only once. He was my friend from college... he was so nice and sweet... just never said anything but neither did I... but we really didn’t have to. He ended up transferring to a school back home...
oh yeah, we were both from the same state in an out of state school. Both from Indiana going to school in Montana.
I haven’t seen him since and he never texts so it’s probably over. And I wish I still had him as my friend. I think we woulda been a good team. Ohh well
Ohhh yeah I have a gay friend that I've been the closest with since freshman year. At homecoming junior year he slow danced with me and during that 4 minute dance, I realized I had feelings for him, it was crushing cause ya know He's gay But I got over it and was able to hang out with him again without feeling awkward after a couple months
Yeah... I was friends with a girl for a year... we ended up becoming best friends. A few months after that I realised I had feelings for her and a few months on after that, I dropped hints that I liked her. We got together a few weeks later and were in a relationship for 3 years.
I think I am developing feelings for a friend currently... But i've friendzoned him before so based on this question I guess it doesn't count lol. I don't know if i'm gonna tell him or not as i'm not 100% sure yet but I don't want to lose him to someone else and I can't commit to anyone else because they're not him. So it's not easy
Yes, our situation got complicated and now we haven’t said a word to each other or had any communication with each other in close to 2 years, nor do I really want to at this point. Sad? Yes, but I think it’s better for me this way
I had moments where I wished my best friend wasn't gay, they soon pass though coz I know that I'd go crazy if we dated since he's very high energy and I'm more calm.
Friendzoned usually means one likes the other but the feelings are not returned. In this case, I'm asking of something that developed out of a friendship.
Yeah i do that all the time... once you figure out that you get along better in a relationship with someone you already like hanging out with you'll be trying to go to pound town with all your. Homeboys to
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only once. He was my friend from college... he was so nice and sweet... just never said anything but neither did I... but we really didn’t have to. He ended up transferring to a school back home...
oh yeah, we were both from the same state in an out of state school. Both from Indiana going to school in Montana.
I haven’t seen him since and he never texts so it’s probably over. And I wish I still had him as my friend. I think we woulda been a good team. Ohh well
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Ohhh yeah I have a gay friend that I've been the closest with since freshman year. At homecoming junior year he slow danced with me and during that 4 minute dance, I realized I had feelings for him, it was crushing cause ya know
He's gay
But I got over it and was able to hang out with him again without feeling awkward after a couple months
Yeah... I was friends with a girl for a year... we ended up becoming best friends. A few months after that I realised I had feelings for her and a few months on after that, I dropped hints that I liked her. We got together a few weeks later and were in a relationship for 3 years.
Yup. Stupidest thing I ever did. Won't make that mistake ever again.
What happened?
We are no longer friends as a result. In so many words, my expressing that, broke her heart... those were her words. I'm over it
A few times, but it never worked out because it wasn't reciprocated by her. I was 'friendzoned' and 'too nice'.
In my adult life, I've never developed feelings for a friend. In my youth I did.
I had a friend develop feelings for me. It was heartbreaking.
Yep and it was a doozy after she didn't reciprocate the same feelings. Still getting over it.
Are you still friends?
No. From the way it all went down, there is no chance of us being friends later either. Lots of stress and miscommunication.
I have before, but it’s never love, only infatuation. So when it didn’t pan out, I got over it.
In surprised to hear that. I'd have though infatuation would come from someone who wasn't a friend.
It can come from anywhere at anytime for anyone. The key is to not let emotions control you.
I think I am developing feelings for a friend currently... But i've friendzoned him before so based on this question I guess it doesn't count lol. I don't know if i'm gonna tell him or not as i'm not 100% sure yet but I don't want to lose him to someone else and I can't commit to anyone else because they're not him. So it's not easy
Go tell him how you feel... Life's too short to not go for what you want!! X
Yes, our situation got complicated and now we haven’t said a word to each other or had any communication with each other in close to 2 years, nor do I really want to at this point. Sad? Yes, but I think it’s better for me this way
Romantic feelings, no, attracted to them, absolutely.
Yes. Most of my relationships started out this way.
I had moments where I wished my best friend wasn't gay, they soon pass though coz I know that I'd go crazy if we dated since he's very high energy and I'm more calm.
What do you mean with the details? Because she's friendzoned, she can't be a friend?
Friendzoned usually means one likes the other but the feelings are not returned.
In this case, I'm asking of something that developed out of a friendship.
Oh, ok. Then my point is gone ;)
Yeah i do that all the time... once you figure out that you get along better in a relationship with someone you already like hanging out with you'll be trying to go to pound town with all your. Homeboys to
Thankfully not. I wouldn't know how to handle this...
I'd like to have a friend that I considered to be that close with
I haven't, but I have had friends get crushes on me. It is awful because you like them... but not that much.
No, but I've chosen to BE friends with someone I knew I was attracted to right off the bat, because of circumstances :) :-D
Yeah. With girls I was friends with before puberty. But it took awhile because my brain had them stuck in the friend category for several years.