Do you think it's true that Men can understand Women but Women can't understand Men? (Page 2)
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Where there is knowledge, there is a level of understanding one can have with said knowledge. But I simply cannot understand the logic of some people regardless of gender sometimes.
Honestly, why would you buy ripped jeans?
I understand modern women very well look at all the likes so many women will hate men but then they get mad when and call us toxic when we speak out against them
That post holy fuck man... total inversion
@No_Archons look at all the likes, and these are the women who probably preach feminism and say it’s equality
I think it's a little pretentious to say you understand anyone in general.
You need expansive knowledge of someone's ego to understand why they do the things they do.
Most people don't even understand how their own ego works.
if it's a guy problem, other men can relate. if it's a girl problem, other women can relate. but most problems can happen to anyone, and those who have experience similar things can understand each other regardless of gender! :)
I dont think either sex understands the other, hence G@G.
Men want to feel respected and want their work to be appreciated.
Women want to feel secure and accepted.
its pretty easy to understand
I also want to feel respected and have my work appreciated.
@GiveMeAllTheCookies obviously all these things apply to both men and women, but these are what men and women normally prioritize in relationships.
Eh...
Not only in Relationships.
I think that it's too individual.
I'm still not buying the idea that being a certain gender means having entirely different thought processes, overriding culture and education.
Men and women (generally) cameras understand each other because each communicates differently.
There are this who understands the opposite sex well because they actually learned how they communicate.
i have always thought of it like this... men know they dont understand women but many women think they understand men
There's no app called 'Guys ask Guys' or 'Girls ask Girls'. I think we were made to not fully understand each other, basically to give life more of a challenge. If we understood each other that would make things mundane.
If you treat people as just part of a group, you're not gonna understand them, because the group is formed by individuals with individual thoughts.
Maybe try looking at people as individuals and that way you might get to understand them better.
On an individual basis, yes. People are more simple than that though. Most people can be grouped into catagories. They aren't as unique as they think they are.
Sure, they have unique things that make them who they are but they have a lot of basic things that can be grouped with other people
@B-radley absolutely, but it comes down to specifics. What you can't do is group all men in the "male" category, and all women in the "female" category, and then say every person of each group is the same.
By understanding people in general. Then the differences in gender, you will be able understand an individual.
Will some people contradict the baseline? Yes but you now have a baseline
I've literally never heard any man or woman say that. I've heard the opposite where women understand men but men can't understand women.
Nah, I don’t think either gender really understands the other but if anything I’d say women understand men more than men understand women.
Neither gender understands one another and it's almost like people don't even care about it or want to understand in the first place.
i think neither men understand women nor women understand men. men are by far the most confusing things i’ve ever had to deal with in my life.
Girls, vote up if you understand this. What an absurd question. Men and women run governments and businesses. If we couldn't understand each other the world would be falling fucking apart.
Personally, I thought it was the opposite. You’d think, right?
We all believe something society have ever told us, until we realize the opposite is true. Maybe that's one of these things.
Maybe so..:)
You all like to think you understand. Weirdly, you hardly ever behave that way.
I think it's the opposite. Guys are pretty simple. Plenty of women understand guys just fine. It's women that are the emotionaly complicated ones.
If that’s true men would be terrible people. You can forgive someone for poor behaviour when they’re unaware, but not when they are aware.
Agree, but it isn't easy to respect unaware beings, especially when you have to deal with their whole bs.
Well yeah, once it goes beyond a certain point it’s only natural to question it.
I do think men do have more of a tendency to play dumb at times too though. They’re not half as daft as they’d like to try and make you believe sometimes.
I believe all humans are basically submissive. Guys just have more energy to use, that doesn't mean you can upload everything on them cause even that high energy will disappear more and more, the more you're overusing it.
I don’t think all humans are that submissive? But yeah of course, if someone is continuously negative that’s going to become toxic to others around it too.
Submissive to existence. Some people, especially Men, just aren't aware of it.
In what way? I’m not sure what you mean...
If somebody would come up they'd trust to 100% they'd follow them more or less frequently and obviously. But that's nothing that can be 'played'.
