My boyfriend won’t stop talking to other girls, what do I do?

[Anonymous]

I’ve been with my boyfriend for about 2 years now and ever since we made 4 months together I found out he had been talking to other girls, like flirting, even pretend to date them and send them pictures of his private parts, and they would send him pictures and videos too, most of them are in different states or countries, and from what I read he has no intention of meeting them, he just likes to talk to girls and get attention, but I think acting like I don’t exist, pretending like he’s dating them and sending all that stuff, that’s not right, even if he hasn’t cheated, not that I know of, so i don’t know what to do about that, please I need advice, i really love him and I’ve tried to leave him so many times but it’s harder, and he keeps promising he’s gonna change but when he does it again then he blames me, because he says I’m crazy and jealous and that makes him wanna talk to other girls, and that he’s gonna change whenever I do, it’s so stupid and hurtful to hear that and I try to give him everything he wants, I try to do everything he wants, sometimes I even waste money I don’t have just to make him happy and this is how he repays me, he doesn’t even waste a dollar for me , I know what most of you are gonna say, and I just need to hear it.

[Clo917]

You break up with him.

I mean, are you okay with him basically sexting other girls? Like, is that something you both agreed was okay? In my book, that's cheating. He's blaming you for his behavior and calling you crazy? Big, big red flags right here. People don't change unless they want to, it doesn't sound like he wants to. Find somebody who makes you happy and who respects you.

[BabyPagan]

To some people that counts as cheating, unless you gave him permission to sext other women then it's cheating. You shouldn't of stayed after you found out. Plus if he's like that to you you should leave

[NightFlirt]

Girl, WTF are you still with him for? Dump his ass.

[Giggletr0n]

Did you get dropped on your head or something? You have to know that this is cheating like behaviour right? 🤨

[Justacatlady]

That is cheating! Just because he hasn’t literally put his penis on those women, he is engaging in sexual conversations sending pics and acting like you don’t exist. Why would you want to be with a dude who you matter so little to?

[AustinMan]

Dump him. You deserve better.

[outside_Toronto]

you put up with it or you dump him