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Yea you cover the entire topic behind why the genders are complex. Whereas everyone else has said one or the other gender is just drama
@sugarchateau Okay, thats what I thought you said just wanted to make sure. Thank you I try to be thorough.
Okay I need you to re iterate that paragraph, but WITHOUT the reproduction shenanigans.
@lacorine197 Why? That is the most basic purpose of life and quite literally dictates everything we do, all things stem from that point, the need to reproduce. Because men and women reproduce differently they both function differently in order to ensure they pass on their genes.
Excluding reproduction tell me why women operate differently
@lacorine197 Excluding aero/fluid dynamics explain to me how a plane is different then a car? See the problem? Your asking me to explain why they are different but not allowing me to explain how they are different. Reproduction is the primary function of all life so excluding that is like excluding biology when trying to explain how a persons body works. You can't divest the two. Women are built differently, they have different biochemistry different genetic makeup (the genetic difference between a man and a woman is the difference between a human and a chimpanzee) different neurological structure (more white matter while men have more grey matter, develop speech sooner then men while men develop fine motor control skills before women (generally speaking)) all of which is due to reproduction and how their roles in it function. Its the reason we even have gender roles and why women are biologically the way they are (neotenous biological traits instill a protective instincts).
@lacorine197 while also causing the male response to them. A woman who was protected was more likely to survive and reproduce since the child would be far more reliant on her do to nine months of pregnancy and then the years of child nursing. For the man being bigger and stronger meant greater resources to feed her and himself and him being willing to fight on her behalf ensured her survival and thus the survival of his offspring. This instinct is due to neotenous traits (child like characteristics). Its all due to reproduction.
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What are you complaining about I'm confused?
There is so much false information and stupidity in your comment that i dont even know to begin with, but you're completely wrong regardless. To begin with, a man leaving you after he is pregnant is not correlated with your standards or not, you can never be sure if a man is going to leave or not regardless of how much you test him or how high your standards are, in fact the paradox here is that the thing women use to rate men in (money, status, height etc) that men often complain about, is that the more a man has of these criteria, the more likely he is to cheat or leave, because such men have so many options and less reason to stay committed to one woman, so in fact if women had different standards to what they do now, (not lower, just different) then they might have more luck finding the right man (unfortunately most women including you are to stupid to realize this)
Opinion owner. I was going to tell you where you are mistaking in a major way , but because I see a (deep) ingrained sin in you... I've decided to not tell you anything that would be beneficial to your future... happy trails
@Djaaaaay (don't comment on anyones comment until you actually have something to say) @alphadoggystyle (you should leave me alone, i've read your mentally challenged thinking before... must i say its sickening ) @cchris987 (why are you responding to my comment with some mumble jumbo bullshit? whats you argument? whats your statement? what are you bitching about? i'm confused)
Why are you so angry its not that serious.
Nothing sickening or mentally challenging about what i have been saying, I've been speaking facts. If you cannot understand them then you are probably the one who is mentally challenged.
@alphadoggystyle nah, no, usually a mentally ill person always thinks others are not understanding. anyway, truth is, i think what you're spewing is bullshit. you sound like a freudian. every since that bitch entwined sexism with medicine and psychology, we've faced alpha bias (to exaggerating differences between women and men). we are not different due to biology but by culture and society. men are told to toughen up, in spite, they do, they don't show their emotions but they get off wrong when they blame women for the reasons why they don't call out their rapist etc, when in all reality they didn't want to seem less macho. women are told by society and many confirmation bias studies that they their weak, and will always be under a man for support and financial needs. until we bleed this bias dry, we'll never get over this lump. people and the women at the bottom disgust me, because their hypocrites. one minute you don't want to be put in a box yet you box people up.
Opinion owner. Alright , look... I know you're young and see things in a manner everyone's saying. I get it. You're views are not that far off when you're talking about boys /men who are immature or have an ill agenda towards women in general. Although they are a small minority of guys who insist on being jerks. And there are just as many girls/women who act the same way too. To literally put things in perspective , honestly there are a lot of genuine women/men out there who don't act out like this at all. You're right about the standard bs. Men/women need to be for real and stop all this bs. People in general who have great expectations of the other thier with aren't good relationship material. The emasculate guys out there will never be quite right in anyone's eyes , never , not even in GODS eyes. Men really are not that complicated once you learn about us , believe me. Mysterious to some maybe , complicated no.
@cchris987 lol, oh the angry "calm down women" trick. no ones angry, if i was angry, i'd make sure to block your ass. as a matter of fact, if i was so angry, then why in hell are you confronting me, don't you know that talking to people while their angry is causing danger to yourself? i think if you don't have anything of value to say - leave, the door is going back to live feed.
