Would you rather be wanted or needed? And why? (Page 2)

[LovelyLolatheBirch]

I still not sure. I all I get from it nothing. I just want more cats & dogs. I prefer People that have animal. yet people always fucking shit without a pet or animal

[Antelope]

Wanted. I want to improve lives, but still want people to function independently. Just shows how much they love me when they come back, despite not needing me

[bklynbadboy1]

I'd rather be wanted cause you'll always be wanted but if your needed once the need is over then so is you purpose for being here

[DizzyDesii]

Ooooh shit true. But can't same go for want. Theyre lusting over what they see. Moment u look fucked up they still may leave

[bklynbadboy1]

Nah it dont work that way atlest not with me

[DizzyDesii]

Just read around on some opinions to understand both takes

[ariadneR]

But what if the need is always there?

[DizzyDesii]

@ariadneR for example if they need your kidney... once they get it, they dont need you anymore

[ariadneR]

True. But then it just goes to show you what ashitty person they are if they throw you away just like that.
I can't help it I guess. My heart is big

[DizzyDesii]

@ariadneR need often made me feel used in the end. Want made me feel temporary but shit half of them was replaced with something better so we even

[ariadneR]

That's the way babe. Move on to something bigger and better. In the literal sense too. 😂😂

[DizzyDesii]

@ariadneR 😂 I don't know why but my dicks came in patterns lol. They kept shifting from big to small

[ariadneR]

Dont worry, you'll find the perfect fit. 😂

[DizzyDesii]

@ariadneR damn that sound hot 😂 i want a 6. That would be perf.

[ariadneR]

You'll find it. Itll be like shit, you were made just for me

Sorry @bklynbadboy1, I'm nasty, sometimes it just comes out 😊😏😏

[Tomsta]

Wanted. Needed seems way to clingy and tweeny

I dont have time to deal with someone who needs constant validation. Validate yourself

[lernulo]

I prefer to be wanted that being needed.
Sorry for Ema but I don't want a toxic relation based on need.

[Usernamesrdumb]

In society, men are needed, not wanted. Be nice to have that switched around.

[DizzyDesii]

But when we're wanted and you get what you want then we dont feel as wanted anymore

[Usernamesrdumb]

Im speaking to more men being disposable or cannon fodder to society. I think you are talking about sex in a heterosexual relationship.

[OddBeMe]

Wanted. Needed implies I would have to manage or constantly help the person.

[DizzyDesii]

Very true

[notshyguy1985]

No one should need anyone I think. Want seems more voluntary and loving.

[DizzyDesii]

Voluntary and loving but temporary

[notshyguy1985]

why do you assume that a want is a short term thing? I have wanted candy since I was a baby and still want it.

[Mystery_World]

To be wanted... "I want you to be mine forever" is way better than "I need your help"

[DizzyDesii]

Thats true

[ivbnlknfru]

Be needed is absolute, wanting is optional... i I rather be needed... 😁

[DizzyDesii]

But look at it this way. You need medicine to be cured. Once cured you dont need it anymore. So both seem temporary

[ivbnlknfru]

Yes but being needed is also being wanted, I want you I need you its really all in perspective and interpretation. I want is a desire, just as need is a stronger desire. The real question is can I absolutely have you...😁

[EricCartman88]

I'd rather be wanted of course cause their are many reasons to need someone but if you are wanted they actually like you

[DizzyDesii]

Thats true

[The_man_whol_aughs]

Seen how relationships and friendships in my School went

I prefer neither no human beings is worth more than my family ( who both want me and need me )

The rest all can burn in hell

[VisibleMan]

Change my mind I rather be wanted and asked for not a tool like I usually am

[Exorcist_Rampage]

I rather be needed. That way, people can receive help that they need and I like to help if I can.

[Darcia]

If the relationship consisted of helping the spouse because he is unable to do why not lend a hand. Stand point of looking at today’s world you see lots of women who choose needed over wanted. Some are army wives, stay at home wives, ill husbands, and the list goes on.

[the_sinner]

I'd rather be wanted.
There's a warm feeling when you're wanted.

[DizzyDesii]

So is need a cold feeling

[the_sinner]

Only when you're needed just for the completion of a work or just to serve a purpose or when you're a second option.

[DizzyDesii]

Very true

[AkshiJanjua]

i want both
be wanted by her every second
and be needed every moment

[DizzyDesii]

Haha yes but choose one

[AkshiJanjua]

no that's unfair 😁

[iFarted]

Wanted, mainly cause needed seems like a burden. :x

[rajesh_leo]

Not sure after seeing so many betrayals and changing relationships. I just want to be happy 🙂

[blackxbarbiex01]

This quote came from Nanny McPhee or how ever u spell it

[PondyPand]

Needed. Want can change

[DizzyDesii]

Both can. Once they get what they need, they dont need you anymore

[PondyPand]

Depends on the need. You need water but can't have it once🤷 recurring need

[cicchis0]

Wanted! Being needed is a chore.

