I catch on pretty quick... sometimes I guess. though the first wife was what I was looking for. 3 kids later I left the (NO JUDGEMENT HERE) hooker and ended up with someone who had actually been a hooker, and thats how the 2nd wife went down the road... boy, this is tough. Not daunted by my age I struck off on an adventure with my 3rd wife, and its been 'bout 24 years. Why am I telling you this? Fair enough. I didn't marry until I was 25. I got the one that did this and that, liked girls as much as I did and was on my leg 24/7/365. We had kids. I grew up. She went that way. She is doing a life sentence in prison in Oklahoma right now. Second one, well she wanted to play house, and not only did she know how to spell blow job, she gave one. Yeah. Suzy fucken homemaker-what it was is neither one of was old enough to be married to each other, still have a place in my heart for her, but 'Baby, she's everything a man could want Beautiful, red hair, blue eyes, she takes care of her self, it was like we were finally back together even though we had never even met before we did. And yes, June Cleaver/Mary Ann&Ginger all rolled up in a hot package. Cook , all those things, the house, and its not an at night thing, she is ready anywhere anytime she gets a notion.
And thats it right there, never settle. Blue balls is way better than child support, never settle. And the right one might be one that both of you move along making your lives together the way you want.
And thats my humble asshole pinion...
I don't know what criteria men use to decide whom to marry. I suppose the reasons can very pretty wildly.
But it's also true that we generally like dirty sex with girls who are into it. Usually, I'd imagine, the girl we marry will also be into it at first. But as girls become more secure in their mutual attachment they tend to revise their opinion on how important sex really is to them. And this can go both ways - demure and prudish girls can suddenly become kinky freaks halfway through a relationship, while sexually eager women can suddenly decide blow jobs aren't her thing halfway through a relationship. This is why it is important to be yourself upfront. Because if a guy wants the kink but the woman he is with changes her mind about it, that will lead to disappointment, resentment, and, ultimately, him becoming open to alternatives.
And this is why some guys chase after the "freaks in the sheets," because despite the social stigmas against promiscuity, they still must like it enough to do it anyway. That's the sort of enthusiasm we are after. We hope to find it in the girls we date, but we have no way of knowing until she stops feeling like she has to put on a show.
Thats an excellent question
I feel a lot of men consider me only because am a safe bet
Most men feel lucky to have anyone at all.
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How to explain this to make sense...
I'd prefer a girl who publicly is nice, modest, smart & moral, but when it's just two of us together in private, then she's the biggest, craziest slut ready for all sorts of action and fantasies & already plenty of her own fantasies in her naughty head.
Obviously I'd never tolerate and/or would date (let alone marry) a girl who's unfaithful, constantly & publicly "gets around" and/or is sexual, as I never cheated myself, nor I do these things in public myself. There's an ocean of difference between everyday's life & private life.
for many of us its false, but there are those who this is very true for... and also there are those who have no intentions of being loyal to and those tend to cheat regardless of whether or not the woman was a safe bet or not
A few men do this - the selfish, self-centered, entitled, player-types, yes. The majority of men do not. If they become dissatisfied with the relationship, and aren't able to fix it, they'll end the relationship, but most won't cheat.
The man who chases two rabbits will catch none and deserve neither.
Change it to women and you're correct.
The reason most guys who cheat don't marry is because divorce is man's worst enemy. By cheating a married man is risking everything.
False. I do want what you call a safe woman and I happen to be very into that type. The freak in the streets thing turns me off completely.
Cheating to me is an incredibly stupid feat, so the answer to the second part is no.
I would not want myself to be going after a woman who has had dozens of partners and been run through more times than the Holland Tunnel
Nowadays I just want a normal girls. majority of women nowadays are weirdos or crazy liberal feminazis. It’s literally hard to find normal women out there
Actually, that's true about women and science has proven this.
ideally. someone who is good or nice in public. yet freaky or "bad girl" exotic in private. but all in one woman.
Some do, but plenty of times guys marry the bad girl.
Not at all. The woman in the picture dates old rich scum bags and drug dealers there is no love or self respect in her life. Men aren't as animal like as we seem.
Marriage is inherently not safe for men. If a man is willing to hand over so much power in his life as to marry you then you are his desire.
It's not women finding out 20% of children are the results of an affair now is it.
Or they marry their favorite, and just have an open polyamorous relationship where nobody sneaks, and just gets to hang out and or fuck whoever they like without sneaking at all.
I don't cheat.
If I had it wouldn't have been with a slut because I married one.
If I did cheat, I would've cheated with any woman who was nice to me.
I didn't get niceness at home.
I like the Good Women out there who will accept me for whom i am.
Nah we marry the safe option because she's a lady in the streets but a freak in the sheets
Facebook is about as accurate as a Fox News survey.
It's pretty unrealistic to assume that all men get that option
I want to know who that is in the photo!!! 🔥🔥🔥 What men need to do is find a woman that's both!!
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