@Djaaaaay "Although they are a small minority of guys who insist on being jerks."thats a very broad statement to make, how do you or anyone else really know how many jackasses their is in this world? until you do a study, then your statement isn't factual, its an estimated non-educated guess. "To literally put things in perspective , honestly there are a lot of genuine women/men out there who don't act out like this at all. You're right about the standard bs. Men/women need to be for real and stop all this bs. "i agree, i just think its ridiculous that people really thought that we're all that different. the women on here and the men on here are sad cases. i'm pretty sure non of them wouldn't like being put in boxes just because of their gender. we all want individuality yet - ugh!"The emasculate guys out there will never be quite right in anyone's eyes , never , not even in GODS eyes". that sounds like you're shaming them, and i can't speak for god.
@Djaaaaay "Men really are not that complicated once you learn about us , believe me. Mysterious to some maybe , complicated no."sweet heart, no one is immune from being complicated. if they were so damn perfect, this wouldn't be so damn true. :If you're independent then it's like 'you don't like me'.If you're dependent you're clingy.If you ask him directly then you're aggressive.If you don't ask him directly then it's 'speak your mind woman!'If you give them your phone number then you're 'too upfront'.If you wait for them to ask for your phone number then they're scared of rejection.If you don't want to have sex with him you're cold bitch.If you want to have sex with him you're a slut.If you dress nicely then it's 'all women think about is clothes and jewels'.If you don't dress nicely then you're a tomboyish lesbian.If you have a successful job then you're too independent.If you don't have a job you're a gold digger.If you eat then 'you're going to be fat'.
@Djaaaaay "Alright , look... I know you're young and see things in a manner everyone's saying. I get it. You're views are not that far off when you're talking about boys /men who are immature or have an ill agenda towards women in general. "don't try to give me a back handed compliment, or you will be disrespected.
Opinion owner. I was ( agreeing ) primarily with you except , one thing and you happen to be wrong on. I'm not a little boy and I've been further around this world than you'll ever comprehend. I've never since 18 had any female problems and I still don't. I'm only trying to help alittle for others who find life alittle stresssfull. I've also been high status since I was 18 . I can tell you all about women and thier strange ways for years on end , believe me , story after story. And basically I have a very positive out look about women in ggenral , so I'm not talking bad about women at all. I dont oppress them and they don't oppress me either. Now about (complications ) doesn't have anything to do with being or acting perfect. All I was emphasizing is the high standards you said you were confused with , and feeling inefficient about it from guys. In other words ; if guys try and make you believe your inefficient or your standards are off... then you just got lied to !!
@Djaaaaay " In other words ; if guys try and make you believe your inefficient or your standards are off... then you just got lied to !!"i know and its sickening. it's just, i keep seeing these guys talk about "high standard" and they don't even reach the median standard. then when we fall from trying to give guys a chance, we're told we have bad taste, or we need to change, its always "our fault", when we were trying to appease people. sometimes i think we try to please society too much. i'm sick of hearing it. on gag, men just let women have it, all of it, show us no mercy, but the girls and women on here, (the majority) are so soft, and just give in, and be fair, when they aren't being fair to us. do you know whats it like when guys make articles telling us, women, how we're not "worth it anymore", plus a bunch of political movements, that they blame their lack of relationships on. then they also drag biology into the factors for their ways, they dont see how that could harm them
Opinion owner. Ok... I do understand this and it sickens me as well. This stuff they're always saying is a reaction to all of feminism. And quite frankly I only believe in the Bible and what GOD says to men and women alike. Of his commands we are to obey. That being said , ultimately its (mans ) fault for letting women feel or act this way in the beginning. When someone wants to complicate things ; they're representing the devil. I know beyond any bullshit out there that there are a lot of great women who just want to feel and be treated for thier own worth. For example ;( the only expectation I have of my girl is that she just be herself and of course don't lie or cheat) . The same goes for me also. nothing complicated about that. One thing I've learned about your s/o when I was quite young is , to always state clearly (all) your intentions and let them know up front your plans and compromise with thier intentions and plans as well. This always works great for both !!
@Djaaaaay no, i can't even drag feminism into this, guys have always thought this, every since i could remember. even in 50's tv shows there was this kinda thinking going around. it just seems like its feminism because of social media, i bet 9 times out of 10 people especially men, barely even encounter feminist. there's always a guy on here who blames their relationship shortcomings on a political movement lol, thats' how ridiculous this is. i don't blame mras for my father being a low down seed spreading irresponsible person. i believe guys blame stuff on other aspects because they go against what they like, so they play the blame game, just like the low and high standards issue. its an issue because they realizes no one is putting their opinion on a pedestal and breaking their necks trying to fit their standards.
you're factually wrong, men and women are biologically different, its very easy to prove and has been proven already in many ways. Men are superior and will always be. Sorry but if you ever want to be happy the best thing you can do is accept this fact, as a woman you will still enjoy several types of privileges that men dont have in spite of being inferior to us men.
