Guys, in your opinion, is it worth having a psycho/crazy girlfriend if she's very beautiful, and why?

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coachTanthony · Accepted Answer

As long as it's temporary... enjoy! Obviously you know she is crazy so don't marry or have kids with her. Just have some fun!

OlderAndWiser · Accepted Answer

For every good looking girl walking down the street, there's a guy somewhere who got tired of putting up with her shit.

SteveSmith1985 · Answer

No... I don't care how good looking sge may be. I want NOTHING to do with a girlfriend like that.

Berethor · Answer

The official statement of many guys is going to be no, but how many guys in real life prefer to go out with a beautiful and crazy girl over a ugly and nice girl? also there is different levels of craziness.

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GoodManDave · Answer

Some dudes love that drama. I am not one of them. I doubt that I would put up with it, as gorgeous as she might be. I would think that unless I was desperate, or unless I was kinda stuck (like she hid it very well until marriage), then it would not be my thing, especially if I could not handle it. Violence, etc. I would say at that level, we’d probably head for divorce after a few years (if that).

There ARE beautiful women who aren’t completely crazy; I don’t know if they’re in my area, but they exist. I know some “genetically unattractive” girls who are crazy, too. It’s just that more men would probably tolerate it if she was great in bed or got them benefits from her looks.

I had a girl I dated who tried to bite me. HARD. Not out of anger, or feast of something, but she was trying to hurt me. It didn’t last long. Her level, she’d have to be a supermodel who was pulling 6-7 figures to make most men want to date her for very long, and she wasn’t; not by a long shot.

Kapakani · Answer

Ok look at this beauty... Katie lee Pritchard... I find her highly attractive... bloody flipping gorgeous yeah?

Guys, in your opinion, is it worth having a psycho/crazy girlfriend if she's very beautiful, and why?

and then there is this...

that's her uh... MUGshot with the great background😓😓... for uh... Squeezing her dudes little fellas (his balls) until they bled because he asked her about a guy she was texting... he simply asked her👀... so no lol.

valentine74 · Answer

I believe that it takes all sorts of people to make my world turn. Currently my girlfriend who has been with me for at least a year even though feels like just yesterday I met her. I'm out there on the fringe of society and so is she only her craziness affects her ability to be nice and cooperative and instead attempt sabotage on grand levels. Dating her has felt like a wrongful arrest she constantly accuses me of wrong doing and I get hot and take it out on the house or some of its contents
Like her biggest move is to drop seductive language involving topics including sexuality and infidelity and she takes breaks away from our home for a couple of days without getting in touch with me but will send me sweet little text messages at 23i am and they will hint at late night rendezvous that never done to light u dont know if she is crazy or just mean

Joel_ · Answer

If your a nice guy like me you will attract psychos. You need to seek girls out. I used to wait until she's a friend then slowly if my interest grew I would ask them out. That plan fails every time, why? When you want someone to like you back, you are at your best behavior. So if you see someone behaving like you or picking up your manerisms. Dont take it as a clue that she's a good candidate to date. Remember chemistry can be manipulated. Wait till you see her character.. it always takes time. Unless you spot her from a distance, yet even still she could be kind to her friends and unkownst to her she's puting up a front. In general relstionships are a complicated so you must know there's always ups and downs. Just dont stay in a toxic relationship long. Give it 1 or 2 chances then run for the hills.

doyouwannadoit · Answer

I have been with very attractive women and some not so attractive, but I can say with certainty that looks only to so far. Yes, it may be the first thing that people who don’t know each other naturally makes them interested, but if it’s a girlfriend you’re looking for think about the percentage when looks don’t come into play. In public, or with family, even watching TV together. If she’s that crazy, then you will not be happy for too long. You will worry how she makes an impression on you when you’re not having sex or out in Public. If she’s level headed, then you will see her beauty from the inside, and guarantee be more attracted to her because you will not have concerns when and if she will go Mental. Personality is number 1 for me. If it’s a one night stand then We will take care of business and not have to see the mental issues she has..

Price511 · Answer

Beauty is everywhere. In the streets when you’re walking through them, the parks you enjoy, the pictures you see, online in videos and forums, in your mind, and in the eye of the beholder.

Having the personality of an angry mother with a slipper 24/7 is going to make me want to get a restraining order (hey that oddly rhymed). I will take an average girl with a wonderful personality than a beautiful girl with an ugly personality.

holograph · Answer

No, of course not. It's nice to look at someone attractive but all of those negative aspects you gave examples of would far outweigh looking good. It's just not worth it. There are so many women out there that why should any man settle on a woman who is jealous/violent? You could be the hottest and richest woman in the world, but you wouldn't be worth a damn to me if that's your personality. I've never hit a girlfriend. I expect the same basic decency in return.

