That's cheating and they have a right to know the person they are with has done so. Would I be upset? Hell yea, but I would be more likely to forgive that and move on if she comes forth. If you feel guilty in the future and tell me then, it's over. Cheating is cheating, but people makes mistakes. Honesty and full disclosure, or else there is no need for a relationship.
You shouldn't be kissing anyone in the first place! However, if someone was stupid enough to do that, yes, you should tell your partner. Better they hear it from you and you let them know it will not happen again (and hope they forgive you), than someone else telling them because then it looks like you were trying to hide it and lie to them.
There is NO excuse to be kissing another person if you're in a relationship; I don't care what they say. And hiding it from them sure as hell isn't helping anyone. It's sad some people don't know how to be loyal nowadays
So, cheating? Letting it go would be a funny and stupid thing to do. And what the hell, i guess id like to fucking know if I've been cheated on. So yes honey its essential.
I think if one loves their partner and has any kinda respect for them, then this wouldn't even be a question. If one doesn't tell them, then its no long about the kiss, is it? Yes id tell my partner. i wouldn't necessarily leave him for over it. Given he was up front with me about it.
its just kissing and if it was a one time thing... fine. people ain't perfect... they slip and make mistakes... why destroy something that has lasted and may keep lasting... because of a one time act? its only women who think like that. burn down the house because they saw one mouse.
I would personally never do anything like this / that will hurt my partner. But if he was to do this to me... I would never forgive him, ever!!! I would call it off and move on with my life. I ain't about to deal with an untrustworthy person my whole entire life. "Thank you, next"✌
As much as I despise a cheater, in this case if it was an isolated incident the person realized how wrong it was to do, and it will never ever happen again. No I don't think it's essential at all, sometime it's best not to admit every tiny detail of your life to your partner, that's when telling them would actually do more harm than good, and there's a very good chance the relationship would never get back to good again.
It sounds less this is was one of pain not like a hello how are you on the cheek. I'm not sure if it's essential but I would certainly like to know why it happened and how. No matter what though, at least i know to keep my hair's up. I'm not going to constantly accuse you or anything but if it happens, I won't be as hurt and the relationship will end amicably.
So basically, is appreciated for essential in my book.
If it bothers you then tell your partner. If it doesn't bother you it doesn't matter if you tell them or not. Your relationship is probably over. Regardless of your feelings your partmer will be affected negatively by this and the relationship will change.
You can't hide that otherwise it turns into Lovestruck:The Musical and gets messy. What I mean by that is, if it didn't mean anything, why would you be scared to hide it?
If it was anything other than a friendly kiss, yes. I've been kissed by women I know very well, but it has been a friendly kiss on the side of the face.
In a serious relationship honesty is essential so you have to come clean. Can it be forgiven, probably, in time. But would need to understand why it happened, takes work and effort from both sides
@bklynbadboy1 he was upset of course but at the same time appreciated me for being honest. I don't know, I cannot hide anything from him. Like if I ever cheated on any of my partner, no one will tell them. They will know it from me, myself. Whether they choose to stay or no, it is their call.
I would feel offended if my partner kissed someone other than me.. because kissing is a way of expressing love to somebody.. and that person should be me.. no one else but me.. but the thing is.. I don't have a partner 🤣 so.. I don't know
It depends on the why the kiss happen and how, but if it was like a genuine kiss kiss then I might want to consider my relationship with this girl yes.
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