Who's the more complicated gender: Men or Women?

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hellionthesagereborn · Accepted Answer

I voted C only because their was no option to choose neither. Women make perfect sense IF you understand how they operate. Basically men don't understand women and women don't understand men. The difference is women to be perfectly blunt lie and men tend to be straight forward. See women have evolved to be indirect as that meant they where less likely to be injured and harmed since reproduction has a heavy toll on the body of a woman and so avoiding injury increased odds of successfull reproduction and child rearing. For men reproduction doesn't take a toll at all but because of this they have to earn value while a woman doesn't meaning they are far more likely to go out of their way to prove their worth while women will go out of their way to avoid conflict (that would potentially harm them (hence them talking about each other behind their back, it takes the other person down a social peg while not directly harming the woman and her chances of reproducing). For men since they are are replacable they have to prove themselves more and in turn are conditioned to be much more direct. So understanding men and women in the context of reproduction it actually makes sense. Women like drama because it shows that the man is invested in her, if she creates drama and he doesn't react then he must not be all that invested and reproduction is going to result in her being abandoned which of course would have been a death sentence for her. Meanwhile for the man he must prove his worth to her so he will go out of his way to prove that with buying her things and protecting her since the goal is to reproduce and if she is pregnant or nursing or raising a child that is his even though he may die it ensures the survival of her and by extention potential offspring making him more dedicated to her. Each has the same objective but different methodology to get that end. So the complications arise because women have an opposite method of men and vice versa so the issue is comparing one to the other then no matter who you are the other will look complicated in comparison simply because you have your strategy of survival and understand it and they have a different one that is contradictory to your own. So its only complicated if you don't understand the basics.

super147 · Accepted Answer

Complicated is in the eye of the beholder, lol. If you look at all the posts on here from both men and women you will see that we can be equally confusing. Men probably think men are simpler, women probably think the same. I find a lot of male behaviour easier to analyse, but then I'm male.

There are no rules that apply to all cases, some people are more complex than others regardless of gender and often because their psychology is more complex.

cross98 · Accepted Answer

ah the women on here might as well bow down on their knees and suck some d***- bunch of sell outs. the irony is that out of all the women who have responded to this, i see questions based on a guys behavior on their profile pages. how the fuck are men just not as complicated as women if there's questions asked about their behavior? the mental gymnastics are just glorious.

i get confused when men complain about a womens high standards when they don't fit them. however, as soon as we lower our standards, then we get pregnant, then we have to raise the baby on our own cause we "lowered our standards"; guess who gets blamed? you ! the one who felt guilty to the low and high standards shaming. tell me men, doesn't that sound confusing or maybe you all just need to shut the f*** up?

"Well, let's see. To keep your man happy as a woman, pretty much stay thin, suck his dick, and be pleasant." - quoted by notorisch_arschloch

but... weren't you just complaining about women not being more efficient? lol i see how men are being cucked by the system, all we need to do as women is be your parrot (like most women down in the bottom) and tell you what you want to here, make you feel as though you're in the right, be thin, and presentable, and know how to suck dick, and we'll be good!

5 years later...

women make me sick!! bunch of gold digging women. all they want is a bank, then they charge you the unbearable for child support, i can't see my kids!! mra all the way!!

lmfao- you all seemed so much smarter when you were being macho and silent, lookin all mysterious and shit.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

If you're independent then it's like 'you don't like me'.
If you're dependent you're clingy.
If you ask him directly then you're aggressive.
If you don't ask him directly then it's 'speak your mind woman!'
If you give them your phone number then you're 'too upfront'.
If you wait for them to ask for your phone number then they're scared of rejection.
If you don't want to have sex with him you're cold bitch.
If you want to have sex with him you're a slut.
If you dress nicely then it's 'all women think about is clothes and jewels'.
If you don't dress nicely then you're a tomboyish lesbian.
If you have a successful job then you're too independent.
If you don't have a job you're a gold digger.
If you eat then 'you're going to be fat'.
If you don't it then 'are you trying to be anorexic or what?'

And then we're the more complicated gender, right.

Serenity65 · Accepted Answer

I think men believe their less complicated, but I believe their more complicated because woman are generally more open with their thoughts and feelings... You have to read A guy a lot of the time because they don't share and most times it can be difficult trying to figure out what their thinking, or what's going on with them...

TheLittleBuggy · Accepted Answer

I love how women are either like upfront and are like "it's us" or just like "I won't admit to anything, so BOTH!"
I voted women xD I know I'm complicated as hell. I've had guy friends attempt to argue with me, but they use logic and so usually lose or just give up

OlderAndWiser · Answer

Who is more complicated for men to deal with, or who is more complicated for women to deal with?