LoU_Hades · Answer

no...
I thought, "why she picked me among so many options that such a girl has? Am I so weak, a perfect victim?"
She lied that she takes the pill and became pregnant. I thought "what for pile trash I'm for her?"
Now I know it was different. I had no chance with some weaknesses and the child was the last desperate attempt to keep me on her side.

Such people destroy/harm themselves and everyone who comes too close to them

FatherJack · Answer

No !! Made that mistake.. and she slashed me with a knife from my kitchen out of the blue , no warning and definitely no provocation !! Needless to say she was ex girlfriend from that second , and swiftly shoved out the door , once I regained composure... and told never to go near or contact me again !!

SirRexington · Answer

I used to be into "crazy chicks". Not anymore. Now they just annoy me.
Though we need to be careful about what we mean when we say psychology issues. Anxiety and depression are not examples of a "crazy chick" and should not be treated a such. Anti social personality disorders however, these are things which you need to worry about. Girls with addictive personality disorder are also nothing but trouble.

yourwildestdream · Answer

i can tell you all about crazy girls from over 25 years with one there so. much fun to be with just dont try to hold on to tight or they will disapear for longer. let them be them. if your in love with her. buddy your in trou ble. she will love you till mor ning comes then vanish into thin air she will be back in a day or 2 so enjoy her crazy love. while she is there. but alw
ays trust your gut and never sleep with both eyes closed and no matter what she's done DO N OT HIT HER this is not easy to do because she has been hit many tjmes by weak men. sbe will take you to the edge but dont hit her if you do get as far Way as you can im talking 100 miles far. because she has a network of guys and 1 knight in shining armour that with her blow of a kiss could be your last breath im telling you this because it almost happend to me if it wernt for my gut feeling id be 6 feet under mohave river sand no bullshit

dtweed96 · Answer

It depends really a crazy girl does a lot like they sometimes try to be what they are not and more. I dated a crazy messed up Italian girl I was set up with awhile back she wasn’t that pretty unless you count special occasions. In my opinion she could of done better

prasanp · Answer

Its simple answer NO. its just not worth it. NO there is no point in ruining one life or own child life. Abusive or violent people are NO. they better get treatment or put inside the prison. that's only place I see for abusive and violent people. Never , no chance in my life.

slatyb · Answer

Depends on what you mean by 'crazy' -- if you mean she disrupts social occasions, then no, it's not worth it.

spartan55 · Answer

Ha, interesting question. There is definitely a sliding hotness/tolerance for crazy scale.
An almost guaranteed truth I've found is that crazy chicks are absolute sluts in bed. And that's a good thing.

mynesterion · Answer

Depends on the definition of psycho. If she's a bit of a drama queen I could probs tolerate as long she tite but if she starts waving a razor sharp hunting knife in my eye then I have to draw the line.

ImagineSketchy · Answer

No, definitely not worth it. Beauty fades with time. If all you are is good looks, what can you do for me when you no longer look the way you once did before? Any of those mentioned issues/problems should be avoided if possible.

jgokgotit · Answer

Not worth it. Beauty age but wisdom (or lack of) remains. Life is full of too much drama and I need either a woman who is on my team or no woman at all.

AlexanderBrunnrgaard · Answer

You know the problem with these incessant questions is that so many of you figure we have to choose one or the other sometimes. We don't. I look for beauty and brains, you don't have one, I don't choose either.

bimmy5000 · Answer

Good god no. You date someone for than looks. If its just for sex leave it that and then go but even then the saying "don't stick your dick/slam your clam on" crazy, EVER.

Jackieboi · Answer

Its worth as long as im just getting sex and avoiding most of her crazyness. But i would never consider it a real relationship, just a temporary thing. Because i dont see any other reason to be with a beautiful girl thats unstable.

Seket · Answer

The best they can do is to be stuck as friends with benefit.

Usernamesrdumb · Answer

Reminds of a few old sayings:

Don't stick your d in crazy.

For every hot girl, there is some guy tired of of f’n her.

The wall is never defeated.

Are you going to want crazy in your old age?

Crazy girls poke holes in condoms.

Nope, not worth it. She has nothing to bring to the table. run very very fast!

OhmIsTyping · Answer

Hell nah. There is plenty of fish in the sea. You don't need someone like that in your life. Instead of only thinking about her, you have to think about you two as a whole

HGStebbins · Answer

Depends on the level of crazy. Also, you're saying girlfriend. That doesn't mean I have to wifey her up. So, why not enjoy something new and see where it goes.

jiffy1971 · Answer

Is says in the bible and Solomon was the author of this saying. "Better to live in the corner of an attic, then to live with a quarrelsome woman" There is wisdom in this statement.

ForteExe · Answer

No amount of beauty is worth the headache of a crazy girlfriend. Girls like that aren't worth my time.

Anonymous · Answer

No, it's not worth it. Not even remotely. I dated a girl who was gorgeous but she was a feminist. She was miserable and she made me miserable. I will never date a feminist again, no matter how physically attractive she is.

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