitive if you decide to take some time for yourself and then they wanna act possessive but call you crazy if you ever get slightly possessive.
i think we are and we further exasperate situations by assuming guys are more complicated than they actually are
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