Why do people (mostly girls) claim that the "friend zone" doesn't exist when there is ample evidence that it does?

Question

SweetDisaster · Accepted Answer

Who ever say that is full of BS I have a friend who has like me like me for so many years and I always put him in the Friend zone. So YES friend zone EXIST😁✌

linaashxx · Accepted Answer

Bullshit. It exists.

ThirtyEight · Accepted Answer

I've personally found after being rejected by women who say they want to be 'friends' they never have any intention of actually being 'friends'.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I guess they think it’s a valid excuse when they reject someone. I have had women put me there and play with my emotions

Jean-Marie_Céline · Answer

It depends on how you see it. To me it was just rejecting a girl I didn't like romantically, to her it was me being an assh*le and friendzoning her.

Chikky · Answer

It does exist but you've to really get the tip that she doesn't like you in the beginning before it leads to this

luvstoned4him · Answer

I dont believe in it. I mean sure its humiliating. You putting yourself, your feelings and your ego on the line for this one girl who may or may not like u back. Thats why they say dont put all your eggs in one basket. However, if you get friendzoned, at least you are still in her life... as a friend but that just means that by her letting you down, you are on your way to meeting your soul mate or girl of your dreams.

I've matured to the point where whenever I lose something now, I just look at it as it wasn't meant to be and there is something else better or the right thing for me is yet to come. This goes for love, jobs and friends. Positive thinking.

Browneye57 · Answer

Of course it exists. It's simply where a girl puts a guys she likes well enough to have around but no interest in romance or sex with him.

If they deny it exists they just don't understand what it is.

Remember, that female brain runs on feelings and emotion. There's not much basis in logic or fact. And even if you can prove a point on logic or fact she'll turn around and tell you it's just how she FEELS! And those feelings are subject to change, AT ANY MOMENT! Just ask them! IT's their god-given right to do so - JUST ASK THEM! LOL

MascGirls · Answer

It exists! Of course there are going to be women who don't want to fuck you, but are still interested in your friendly company. What people are saying when they say that it doesn't exist is that it's silly it is a titled concept and that it has such a negative connotation.

HungLikeAHorsefly · Answer

This one time, a girl I knew wanted me to go to a bar with her and her "best friend". Turns out, it was a dude. While we're at the bar and doing something else, he starts telling me all about how he used to like her but they came to an "understanding" and now they're just best friends.

I was like "oh noes this sounds really heart wrenchingly pathetic". Sometimes I still think about all the depraved shit she let me to do her while that dude was hanging on, making do with being BFF's. I'd say the Friend Zone is totally real, and it's brutal.

Kkaos · Answer

FFS, if you're in the friendzone, you're not their friend, you're just pretending to be their friend in hopes you'll somehow magically move into a relationship or get laid.

The guy in that picture is joke. He looks like a kid, a stereotypical 'nice guy', I bet he's never once put his dick on the line and actually been assertive and made his intentions clear with a girl... He resorts to making pathetic little hints like 'we look like a couple'... But not even that, he's insecure about even saying that so he has to put an over the top 'hahahaha'... Dude, what you've just said isn't that funny, you're just showing your nervousness and insecurity here...

Gothd011 · Answer

I think it does exist. I just don't focus on it too much on that zone. If you like someone tell them. if you can not deal with just being friends then walk away. Why go through the wasteful emotions

it makes it easier for the whole party. That way there no confusion. I got plenty of male friends I hang out with weekly and there no romance or anything involve we talk about crushes and who they like or their girlfriend issues. It keeps it normal.

Anonymous · Answer

The friend zone exists, it’s just that most guys make a big deal out of it and portray the friend zone as this horrible place to be. Girls are not obligated to date anyone who is kind to them. Unfortunately, sometimes things just don’t click and the girl just doesn’t want to date the guy, but she still appreciates the bond between them and would like to keep him in her life as her friend. Romantic attraction is a complicated thing, and sometimes girls just aren’t going to want to date you. But if you accept your place in the friend zone, instead of acting bitter about being rejected, then you could build a quality friendship. Having a girl friend can be really great. You could have a cool friend that can introduce you to other girls and can give you advice from a girl’s point of view.

SuzyB · Answer

Girls aren't always attracted to men that are attracted to them and visa versa. If a man doesn't find a girl attractive he will just avoid her, not talk to her etc. But a girl will most likely try be friends with the guy due to his personality and that just tends to upset men.

Anonymous · Answer

Because a friend zone for girls are the back of guys in case their main guy dumps in for some reason so they have someone to buy them stuff and to worship them to make them feel good. So of course the vast majority of females will never admit to this

bill_towers · Answer

"The friendzone" is a tool to women using the mans ressources to her benefit without offering anything in exchange.

Ressources can be time, company, Money, Attention and his personal or profession related skills.

It's low effort with high Profit. Opportunism.

TotoCow · Answer

Yeah, it does exist. Put a girl on the friendzone simply because I don't wanna date her and just wanna be friends. You don't feel anything for them just like how you don't feel anything for your cousin, mom, sister, etc but they are such good friends that you don't wanna lose them.