I have no idea what you’re talking about
What can i do?
Explain the context of you comment, is there a situation you can give as an example? Your comment is too broad to relate to anything in particular.
It is like i wrote it. Nothing particular, it's universal. The thing is that there is almost never 100% trust, cause that would mean they see you as God. Everyone is submissive to God (what i call existence).
Everyone? I don’t think that’s true at all. It’s a matter of perception and each person has their own perception that shapes their own world beliefs and values.
If you look into a pond of 7 fish, how many worlds exist in that pond?
It’s not the 1 that we see. There’s 7 different worlds for each individual fish. 🤔 🧠💭
Yes, everyone. I know it cause all people want to submit to me when i'm in good health, no matter if male or female, black or white, tall or short.
Submit to you? They knock on your door to worship you? Or just use normal social rules to glue the foundations of society for the smooth running and benefit of everyone?
And often times to the benefit of themselves too.
They honor me, show complete respect and acceptance, often subservience. In every situation. But like i mentioned, when i'm not in a well state things change very much.
But that’s just basic psychology and the natural law of nature. Every cause has an effect. If you put positivity into the world you’ll reap more back, if you put negativity or into the world, you’ll also reap more back. There’s nothing godly about it. If you beat an animal it’s not going to love you is it? It’s going to fear and bite you. If you look after that animal it’s going to reward you with loyalty and companionship.
I mean this in the best possible way so please don’t take offence as none is meant, but if you have schizophrenia or anything maybe you’re starting to or are experiencing an episode? I don’t know you and am no professional so obviously can’t say anything of real worth on this, but having had experience with someone experiencing their personal episodes before, these kind of comments don’t sound too far off. I could be completely wrong, but if any of this sounds possible to you then hopefully helping in recognising that could help.
I don't really put positivity out consciously. I feel quite neutral and don't do anything. It's something called Charisma. It's the Aura.
I wouldn’t say charisma makes people worship you, it makes them fond of being around a person like that because that person makes them feel good - which must mean they’re putting out some positivity. They may not feel like they are if they’re numb or it’s fake with ulterior motives, but that’s a whole other ball game.
I know 100% it isn't fake when i walk down the street and everyone looks at me, smiles or come close to me, try to start a conversation, without me doing anything, not even looking at them.
Yeah but I’m sure practically every average looking up to good looking person experiences that if they’re open to it. It’s nothig godly or special, it’s happening everywhere every day. And men definitely don’t trust 100%, they may just lead you to believe that while they’re lusting, and maybe some do, but again both girls and guys do that because it’s human nature, it’s the rose tinted glasses effect of lust, literally like your brain is on drugs.
I’ve experienced it myself. I remember my friend saying to me once “do you have any idea how much attention you have right now” and different guys came over to offer help with what I was doing. Pretty much all of the guys used to fancy me, my friends used to talk to each their saying “she can have her picknof anyone”. But I still never saw it as godly, it just was what it was, human nature. If it was godly I’d have been able to control everything they did, but I could not, I’m sure if I became mean they’d see me very differently, like you mentioned above.
I'm sure it's not 'normal' when every guy seeks your approval and respect and every girl looks at you like you were something else than a human and tries to be close to you, without you making any effort.
Not one single sane person on this planet is going to look at another person like they’re not human, unless they’re incredibly stupid lol.
They're flirting with me with their boyfriends or husbands besides, which aren't even bothered by it.
You seem to have no feelings and no respect for eternity. What i'm talking about aren't just sexual flirts. It's spiritual. Maybe impossible to explain with words.
What exactly are you saying? You think you’re god and are going to live forever? Wow!
No. I'm just aware that there are other dimensions than the material and everyone knows that deep down, even if unaware. If someone embodies these eternal qualities people get pulled to him like a magnet. They don't doubt anything.
Wow! You’re not able to speak for anyone but yourself, to assume you can is madness.
There are physicists who speak about alternate dimensions, they don’t put it down to god, that does not make them wrong and you right. They’re actually the ones with evidence over some unproven (and often disproven) belief.