GraveTruth · Answer

women do have a far more complex brain.
1. The horminal system is more complex in women (testosterone, Oxytoxin, estrogen)
2. Woman have more a complex organ system as well (reproduction)
3. Neuro-pathways of a womans brain is more complex at well
4. As far as the psychological brain goes, women think far more complex than men.
5. There are far more phenomenons related to how complex a woman is than men. For example: Kangaroo care.
Kangaroo care

THAT BEING SAID... complex does not mean more advanced. There are disadvantages to "straight forward and A wack load of stuff happening for the same result"

Complex makes complications and much more vulnerablity to error.
-There are about 15% more diseases for women than men
-Mental disorders are far more difficult to control and it is more common
-Even minor things such as Vitamin B12 does not work as well in woman than man. Vit B12 makes DNA in your body (in case you care)
-There is less common sense with using emotion for decisions therefore more mistakes can be made in life... and women are less likely to learn from them.

Zazzz · Answer

I guess it depends how much you understand the other gender. The thing is men or women will talk to each other and ultimately you will naturally understand your own gender better. I think men are harder to read when it comes to their intentions but I could pinpoint it a lot easier than any women could. Women are hard to get and you need to push a million buttons and levers for her to even give you a chance because of the fear of not knowing what the man's intentions are. So, the man that is serious has a harder time understanding women. It depends it depends it depends in a dating aspect. BUT, generally men are simpler creatures that necessitate very minimum things to be happy. Women have the emotional and hormonal factors that kick in once in a while that throws men on a fucking rollercoaster ride.
Both genders can be complicated but I voted women because were generalizing and for me it's clear. Bring beer, show up naked, i'm happy.

JDavid25 · Answer

You'll never have a definite answer there are reasons you can say that each gender is complicated.. Neither really fully understands each others.. Many of us would like to say women for good reasons.. But guys can be just as complicated in certain circumstances.. Individuals are the most complicated.. Complexity is what life is about without it there's nothing to achieve ;we won't learn how to grow. We are all unique individuals with unique experiences. We are complicated in our own ways.. For the most past.. Lol..

Notorisch_Arschloch · Answer

Well, let's see. To keep your man happy as a woman, pretty much stay thin, suck his dick, and be pleasant.

Of course, to keep a woman happy as a man, well, you can earn 7 figures, take her on 8 vacations a year, and be built like the Rock and still wind up in the doghouse, but when you ask what's wrong get told, "If you don't know, then there's a bigger problem."

If it floats, flies or fucks, stick to rentals. Anything else is just a headache.

Ananchor · Answer

women tell you what they want or show you all the time... you just don't listen so by the time you ask "what do you want?" we are so frustrated we don'y give a shit and it's easier to say "I don't know" then try to tell you or show you again.
Luckily, not all guys are bad listeners

SalmonBear · Answer

In my experience, both.

Even I don't understand some women sometimes so I can see how men would have trouble.

But, they too are complicated. I do not understand their reasoning a lot of times. They would rather hurt their girlfriends' feelings then to appear less manly in front of their friends. This I will never understand.

TheSheWolf6 · Answer

"Women are complicated" Of course we are! You make us!!! We have to constantly guess what's the meaning of all your actions. "Does he love me, does he not." "Does he like me, does he not" "Does he cheat on me, does he not" what more did you expect? Your riddles complicate us, the riddles we constantly have to solve.

PinkMichae · Answer

I think more women then men. Women are biologically more emotional and think differently then men. Most men are simple in their thinking and women tend to have a more complex way of thinking. So I think that makes us more complicated.

Sephora_Addict · Answer

Woman! Hands down. Men are simple and they say what they mean. Girls or women like to fucking play games like stupid little immature children.

NicknameShirt · Answer

Women are, and it has hormonal causes I think. More emotions mean less control of what you desire and what is a good choice. I noticed how much simpler I felt after my puberty settled and I become testosterone-driven. Emotions play a far far lesser role in my decisions.
I'm in no way saying women are bad decision makers, but in their personal relationships they might be. Emotionally they are so so complex.

Rahdle · Answer

Women are more complicated for sure. But that's part of the reason why we love them ☺️

JiminsHoe · Answer

Even physically and the way our bodies work, women are more complicated. I mean not only that, but women's minds are like spaghetti and guy's minds (or at least in their teenage years) are low key just blank lmao.

Mesonfielde · Answer

Being "complicated" has more to do with personal experiences during lifetime that with genitalia. So I voted C), but in reality I just disagree with the concept of this question.

FakeName123 · Answer

Women. Hands down. While men can also be complicated - men are way more often straight forward and say what they want instead of expecting others to be mindreaders.

cth96190 · Answer

Women are far more complicated. Men are simple. Keep our stomachs full and our balls empty and we will be happy.

Phoenix98 · Answer

Women though I will not deny that there are complicated men as well. But in the grand scheme of things men are very singular and straight forward women are not.