Maybe that was a bad comparison... But you get the gist lol

Mexicoman101 · Answer

I don’t know, I guess they just don’t enjoy the stigma attached to doing that to men they like and respect. Tbf there is stigma there, and I don’t necessarily agree with it. Like you shouldn’t be shamed for not being attracted to a friend of yours. I do kind of question the wisdom of keeping a friend around who you know wants to jump your bones on a pragmatic basis but hey, people get to choose.

janna_jcb · Answer

It exists, but it is not as terrible to be in as it may seem. When I friendzone someone I think they’re a nice person to be around (quite often I didn’t even know they liked me) and I don’t write them off as relationship material, they’re still in the dating pool

jessture · Answer

The friendzone is a made up concept by whiny men who got rejected and think they don't deserve rejection because they were nice, but they stick around with the woman wanting more even though it will never happen.

My way of handling it is simple, if a woman I like rejects me, I respect her wishes and I move on with life. I don't hang around wallowing in my own feces, I work towards the next woman I'm interested in.

worldscolide · Answer

It exists, I've just never been put In it..

When a woman says "let's just be friends" i respond by saying "sorry not interested in friends, it's like a cancelation prize" i break contact and ignore them, treat them like they dont exist.. almost every single time that has happened that he attempted to come back saying what a huge mistake they made..

My only response "please learn to take responsibility for your actions and accept the consequences of your actions" and I vanish again..

Anonymous · Answer

Because women leverage the friend zone. They know that he has a crush on them but the FZ gives the guy "hope" she will see their inner worth. Truth is she will never consider you for sex but if she let that be known then he would no longer be interested in being her emotional tampon

isweatergawd · Answer

They dont want to hurt the person nor date the person. Either because they are saving themselves for the right one, u might not be their type , or they seen other people in relationships or had a bad relationship and dont wanna commit. Its there they just dont want to make into. Most people just want sex. Its better to be friends first than to rush

mrs-turner97 · Answer

It does exist I don't know any girl who says it don’t

mattdzz · Answer

I don't know of any girl who has pretended the friendzone doesn't exist.

Nicole066 · Answer

It exists mostly people are saying that but it still is not a bad thing, just making yourself clear

BlackDawn · Answer

Because the shit is childish. Just because someone turned you down means nothing. I'm not in a relationship with anyone else on the fucking planet. Why do you get to put yourself in a special little bucket, just because we know who you are?

demonics · Answer

To keep the charade up?

Its like them acting like being a single mom is so horrible despite the endless list of incentives and ignoring the easiest method to prevent single motherhood in the first place.

ChiTown33 · Answer

For the same reason that women will say "i just think about you in that way" rather than say "you're ugly". lol Women never want to be cast in the light that they are actually just as shallow as guys.

Dolemite510 · Answer

Cuz girls don’t want to own up to the fact that they’re attention whores and use male friends for attention haha

Nivinxus · Answer

Because friend zone is basically friends with the word zone attached to it? I don't really know the difference.

yungclorox · Answer

Women aren't machines that you put kindness coins into until we have sex with you, the friendzone isn't real but the fuckzome guys put us in sure is :)

IndiannaJonnes · Answer

She looks like his sister. So it might be better to be friendzoned rather than fucking her. We only have 1 dick not a thousand

ROCKS128 · Answer

Because may be they haven't friendzoned others so they think it doesn't exist. Also some girls do friendzone and Want to escape that guilt or hear that they are not doing anything wrong by that, so!

Anonymous · Answer

Because those girls probably get into relationships based on friendships first. It's actually smart.

tonicandgin · Answer

I usually say there is no such thing as dating. Just exclusive or not exclusive

jimyee · Answer

Why claims it doesn't exist? I've never heard that once.

CoffeeWC · Answer

I never really discuss the friend zone with people, so I don't really know people's opinions on the friend zone. I assume that the majority of people do think there's a friendzone.

NerdInDenial · Answer

To friend zone someone is not nice and no one wants to be the bad guy.

Rogzi · Answer

@amourhoney you make 600 a month? How is that possible?

Liam_Hayden · Answer

The friend zone is when both want to dance but only one wants to tango.

psychosam · Answer

They're just living in denial that their friend wants to doink them

Randomawkwardness · Answer

I mean I've never denied it

Eternal_Blizzard · Answer

Never heard any girl saying that it doesn't exists

Wakingup · Answer

They look like brother and sister tbh

IlyaTheImpaler · Answer

I unironically think that dude could do better

tearout · Answer

they look like brother and sis

Anonymous · Answer

Its called friendship.

boulshyte · Answer

because its not a "zone", its just friends

esotericstory · Answer

These women are sociopaths.

ChocolateMarie2001 · Answer

Maybe she isn’t into you that way.

kevironsx · Answer

Just because

Why do people (mostly girls) claim that the "friend zone" doesn't exist when there is ample evidence that it does?

Most Helpful Opinions

Most Helpful Opinions

What Girls & Guys Said

Why do some girls say that the friend zone isn't bad, and that guys who pretend it exists are misogynists?

Why do people (mostly girls) claim that the "friend zone" doesn't exist when there is ample evidence that it does?

Most Helpful Opinions

Most Helpful Opinions

What Girls & Guys Said

Why do some girls say that the friend zone isn't bad, and that guys who pretend it exists are misogynists?

We're glad to see you liked this post.