I’m not trying to be rude and I’m not trying to change your own mind. I’m just highlighting the fact that you’re delusional if you think you can speak for everyone.
If you’re not questioning things and seeking proof you’re blinding yourself. Enough said.
Why are you so bothered by my words? Not that's important to me, but there really must be a reason why you are so butthurt (sry)
Because you’re thinking you know other people that you’ve never even met better than they do. I mean do you honestly not even see how insane that is? Not sure why you presume it’s me that’s butthurt,, I’m happy with my views because there is proof of them. I can understand why you’d suddenly become defensive over beliefs with no proof though and start making things personal, it’s usually always the next step taken by people in that position.
Like I said, I woudnt want to change your view of your own religion, that’s entirely up to you. But it’s definitely smarter to question things, unless you’re in a vulnerable position and you need it to bring you peace for a while. So don’t get it twisted. I’d just be very careful about going to an extreme perspective of really believing you know better than anyone else what they’re not aware of. It could be a sign of mental illness if not careful, that’s all I’m saying.
What views u brought up are proved? U never said anything beyond 'that's all bs, or insane'. U are the defensive one, not me. I can argue over anything when it isn't totally meaningless, unlike you.
You want a proof for God? Sry but you seem to be far away from anything Godly. The proof will maybe come one day or maybe never. If i'd really think i'm God personally, i'd say i'm the proof, but i'don't see me as that special.
Haha okay, whatever you need to make yourself feel better. Go and read any book out there that has some actual evidence! Hurts doesn’t it when your denial is close to being bought to the truth.
If you'd go through life with an open mind you could see it but you're probably too brainwashed.
People and Life is more simple than you seem to think. I question everything, no worries, but there is a point where all questioning must end and only than when you start to rely on trust, you can really start to live.
You know NOTHING about me and yet AGAIN you claim to. The only ignorant one here is YOU. I’ve always been open minded and the reason I’m so sure of my views is BECAUSE I’ve been open minded enough to QUESTION it ALL, not just blindly believing anything that suits my own personal bias (yes we all have a bid but I’ve always tried to rapidly reduce mine! Which is more that can ever be said for religious folk).
You don't even know what an open mind is and that's what i'm refering to. You don't even see that questioning alone leads to nothing. You must truly accept that you don't know anything for sure. That's when your mind truly starts to open. I've told you about deep experiences of perceptions and all you could do was to think i'm listing facts. You are desperate of knowing and that's what makes you blind.
Wow is that what you really think? Yet again demonstrating your basic Ignorance! But this is so pointless because you’re just going around in circles on things I’ve already contemplated and worked out. You do realise that nobody accepts we know everything right? I mean seriously, what a ridiculous comment to make, just because we know certain things (which is what I pointed out) doesn’t mean we know everything, but that’s doesn’t also mean we believe anything blindly! We QUESTION it which is actually the most natural thing to do if intelligent! But I really don’t care what your views are because thhey don’t affect me at all. I just don’t accept anyone believing they know better than other individuals. It’s compleyely IGNORANT to think that way! You see the irony in your comments! Anyway this has become pointless and boring so I’m not reading anymore. You haven’t made any real case from the start, I get that it can be hard to put into words, but it should be clearer than you’ve done if it makes that mush sense to you (no offence).
How do you know that it should be 'clearer' if you haven't experienced it nor consider that it could be? Do you now get how biased you are by your own expactations?
Everything we are saying is our own point of view. When we don't know everything, which you accepted, how can you even consider that what was said was meant as the ultimate truth? You assumed that i think i know it all from the beginning. Hopefully now you see how contradictive and biased you are.
To clarify; i know i'm right but it isn't such a big deal to me. Your problem is that you can't accept when someone can see what you can't see, and that it's still an opinion that maybe can't be improved. You want to have control over everything (besides sexually 😁), but i can tell you that life isn't really controllable. It seems you'll have a hard time to accept it deep down, but eventually you must. You just make it more painful than necessary for yourself. Masochistic tendencies are never healthy.
Yes my boyfriend can understand me but it hard for me to understand him because I have a hard time understanding