Lol it's funny that girls on this site block people that disagree with them, being surrounded by people that agree with you is how the holocost happened.
@cchris987 wow shaming me about deciding whether i wanna block him or not. well, man, chris the manly man, if you had a troll on your comment trolling you, you'd block them, right? or is it different because i'm a girl, it automatically means i want him to agree with me if i wanna block him- get the fuck off my comment and go have a fake ass protest elsewhere! this is the shit i'm talking about, why are you dragging my gender into something you disagree with. you, the sexist freak, could've at least said that but left out my gender (cause it isn't really important). and no, thats not how the holocaust happened, holocaust happened when a power hungry hateful male wanted to control people, and he dislike them, so he harmed them-thats how the holocaust happened. no one is superior above someone due to who you were born as. dumb prick
So much hate! your definitely the next hitler
@alphadoggystyle those same privileges are the same ones that got us (women) in this mess anyway; we fall for your man made "traditional roles then next thing you know you're blaming us, calling us bitches, baby makers and saying we're gold diggers. so which one do you all want? this is why people should keep quiet. one minute you don't want a traditional weak female, next minute you do (that sounds complicated and it seems like you don't know what you or any other guy want). sorry, but if you ever want to be happy the best thing you can do is accept this fact, as a male you will still enjoy several types of privileges that women don't have. i may have a vagina and yes, you may have a penis. i may have boobs, and you have nipples that don't consist in as much fat as mine does but i will never bow down to you crazy, sexist, freudians, confirmation biased ass bastards.
Please list these "privileges" that guy's have and females don't. I would really like to know what they are :)
@cchris987 and i'd like you to kiss my ass nicely. :) he also didn't list privileges women had either. why don't you ask him to do so as well. oh, and you're hypocritical, controlling, and ill minded. i noticed you didn't harass the other women and their opinion because you must've liked how they said women and not men. but i'm the one who has an issue with people disagreeing with me? lol bullshit. why don't you go down in the female response of this question and find a women to dictate over, i'm pretty sure a lot of 102% won't mind. they will love having your kids, cooking and cleaning around the house and sucking whatever it is you like. sorry, dude, but i'm not breaking. you and your social media bullying can exit off this page.
1. i use an iPhone to assess this app, so it doesn't allow me to view the question only the comments that was made2. I rarely comment on what guys say cause I'm not gay and I don't care what they say3. You making wild assumption only makes you look crazy. So chill and stop taking everything so seriously.
@cchris987 1. i use an iPhone to assess this app, so it doesn't allow me to view the question only the comments that was madeso out of all the female users with different opinions as mine, you just happen to not harass. mhmm and pigs fly and sit on toilets to shit.2. I rarely comment on what guys say cause I'm not gay and I don't care what they saythat doesn't make you gay if you comment on a guys opinion... study logic.3. You making wild assumption only makes you look crazy. So chill and stop taking everything so seriously.you don't tell anyone to do shit. i can calm down if i want (if i was actually angry). and i'm making wild assumptions? "Why are you so angry its not that serious." -assumption u made"Lol it's funny that girls on this site block people that disagree with them, being surrounded by people that agree with you is how the holocost happened." - assumption you made
Opinion owner. Or if you do everything that's expected of you from the Bible ; how do you think you're life would be then , especially after all you wrote suddenly disappears?
Upvoted by me. She HAS a very good point!Complicated is related to the person, not really gender :P
thank you hi five anon!! i agree so much!! thank you, you;'re not kissing ass. please add me as a friend,
@Djaaaaay who mentioned the Bible? Besides, it was my answer to the question, I don't say I live in the middle, I do what I want, I don't do what someone expects. By the way I based my answer on so many questions I see around here. Either it's "She had sex with 2 guys is she a slut?" or "Does she like me if she does that and that". My point is that people differ. Not all men are the same, not all the women are same. People in general are complicated and fucked up. That's why this site exists anyway, so we can understand better each others' differences
thank you !!
Opinion owner. And (cross98 ) ... . Then let me take the honor to ( lie) to you and say ; That all men are so complicated way beyond any woman , so complicated that we don't know how to even converse with one let alone approach one. That we're so (shy ) and stupid
@Djaaaaay if thats what you think about men, then sure, you're free to think however you want. i don't feel that way, but i don't like when people are trying to be lopsided on an issue.
