My long distance boyfriend blocked me and disappeared?

[peekatchu]

I was competely heart broken after finding out that my long distance boyfriend of 6 months blocked me of all social media. The start of our relationship was great, we talked daily and he did everything for me. He promised me so many things and he said that he loved me the most of all the people in the world and that there couldnt be anything that would change that. He even said that he thought that I would become his wife later.
We were planning to meet for the first time this summer, after our exams ended.
1,5 months ago, we both agreeded to talk less so we could concentrate on our exams. My exams ended after 3 weeks already and I had a really difficult time waiting for his exams to end. I was going through a lot at that moment, but I tried to leave him alone so he could study, I didn't want to be the needy, demaning girlfriend. So I beared my pain and waited for him patienty. I only send him good luck messages once in a while, so he knew i was there. He barely replied to them. Which makes me really mad now. What guy can't make 5 minutes a day free for his gf?
Friday I messaged him saying that I've missed him and that im happy he will be back. At 4 am, he send me a message saying 'sorry im gonna have to break up with you i dont love you anymore and I can't lie so sorry please dont message me ever again im really sorry i hope you understand'. And that's it. No explanation, no closure.. just a sorry and a block.. I dont know what to do anymore. A part of me hopes that he will come back and tells me I have to wait, a part of me think that maybe he is depressed, a part of me think he met someone else. I can't move on because I have no answers and no closure.. Does anyone understand his behaviour? He can't cope well with stress and got a little depressed before during mock exams.. And what should I do now? I have no idea and Im just so broken, everything in my life is going awful.

[radagast]

I can't say I understand his behaviour at all but that sounds vaguely similar to a situation I was in. And most people will tell you to just let it go and move on, but I couldn't do that because my ex left me with barely any answers at all. If you're anything like me, you won't move on without answers cause it doesn't seem final until you get answers, so you'll still be hanging onto this boy for months and months down the line. I suggest you go and get answers from him because you deserve some. The way he has treated you is not fair and it's not right and if he had an ounce of decency in him he'd already have given you answers, but assuming that he won't, i suggest you go and find them yourself cause trust me haha, i'm two years down the line and still struggling to understand what the fuck went on. I hope you get the closure you need, no one should ever have to go through that x

[peekatchu]

Im sorry to hear that.. and I think that we're pretty similar with that :( I feel so confused and I got so many unanswered questions.. I can't even imagine moving on at this point. This is the worst possible way to break up with someone, it's heartless. I have no idea how to get in touch with him since he blocked me EVERYWHERE. I even made a new Skype account and added him, haven't gotten anything back yet and I dont think I will.. Sometimes, we have to learn to life with the questions we never got an answer on and move on. I hope that both of us will be able to do so.

[thegraywizard]

yeah, happened the same for me. He didn't even say he broke up, just blocked me everywhere. everyone say i just have to move on but it is not for me. cuz i am really in love and do not want to move on. Still holding on to hope i know he will come back. wish you both get your true lovers back because long distance is not forever, try to meet them in real.

[Ярило]

Catfish, you should seriously think about doing the show. I'm sure they'd take your story. It's really hard to tell what his motivations are through the Internet though. It could be a number of things, he was playing you, he's pretending to be someone else, he found another girlfriend, the list could go on.
I would try my hardest to move on. There's no point dwelling on it because all it's going to do is make you feel bad. I would also try to find someone to talk to about how you're feeling. It's bad to keep emotions inside and not speak about them because it may lead to depression.

[peekatchu]

noo he is real.. we video called several times. but still thanks for your advice. I guess I have to move on, even without real closure.

[Ярило]

it would be hard to get closure from a situation like this, and I'm sure if you did get it , it wouldn't make you any happier. Whatever reason this guy had for just dropping you all of a sudden can't be good.

[Navier-Stokes]

Well... You met online. You weren't really dating. He probably met someone in flesh. Don't take online relationships too seriously.
You should concentrate on school and other activities. Find yourself new online friends but don't get too attached... Concentrate on your real friends for a while.

[sexyphil]

Sounds like he's found someone else babes.. Just draw a line under it and move on...

[MrDetermined]

He most likely found someone else.