wanted because the person pick me and wants to be around me needed sounds like they will just use me for the time and when i'm not needed anymore they will just kick me aside like trash
Id rather someone want me. You know why? Because what we need isn't always what we desire. What we need can change. What we need is something that be exchanged snd ditched.
If someone wsnts you, theu don't have to have you but chose to anyway. Because you were important enough and intriguing enough to be picked.
Wanted. Being in situations where I was needed worked out from obtaining knowledge but didn't produce results I wanted. If that makes sense. Want is a choice. Need is an agenda.
I prefer being wanted. For a guy.. It feels to good to be chosen too.
But this love thang can be tricky with time and voila the need to be around your SO magically appears. the need to tell her how your day went. The need to make sure everything is secure financially. The need to build a family and a future etc..
I'd much rather be wanted instead of needed. I'm already needed by my brother that is physically handicapped. So, if I can find a girl that wants to spend time with me and understands that my family needs me, that would be an ideal situation for my life
Needed. My ultimate goal in life is to have a big and successful family. So i need a great woman to achieve my goals. I hope to find a woman who needs a man like me to achieve the same goals as well.
Wanting is stupid. I want every cute girl i see and girls are just as thirsty. That never works. Unless you can offer me more the second you are annoying or not as pretty if you dont have more to offer ill want someone else. Lol.
Lmao see i said that on a few posts that want is temporary because once they lose attraction theyre gone 😂 but at the same time need can look like desperation after a while
Wanted. I feel like being wanted comes from a place of feelings and emotions... I feel like being needed stems from obligation, necessity or desperation.
Definitely wanted. If I don't feel like you want me, then it's almost like what's the point. I don't need to be needed. I don't like needy mfs. But you gotta want me.
Gosh that's hard /= I've been needed by people over the years but it's been a long time since I've been wanted by someone so right now I'll go with that one.
Yeah I mean obviously in an ideal relationship you and your partner will both want and need each other at least a little bit for varying reasons even if it's just doing the dishes because she's to lazy or he just doesn't wanna.
But in regards to either feeling in general I think both are temporary like you were saying but I'd still rather be wanted, I haven't been wanted by a woman in at least 8 years /=, I can't even recall what it feels like.
I'd rather be wanted. Anyone can need you for something. Your truck, house, money, sex, whatever. But wanting you means you have value beyond what you can provide.
I rather be needed because lust fades but a lifelong companion cannot ever be replaced. Even if there is a breakup or separation, we will always get back together and be there for each other. 😊
I don't know, happing to need someone is dependent. Wanting someone is u do want them in your life (romantically long-term speaking) but you're not gonna make it seem like you can't let them go?
I would want to be wanted due to the fact that it's a desire and not a need. If you are needed then at one point you may not be needed anymore which ends the relationship. Just my thoughts.
Very true but if that is the case the relationship would not last very long and another one would be in line. Needy would catchup and stress me out personally. Maybe a balance of both is what is key.
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wanted because the person pick me and wants to be around me needed sounds like they will just use me for the time and when i'm not needed anymore they will just kick me aside like trash
Glad someone else saw need as being used
so true @DizzyDesii
what got removed @DizzyDesii
My post about kissing
@DizzyDesii so sorry
Id rather someone want me. You know why? Because what we need isn't always what we desire. What we need can change. What we need is something that be exchanged snd ditched.
If someone wsnts you, theu don't have to have you but chose to anyway. Because you were important enough and intriguing enough to be picked.
Great point
Wanted. Being in situations where I was needed worked out from obtaining knowledge but didn't produce results I wanted. If that makes sense. Want is a choice. Need is an agenda.
So true i like
I love to feel needed. When they need you. You know your wanted
Oooh that makes sense
That comes from me being one of the cool kids at the GAG lunch table
I prefer being wanted. For a guy.. It feels to good to be chosen too.
But this love thang can be tricky with time and voila the need to be around your SO magically appears. the need to tell her how your day went. The need to make sure everything is secure financially. The need to build a family and a future etc..
Ooooh good points
Women need men.
Men need women.
Out of all the needed people I'd want to have 1 person want me. To choose me.
Love this
Wanted in the beginning which eventually evolves into being needed. Which I am fine with.
Yea thats what i want
That’s the path I prefer. ;)
I'd much rather be wanted instead of needed. I'm already needed by my brother that is physically handicapped. So, if I can find a girl that wants to spend time with me and understands that my family needs me, that would be an ideal situation for my life
Needed. My ultimate goal in life is to have a big and successful family. So i need a great woman to achieve my goals. I hope to find a woman who needs a man like me to achieve the same goals as well.
Wanting is stupid. I want every cute girl i see and girls are just as thirsty. That never works. Unless you can offer me more the second you are annoying or not as pretty if you dont have more to offer ill want someone else. Lol.
Lmao see i said that on a few posts that want is temporary because once they lose attraction theyre gone 😂 but at the same time need can look like desperation after a while
Well there is "need" and "feel like you need" which are not the same things. You're talking about the second one.
Wanted. I feel like being wanted comes from a place of feelings and emotions... I feel like being needed stems from obligation, necessity or desperation.
Very true but both are temporary feels
I think I’m most cases it can be, if it’s based on sexual desires. Being wanted doesn’t always have a sexual connotation.
I would rather be with someone who wants me. Needing implies codependency and nobody got time for that
Lmao
Definitely wanted. If I don't feel like you want me, then it's almost like what's the point. I don't need to be needed. I don't like needy mfs. But you gotta want me.
Thats so true
i'd rather be wanted than needed. i want that person to be able to live without me just in case we split up
Yea a healthy relationship
Gosh that's hard /= I've been needed by people over the years but it's been a long time since I've been wanted by someone so right now I'll go with that one.
Yes thats what i was saying
Yeah I mean obviously in an ideal relationship you and your partner will both want and need each other at least a little bit for varying reasons even if it's just doing the dishes because she's to lazy or he just doesn't wanna.
But in regards to either feeling in general I think both are temporary like you were saying but I'd still rather be wanted, I haven't been wanted by a woman in at least 8 years /=, I can't even recall what it feels like.
I'd rather be wanted. Anyone can need you for something. Your truck, house, money, sex, whatever. But wanting you means you have value beyond what you can provide.
Wanted. It's sustainable and not extreme. Being needed I experienced last year in Texas and I know I don't want that sort of desperation.
Lmao
Wanted, if someone needs me, it makes me think they would cast me aside as soon as they don't need me anymore
Same goes for when they stop wanting/lusting over you too
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That is a very good point...
I rather be needed because lust fades but a lifelong companion cannot ever be replaced. Even if there is a breakup or separation, we will always get back together and be there for each other. 😊
Yea i said lust fades too but so does need when they dont need something from you anymore
I don't know, happing to need someone is dependent. Wanting someone is u do want them in your life (romantically long-term speaking) but you're not gonna make it seem like you can't let them go?
Very true
I would want to be wanted due to the fact that it's a desire and not a need. If you are needed then at one point you may not be needed anymore which ends the relationship. Just my thoughts.
Want is like lust tho. You can be dropped real quick
Very true but if that is the case the relationship would not last very long and another one would be in line.
Needy would catchup and stress me out personally.
Maybe a balance of both is what is key.
Lmao u sound just like me 😂 NEXT IN LINE