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First off this is a red flag!! Either he is leading his ex on as if she has a future with him. Or, he is leading YOU on as if you have a future with him. It’s best you just get out of this situation because any guy that REALLY wants you will not put you in this situation just saying!!!
Maybe he just dont want you to know about his past with her. And if you are not comfortable with that tell him that but i advice that please dont dig the past. Enjoy present and hope for a better future
That’s a different opinion. Thank you
He's not being true to any relationship, friends or not. The only thing I see that is fair is he hid you from her when they were together. If that's the extent of his respect for his friends and girlfriends, it's up to you to decide to stay and take it, or drop everything. I don't think it's a good idea to be friends with his type on any level. He can't be trusted.
If I left a girl for another, I wouldn't hide it from the ex; but I wouldn't parade her in front of the ex either. There would be no point to that. I'd simply and clearly let the ex know that I'd found a new love in my life and that our romantic relationship was over.
Wow. Screw that guy. He is stringing you while he reconnected with his ex. I would Never hide my girlfriend from any of my exs. Nit that i hang out with any of them anyway. Thats just wrong...
That is wrong, he has reservations with her, it seems. Cause he should t b keeping u a secret. I would have a serious conversation with him about it.
We are long distance for now. Should i wait to meet face to face i think it will be more effective or talk on phone
Face-to-face can b more efficient. U can see his reactions to the questions. I believe face to face is better. But if u feel u need to talk about it right now I would call him
Guys shouldn't be close friends with girls when in committed relationships. It will only cause confusion, jealousy, and problems in general. Be honest with how you feel and go from there. Anything beyond that is out of your control.
We will be long distance for a month. Should i open up this on phone or wait for meeting face to face? The latter would be more effective in my opinion but its hard to bury your feelings for a month
I'd say go face to face and press the issue in the most honest way possible. Don't be angry when talking about it. However, don't back down from the question. Express more than just your feelings. Tell him what you expect out of the relationship from a factual and logical point. It's less about feeling and more about what you both want/need from the relationship. If those wants and needs don't line up, then it's best to find someone who's goals align with yours.
Hmmm being a man i would yell you something you should always know. Since the world is made, man's desire is got have as many women as he can. There is no logic of being friends after brakeup... It is just a safe access to friends with benefits... In short if he is your boyfriend then you must the the moat important perst to him than his so called friend that was some time back his girlfriend.
I think that he is disrespecting you and this isn't right because you should be his priority.
I think that he is still in love with her and he is using you while he waits that girl to come back to him
Get rid of him because a man knows how to treat a lady right so obviously he is not a man. He cares more about hos ex than you since he hides you from her and seems to spend more time with her. Once again get rid of him.
He is putting her feelings before yours, why did they break up?
Because she was ”close” with other guys, how ironic...
What incredible irony! So he broke up with her?
Yes he broke up with her. people on here say he stil has feeling for her but there’s nothing keeping him from going back to her. Also he can't give her up its weird
Do you think he has feelings for her?
he loves her for sure, but I doubt it is romantic
But I don’t know her feelings. This makes me uncomfortable she is sneaky and acts coquettish. He always defends her whenever i talk about my feelings about her. He just doesn’t see it
That wouldn't work for me
I feel sorry for you. Speak to him and be honest about your feeling.
Just keep in mind most of modern relationships looks like yours. It is a culture now and I know some people who do same and I am puzzled
Do you think it is acceptable and normal? Am I crazy for feeling worried, because he makes me feel so
This is not normal. What I said it is the norm in modern dating is what your boyfriend doing does not make it right.
Well tell to his ex you got a boyfriend and he is who he is, period.
I don't want to be rude or make a judgement, but since fuckboys are the one who got almost women and play with them at the same time. This is not their fault though since women are attracted to fuckboys. Do you think he is one?
He told me he used to be. But now he is looking for “love” and “something serious”. He used to make me feel so loved last year but he is going through some emotional issues and he refuses therapy. He made me emotionally unstable too. He can’t write off people even though he speaks behind them. I try to be understanding but sometimes it is hard to put up withz he likes being social and he is the definion of extravert. He should learn boundaries
It is good that you suggested him psychology help and he must accept it for a better life.
Speak to him that if you are in serious relationship then you are and everyone can knows without any problem.
I can tell you some people stay in in intimate contact with their ex for a reason which could be physical, emotional or material benifits
Thank you
Also another advices, fuckboys change hardly and obviously women are Into them because they are a challenge. Don't take it as a discourage as he could be a good person.
Dear Eira99 you already know what you want to do I can feel the intensity in your writings you have already decided so follow your heart and take the step!!!
he should just tell her he has moved on... if he refuses too then maybe you should move on because its clear he is hiding something from you
I don't think he is trustworthy, there are different ways in which he can tell his ex without hurting her emotion. if he is concerned with his ex emotion then he should 10 times more concerned about your emotion
This Dude is a snake.. and you're the backburner girl.. NOBODY WOULD BE OK WITH THAT..
I wish I could go smack em up for ya.
if your man loyal to you then just ask him to show his loyalty by confronting his frnd head on and let him choose whether he wanys to be with his ex or you let him take the final decision and you'll know what he really thinks about u
He should not hide you from his ex unless he is still interested in her
I agree
Your boyfriend isn’t a high quality man. You deserve someone who k ones how to act and treat a lady. Into the next boyfriend 🥊 🥊
Knows
Sorry for my incompetence on my phone typing lol
You deserve a boyfriend who wants to treat you right and is proud of you and isn’t a scared pussy worrying about how his ex feels 🥊
I agree. He makes me so sad and i always walk on eggshells. I can't believe im deeply in love with him
Don’t live like that girlie!! Break it off, cut off all communication, never look back, find another nice man!!
I agree with @1828avaava1828! He should be proud to have you as a girlfriend and be willing to introduce you to people! If he is so afraid that he wants to hide you from his ex, walk away. He isn't a relative you share blood ties with (e. g., how you deal with blood relatives is different from Joe Public). He needs a good thump to the skull 🥊 🥊 🥊
@1828RobertToast1828 😊 🥊
Trust me when I say this, @Eira99: The advice @1828avaava1828 gives is quite useful. I have been looking at content about the hip hinge, among other exercises, for example. Because a) I don't have much space at home to store training equipment and b) the gym I frequent closed because of the Wuhan Virus (No, I won't avoid saying things that might cause offense to some people!).
@1828RobertToast1828 woot woot!
I didn’t even have to read your whole story, Dump his ass , he already doesn’t respect you if he is still hanging out with his ex , don’t fall for that shit , kick his ass to the curb