@cross98 Not lopsiding anything. And I said It was a lie. Look it's like this , your an independent person from what I gather. Sooooo being that said , I know it doesn't matter what I or anyone else says. My only mention about your opinion was that of the question at hand. As many blocks I've been around in my years up to today , I can certainly understand why Women think men are more complicated and why they think thier not. I mentioned the Bible because men and women alike are commanded to do what GOD said , not mans way.
@Djaaaaay i wasn't referring to you when i stated lopsidedness, but towards the comments and the question alone. there are people who don't believe in the "bible" basically what was man made as well, since there's million other gods duplicated with the same power and sexism in other cultures as well. and as for how many women think men are complicated, for each of us, there's ten of them (guys) who think the same about us. my statement wasn't that men are more complicated than women and that wasn't anons opinion either (may i speak on her behalf), but trying to put a whole group in one box, is continuing a harmful paradox.
I try to share but 1 of 2 things usually happens. 1) I can't find the right way to convey how I feel or 2) The other person doesn't care about how I feel so I give up trying to show my feelings.
Sorry, that's not really going to help you open up... I think a lot of people today don't want to invest the time into a true relationship or getting to know another person... Which I guess makes both men and woman hard to understand... When you meet the right person they will care what you have to say and want to know also...
@Serenity65 That's what I'm hoping for. But for now, it's pretty hard. Not to mention it's just extremely hard to meet new people nowadays.
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As for women... don't even get me started on a goddam list hahaha! (Not all of you of course before you all jump at my throat)
Opinion owner. Biblically speaking your right about your opinion. Although , men are usually very to the point and up front depending on you. It's the riddles from women that complicate your own success with us guys rather.
thank you @TheSheWolf6 i almost popped a blood vessel reading the other girls comments. next thing you know, their complaining about a guys behavior... the irony.
Couldn't have said it any better myself
Opinion owner. There for a min, I thought I was in the blue section. Well said , and I commend someone for talking straight up rather than lying. Thanks for being real and not bs 😊
Finally a woman who says it as it is rather than be some fucking test
Do you find yourself among those women who like fucking play games?
@msg812 no. I haven't played games since I was 16. I'm good.
Congratulations but even such a good woman like you have played games untill she was 16. I think there is being complicated in your soul but good girls leaves it early:))
@NalaxLazy it's true 😉
No way lol guys can be just as bad 😂
Wtf did i wtite. Men are simple and easier
I saw that video too!
You can? Its women
I don't think that generalization can be made
It's absurd, really.
i think i can see where you're going with this...
Why do you think that?
@cchris987 Because, I've spent a lot of time with both genders. Woman will say one thing yet mean another.They'll say yes or no when they really mean no or yes. They like to play mind games.They will allow you to do something they don't want you to then when you do it they will get angry like some sort of trap. Need I go on? Lol.Men are quite simple in my opinion. You hang around them as just friends you begin to learn that thier needs and wants are which are very low. Very few men are complicated, yet very few woman are not complicated. I am a very observant human lol.
So why do you think women need to display this type of behaviour and what could they possibly gain by not being straight forward or trust worthy?
@cchris987 Sigh, well. Simply put. There is nothing to gain from such behavior. If anything it ruins things for themselves. Why they display such behavior is the tough one. Even I am not quite sure as to why. I myself steer away from that. So I can not honestly tell you from experience of my own behaviors. I am more like a man in that sense. I like simple non complicated things.
Perhaps the fact they are complicated makes life worth living. If they where simple like us then we would probably realize how vain life truly is.
@cchris987 But than, not all woman are like this.It has to be something much more deeper.Making life complicated only makes life harder and we as humans (AT least the decent ones) don't want nor need harder. Maybe all these TV shows has planted some sort of behavior issue in thier brain that made them think that being such ways will bring attention.Because, woman are the type that need attention no matter what kind it may be. I guess we will just have to be more observant as to learn why such behavior from the female gender is.
Hey that's why I'm on this app, but some girls are easily offended because they take life way too seriously so it becomes hard to learn about someone if they get offended that you don't know them already. But I appreciate this conversation with you because I'm rarely ever able to take about this type of stuff to a girl without being blocked.
@cchris987 Haha, I feel you.It's unfortunate that a lot of woman are like that. Life is just to damn short to get offended or take things serious though.I think we all do it once in awhile and that is okay. If it has good reason.But for such little silly things all the time... Those people aren't worth our time. All we can do is laugh and feel bad for them. And move on 😊
I love how woman always dislike by opinions because I like to be honest. And this is what I was talking about lol.