[ShowOff11]

When someone loves you they'll be both

[DizzyDesii]

Choose one in this case

[ShowOff11]

I'd rather be wanted

[Pink2000]

I’d rather be needed.

[DizzyDesii]

I mean it does feel kinda good when they say i’d die without you

[Pink2000]

My boyfriend really would die without me.

[bklynbadboy1]

So you dont want him to want you

[Pink2000]

@bklynbadboy1 needing is better than wanting. You can want someone for a little bit but then once you get em you don’t want em no more.

[bklynbadboy1]

True but that's not the case all the time

[DizzyDesii]

@bklynbadboy1 lol look around at all these opinions. They gone throw our ass away when they no longer want nor need us 😂 both suck

[producer]

needed, because I demand respect

[DizzyDesii]

Ooooo i like

[producer]

Yeah, I rather respect than wants.

You know people won't take you seriously if they want you, but if they need you, theyll take you seriously

[Jamie05rhs]

What's the difference?

[DizzyDesii]

Thats what im tryna figure out

[Jamie05rhs]

Okay, so that makes two of us, then.

[PinkCats]

Wanted is preferable needed reeks of desperation

[Agem123]

I'm wanted, so I'd like to be more needed.

[DizzyDesii]

I feel you on that

[Angelemonettt]

Wanted is more special

[DizzyDesii]

True

[daanzaan]

Neither. I'd rather be loved

[livingthelife19]

Wanted for sure

[DizzyDesii]

Whys that

[Nikki1989]

I'd rather be wanted

[DizzyDesii]

Same but why

[Jack_tyler]

Wanted is based on lust and need is based on love

[DizzyDesii]

I was thinking want is lust and need is like being used to an extent

[Jack_tyler]

Yeah

[ALewis30]

I like to be wanted and needed.

[Lemia]

Both

[DizzyDesii]

Choose one in this case

[Lemia]

Do i have too

[Anonymous]

I would take either rn

[dman2796]

Wanted... neediness is often met with obligation.

[ariadneR]

I'd rather be needed

[DizzyDesii]

Whys that

[ariadneR]

The person would already be self sufficient and I would give them something that they dont get anywhere else. It doesn't have to be purely sexual, it could just be someone needing a friend

[aziz222]

Both really.

[DizzyDesii]

Choose one in this case

[aziz222]

Wanted. At end of day u may also not need that person anymore but still want same time yeah it could be also needed but uhh this hard I guess wanted for sure currently I wanna be wanted.

[CaptainLegal]

Needed I guess

[DizzyDesii]

Whys that

[CaptainLegal]

Because they may want you now but in the future they may want another. When they need you, it means you fill their heart with love and happiness. Needing someone is more passionate than wanting someone. When we were kids we wanted stuff that we didn't really needed and we realized that when we got older but when we needed something and we got it, we almost never regretted it.

[CaptainLegal]

A baby for example doesn't want his/her mother's love he/she needs it.

[CaptainLegal]

Just because you want something in life doesn't mean you will get it. That thing you may want, may not help you at all.

[DizzyDesii]

I feel both are temporary. Once that need is fulfilled you’re still gone

[Blue_Rain]

Both

[Pejtu]

BOTH

[Mehzmeh]

Wanted.

[DizzyDesii]

Whys that

[Mehzmeh]

Because I, would rather not people need me. Because once that need is gone. What's left? But, if I there is no way they would ever want to be with out me. Dig?

[DizzyDesii]

Not true. I want people all the time. I can easily not want them no more if i lose attraction

[Mehzmeh]

I guess.

[Jaredthejedi06]

Wanted

[DizzyDesii]

Whyy

[Jaredthejedi06]

If you’re wanted you get the feeling that someone actually likes you more for you

[Orangeandturquoise]

Wanted :)

[Slim57]

Needed

[DizzyDesii]

Whys that

[Slim57]

Wanted stays and goes, needed means they really truly feel like they can't live without you and if the loves not like that I don't want it.

[DizzyDesii]

I mean i like this explanation but everyone feels fulfilled after a while. So both are temporary. After they get what they needed then they may not have any more use for you

[Slim57]

I disagree I never lost it for my ex and don't think I ever would with whoever I fell in love with next

[DizzyDesii]

Thats beautiful

[Slim57]

Yeah but that'll be the hardest thing in my life to ever put myself out there again

[Nishikigawa1]

Wanted

[bananathunder]

wanted alllll day...

[dragoblack]

Both

[JustforLaughs1]

A little of both.

[Anonymous]

Both