POLL: Do you care more about desiring someone or being desired by someone?

[Anonymous]

Care MORE about desiring someone

Care EQUALLY about desiring someone as them desiring me

Care MORE about being desired

[sheenagwapa]

i wanna be loved and usually the indicator of lovinh someone is you are fond of them. i know i'm big and unproductive but if even my immature moments you don't like it or you keep findinh someone who is better like i'm too short, thihs too big you are not contented you wanna me so bad because even how i talk you wanna change it just goes to show that your heart is not with me (i'm not referrinh to you as you asker but as a general expression)


i feel like i'm a pokemon

[begum01]

Both is very important for a healthy relationship, that's why ı care both

[lbigtonyl]

Most people in the world (want) to be liked/desired. It's human nature.

Where the problem lies is when people start equating their self-esteem/worth with how many people or how often they get positive attention.

At that point it becomes almost like a drug to some. They'll crave it more and more, and instead of having (physical) withdrawal symptoms when they don't get it often enough, they'll have mental ones like depression.

[Asker]

Yes it's called "cowardice" lol.

[Asker]

Probably more true with women it seems, but I could be wrong.

[Asker]

You want to give attention as much as you want to receive it. 50/50

[Guy13]

I am more concerned about being desirable to someone.

[Adam1978]

Well people that desire you but you don't desire isn't worth much, desire someone who doesn't like you isn't better so it needs to be both.

[Paul09]

What does it feel like , to have someone desire you? .. Sounds nice in paper.

[Asker]

Huh?

[Asker]

You're wanted? Duh 🙄. Someone likes you and/or lives you and wants to be with you

[Asker]

*loves

[Paul09]

I was being sarcastic. Because I've never been in love. And "what is love" is a classic song.

[humanearth]

Care EQUALLY about desiring someone as them desiring me

[Bklynbadboy12]

I care about both I don't want to desire some and they could care less whether I want them or not

[Anonymous]

Well I CAN'T desire her unless she desires me so...

[SnowedIn]

Being desired.

[Nikki1989]

You need both.

[Iron_Man]

Both work perfectly

[Wise4myage]

I think caring equally would be best.

[Guccigabbana18]

Reciprocal

[Dinklex3]

Equal.

[Akam93]

Being desired.

[LavLavLuv]

Voted B

[In_Trance]

Balance of both

[halfroots]

Equal