Anonymous · Answer

It really really depends on the person

JazzyGirl18 · Answer

Women, because I have had it explained to me like this: men's minds are organized in such a way that everything fits into a categorized box and they can focus on one thing at a time. Women's minds are organized in such a way that it's like a big ball of mixed-up strings and everything needs to get done at the same time.

IceCubedude · Answer

women are because they have no idea what they want, you can never satisfy someone who has no idea what he seeks, men despite being simpler and more to the point are great liars, i admit, women are not easy to understand but men are can't be believed.

laurapalmer · Answer

I don't think you can really generalize this to a specific gender. Some women are more complicated and some men are more complicated. Just depends on the person and the dynamic of the relationship

Mrwoo99 · Answer

It has to be women I mean they're the whole reason dating and relationships are always messed up.

Sami365 · Answer

Both. Both sexes have similar things that makes us complicated, but we also have things specific to each side.

Wingedz · Answer

Woman. No idea what they want sometimes, It confused me

DanoM1 · Answer

Women. What men said is what they mean. What women say... omg I wish I knew lol

Kaylyne · Answer

It makes me so ashamed as a woman in having to admit that it is most definitely us females.

HerondaleLover88 · Answer

Definitely women. Most of the time I have trouble understanding them myself. Guys are so much easier.

Cosytoasty · Answer

Neither are all that complicated. Men are simple creatures by default and women do a lot of huffing and puffing so you humour them, but in reality they follow where you lead.

Sakura99 · Answer

I find guys so hard to understand but I also don't understand girls... so yeah maybe I'm just shit at understanding people

Imafreespirit · Answer

generally, women. Men tend to be more straight forward

XRabbitHeartX · Answer

I think both can be complicated.. I know very complex guys and girls :P

TiffyPuff · Answer

People aren't complicated. Most people are just too self-obsessed to see what makes other people tick.

ManOnFire · Answer

I would've loved to answer this a lot sooner, but since it's already got a lot of answers, mine will just get lost in the flood.

SarahsSummer · Answer

i think we are. Even though I dont always understand them, guys are pretty simple. They want food, sex, booze and sports.

TayTay21 · Answer

Everyone's complicated, it's just that women are more coy about themselves and tend to hide our true intentions under many layers of bs.

NalaxLazy · Answer

I feel like both have they days. Women... women lol nvm fuck it women are more complex but we go through a lot more shit body wise compare to guy..

Kaazsz · Answer

My question is how much of it is caused by the functions of society?

Kylah8913 · Answer

I am a woman and I say woman are the most complicated lol.

EvilAngel114 · Answer

Women are most definitely more complicated. With the exception of a handful.

MindYourEyes · Answer

I would have to say humans are really complicated creatures.

CorvetteGirl · Answer

Probably girls. I was told today I'm very complicated

SirDevan · Answer

This isn't even a question really. Guys are like glass for the most part.

fueledbythc · Answer

It depends on the individual, not gender. I'm extemely complicated to figure out and it seems from my experience the people I understand the least are mostly guys.

Tattooedfairy19 · Answer

I almost hate to say this but I do believe that us girls are the more complicated of the two sexes

Saoirse_Nua · Answer

Each has their "What the hell is going on?" but probably an equal number of them

jmr77 · Answer

Both are equally complicated. I think different personalities either work well or pose a problem.

Kroakies_krickees · Answer

Women definitely! High hormones is the culprit. -_-

Cali15 · Answer

Woman hands down. One hour they're happy the next hour they hate you lol

00Lelouchxx · Answer

Men are sinole and east to deal with. Which why men have fewer issue with each other. And also why u get thooose few females that say they like having guy friends cause girls are drama

PiuBravoRagazzo · Answer

both are complicated in their own ways However ladies make things complicated they themselves aren't complicated

lacorine197 · Answer

Definitely women. Hell, even women can't understand women and I have female friends who can agree to this.

Anonymous · Answer

Men. Their penises are so weird and I don't get how they work.

NajemEddine · Answer

srsl😂😂😂 women ofc they reject Logic over emotion😁😁😁

Anonymous · Answer

Hahaha! Definitely women. For most girls you could fill that thought bubble with thousands of words. For most guys, most of the time, it's fine as is! lol!

Anonymous · Answer

I think both genders are complicated but more so men. I feel they hide their true intentions and even if it's good they wouldn't show it so easily.

Unit1 · Answer

On average and statistically speaking, it's women. ;)

KnightinDarkArmor · Answer

If Life were a video game:  Woman would be a higher didficulty setting than man

Theodorable · Answer

Men. Because men hide their motives. Men are more oblique.

Anonymous · Answer

Whoever said equally complicated is a moron, all 80 of you!

AlwaysBelieving · Answer

It's more of a case by case complication with the INDIVIDUAL and not a gender.

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