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POLL: Do you care more about desiring someone or being desired by someone?
i wanna be loved and usually the indicator of lovinh someone is you are fond of them. i know i'm big and unproductive but if even my immature moments you don't like it or you keep findinh someone who is better like i'm too short, thihs too big you are not contented you wanna me so bad because even how i talk you wanna change it just goes to show that your heart is not with me (i'm not referrinh to you as you asker but as a general expression)
i feel like i'm a pokemon
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Both is very important for a healthy relationship, that's why ı care both
Most people in the world (want) to be liked/desired. It's human nature.
Where the problem lies is when people start equating their self-esteem/worth with how many people or how often they get positive attention.
At that point it becomes almost like a drug to some. They'll crave it more and more, and instead of having (physical) withdrawal symptoms when they don't get it often enough, they'll have mental ones like depression.
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I am more concerned about being desirable to someone.
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Well people that desire you but you don't desire isn't worth much, desire someone who doesn't like you isn't better so it needs to be both.
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What does it feel like , to have someone desire you? .. Sounds nice in paper.
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Care EQUALLY about desiring someone as them desiring me
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I care about both I don't want to desire some and they could care less whether I want them or not
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Well I CAN'T desire her unless she desires me so...
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Being desired.
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You need both.
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Both work perfectly
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I think caring equally would be best.
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Reciprocal
- 408 opinions shared on Relationships topic.
Equal.
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Being desired.
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Voted B
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Balance of both
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Equal
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