Boyfriend gets mad I didn't answer his 4 missed calls?

[Anonymous]

So i was on the phone with my boyfriend and I left it in my room went straight to the bathroom ofcourse us girls take long in the bathroom cause of our needs
anyways once I got out and went back into my room I got a 4 missed calls from him he didn't pick up until 1 didn't last 8sec so he said finally you answered and I explained to him that
I wasn't feeling good so I went to the bathroom
and he said the bathroom no way good bye and he hung up


I'm just like what the hell can't he just understand that I'm not feeling good

he just gets mad that I didn't answer his 4 missed calls

[wassim97]

Wtf I can’t understand why he reacted like that and if all his reactions like that you should know better like tell him your going to the bathroom or just tale your cell with you i’m not defending him but your his girlfriend he should trust what you tell him and he’s a kid probably 🤷🏼‍♂️

[Asker]

Imma be honest I feel weird taking my phone to the bathroom plus I was feeling I'll

[wassim97]

Yes I understand but this need to be solved it may cause you big problems in the future

[Asker]

I know it does

[Budtwo]

This person would be a pass I get if he's young and immature but u need a line were u put your foot down and say fuck u I needed to X

[Asker]

He has an rebellious attitude 🙄 his parents told me

[Budtwo]

That's not really rebellious that's more of a control freak. Being rebellious would be talking to you one day then not speak to you for no reason the next.

[Asker]

What else can I say should I admit I'm in a relationship with a insecure guy

[Budtwo]

Well if he's insecure that's a bit different, I'm merly sharing my thoughts on ur specific question.

If you like him and want things to improve you need to sit down and talk to him. You are both adults and ur not married to him he has no right to complain about something as silly as not answering the phone.

[Budtwo]

A thought experiment for this.

If you told him you were talking to a male friend about a problem.

A. freak out then make demands (control freak)

B. Wants to meet said male something along those lines (rebel)

C. Asks what your problem is

U should not actually ask him just think about how he would react.( Assuming you now him that well)

[Lavinnykins]

Drop him. Honestly, if he can't understand your basic human needs, he doesn't deserve you in his life. Take it from me; I had an ex-boyfriend just like that but now have the perfect guy that will make sure I'm okay and come to look after me if I don't feel great.

[Hitchhiker42]

That’s kinda a red flag, hon. Calling over and over, not trusting you, getting upset like that- not good 🙁

[Asker]

Its not good at all

[Lutessa]

He's just being insecure and it's no good

[Asker]

The only cure is me to make him feel not that insecure and stressed his parents said