Do you like being wanted more from someone you like or needed?

[Still-alive]

The way i like to differentiate between want vs need of someone you like is that when you need someone and they turn you down it hurts more because the thought of being with them feels like its a destined sure thing

where as if you want someone and they turn you down its more like an ‘eh its cool. Though i want to be with them im not upset or hurt by them not wanting me back’

anyways maybe you have different ways of defining them but this is my way. So what do you prefer? Someone who needs you? Or someone who wants you in a romantic sense?

more good definitions in my opinion

I like feeling needed more by someone whos into me

I like feeling wanted by someone who is into more

I like feeling needed and wanted by someone whos into me equally

[Rosexøxø]

Before, I’d say needed, but how I am currently in life- I’d want us to both want each other.

I know we can’t be together forever, and we can’t be together daily, so I wouldn’t want them to be sad or dysfunctional without me.

I want us to enjoy every minute- be each other’s favorite person, and when we’re not by ourselves, we’re with each other, and whenever we’re with others, it’s never the same as when we are together.

A want that doesn’t change is what I’d like.

I’d never want it to be a need. Even people who always feel in need, are unstable. I want us to be at peace, and just have the best moments in life all the way.

[Rosexøxø]

Voted B 🫂

[menina]

I like both equally. But sometimes it depends on the person and on the situation.

[Zolly99999]

I absolutely would rather feel wanted over needed. Being needed means it's not really a choice..

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

I like feeling needed and wanted by someone whos into me equally

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Thanks for MHO :)

[letuswaltzforthedead]

I would pick needed, it would depends on the situation but romantically, needed.

[snackthatsmilesback]

Being needed too much reminds me of past shit. I like wanted. It's stabler. Nicer.

[llorando]

I like feeling needed and wanted by someone whos into me equally.

[Dinosaursandanime65]

Whatever I’m meant to be